Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below It was brought to my attention tonight by multiple reliable sources that my very recent X-girl of the past year and two months and my best friend of 12 years are fucking. I am absolutely ENRAGED!!!! What the fuck!!! This is not 90210 or fucking Melrose Place!!!! I broke up with her, but still. There are plenty of guys and girls in this wide world and they need to fuck each other??? And keep it secret from me???? I am currently debating what to do. Should I beat the shit out of him? I would like to and I could easily, he's 5'11" and 150 lbs. soaking wet. And I'd like to give my ex a peice of my mind and spit a huge loogie right in her face after downing an IsoPure so I have a real nice fat one for her. Please people, give me some advice. This really pisses me off. I think the thing that bugs me the most is that this whole time she's been telling me how much she loves me and wants me back, but at the same time she's fucking my best friend???!!!???!!! Not only that, but last week I had a moment of weekness, I am in mid-cycle and was VERY horny one night, we got it on that night much to my regret. I mean who knows, the night before that she could have been sucking my boy's dick and then she's gonna kiss my lips??!!??!!?!! ARRGGHHHH!!!! That thought makes me want to vomit and KILL people!!! What should I do with this situation???
Just found out that my VERY recent ex-girlfriend is fucking my best friend!!!!
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Night Fly
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Why don't you ask the most reliable sources, first. Your ex and your best (well, probably ex-best) friend. I have a huge problem with people who automatically assume that something happened without asking the people who were directly involved.
Yes, it is a sucky situation, but you will get through it. Just don't beat up your ex gf or ex best friend...I don't think that would be a good idea.
Yes, it is a sucky situation, but you will get through it. Just don't beat up your ex gf or ex best friend...I don't think that would be a good idea.
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Frackal
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A scandalous bitch. I'm shocked.
Your best friend is a piece of shit too.
Your best friend is a piece of shit too.
GettingLean
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If this pans out to be true, i wouldnt speak to either of them again. No need to get physically violent tho....you dont need charges pressed against you nor a lawsuit. I would definately give them both a piece of your mind if it is true, and let them both know how hurt you are.. Hope this is just a rumor hun, i wish you the best!
GettingLean
GettingLean
jennifer BFL chick
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Sometimes, the best revenge, is the silent treatment.....AFTER, you know for sure this really happened.....
on a side note------shie is your ex, so I don't see the BIG deal
on a side note------shie is your ex, so I don't see the BIG deal
burnedout_too
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I Agree with Frackal all the way
Ok..you don't do that to your friends...
Bros before hoes...and the word hoes is only in there because it rhymes for all you feminists...
Your friend should be maimed by an icepick.
I would give him a piece of his mind and before he even tries giving you some BS excuses walk away and don't talk to him again.
Bros before hoes...and the word hoes is only in there because it rhymes for all you feminists...
Your friend should be maimed by an icepick.
I would give him a piece of his mind and before he even tries giving you some BS excuses walk away and don't talk to him again.
Jimsbbc
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This kind of thing is more common than people realize. Like I have said before - guys are dogs. You cannot trust them with your girl (bottom line). If you think that you can put her down for 2 seconds and expect your boys not to pull a train on her - guess again.
This has happened to me several times. The guy and my ex expected me to be cool with it. I just excommunicated both.
This kind of thing is why I don't have guy friends anymore (less two old school best friends). If you don't know them, what's stopping you from killing them?
This has happened to me several times. The guy and my ex expected me to be cool with it. I just excommunicated both.
This kind of thing is why I don't have guy friends anymore (less two old school best friends). If you don't know them, what's stopping you from killing them?
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Monkey_Power
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Things to do:
Double check yoru sources.. this is a friend you have had for quite some time, so you need to make sure you are perfectly sure they are dating.
Delima:
Just because he is your best friend by no way means he can't date your ex girlfriends. It may be a unwritten rule of conduct, but lets face it we all have different rules we follow. I feel i should say, I wouldnt date any of my friends ex-girlfriends but that is just me
Suggestions:
Assuming #1 is done and you are sure there are a multitude of things you can do and what the reprocutions are
1) Beat his ass! As pissed off as you are, there is no need to get pyshical. Obviously you can pound this dude easily but you can also get sued for everything you own.
2) Tell him face to face. I recommend this one. Sit him down, talk about all the good times you have had with him, and ask him about things friends dont do to other friends. Lead him into a trap, and then see if he tells you. Either way after it comes out, yell a bit (cuz i am sure you will anyway), and walk away.
I am sure your hurt.... but #2 maybe the best option for you
Double check yoru sources.. this is a friend you have had for quite some time, so you need to make sure you are perfectly sure they are dating.
Delima:
Just because he is your best friend by no way means he can't date your ex girlfriends. It may be a unwritten rule of conduct, but lets face it we all have different rules we follow. I feel i should say, I wouldnt date any of my friends ex-girlfriends but that is just me
Suggestions:
Assuming #1 is done and you are sure there are a multitude of things you can do and what the reprocutions are
1) Beat his ass! As pissed off as you are, there is no need to get pyshical. Obviously you can pound this dude easily but you can also get sued for everything you own.
2) Tell him face to face. I recommend this one. Sit him down, talk about all the good times you have had with him, and ask him about things friends dont do to other friends. Lead him into a trap, and then see if he tells you. Either way after it comes out, yell a bit (cuz i am sure you will anyway), and walk away.
I am sure your hurt.... but #2 maybe the best option for you
Alright people, Thanks for the replies so far. I just got back from the apartment where My supposed friend lives where i knew they would both be tonight. As I walked into the door, my supposed "boy" was waiting to shake my hand. Needless to say actually seeing him sent my adrenaline racing. I glared at him and ignored his upraised hand and went immediatley to "Lisa" my ex. I told her we needed to speak privately and took her out to the balcony slamming the bay door in the process. Out side I just paced back and forth while garing at her. I didn't know where to start. "what's wrong" she asks me. I looked at her and said this "how long did you think you could keep this secret?"
"what?" she replied, "what are you talking about?"
"You fucking "Bob" how long did you think you could keep this secret?" The look of shock on her face was pricless. She utterd um a few times and said " I don't know" No denial, just a resigned and shocked, "I dunno". With the confirmation right there I then went loose with a verbal assault of all the things you should not call a female. What really hit home though was when I told her (BTW- she has a 2 year old son, in custody of the father) When I told her that I hope she never gets her son back, that she's a horrible mother and never should have given birth in the first place. What can I say, the truth hurts and she slapped me in the face. I honestly didn't feel a thing. i got nose to nose with her and asked her if that felt good and told her to do it again. So she did with the other hand. I just started to laugh at her which enraged her even more. I let her smack me with a quick little combo once again before I mushed her backwards and Haucked a nice big loog right in her face!! It felt great!! I then went inside, told and of "bob" I wanted to maim him, but told him he wasn't worth it. I told both That I wanted them out of my life forever and that i hope it was worth it you fuckin' low life scumbags. Then I left. I feel better now, a little. i think I shoulda hit him though. Just once right in his grill. I kinda feel like a let him a little too easy. Sorry for the long read guys, but if you read it thanks for letting me vent. People never cease to amaze me with the shit they pull. Peace -diesel420
"what?" she replied, "what are you talking about?"
"You fucking "Bob" how long did you think you could keep this secret?" The look of shock on her face was pricless. She utterd um a few times and said " I don't know" No denial, just a resigned and shocked, "I dunno". With the confirmation right there I then went loose with a verbal assault of all the things you should not call a female. What really hit home though was when I told her (BTW- she has a 2 year old son, in custody of the father) When I told her that I hope she never gets her son back, that she's a horrible mother and never should have given birth in the first place. What can I say, the truth hurts and she slapped me in the face. I honestly didn't feel a thing. i got nose to nose with her and asked her if that felt good and told her to do it again. So she did with the other hand. I just started to laugh at her which enraged her even more. I let her smack me with a quick little combo once again before I mushed her backwards and Haucked a nice big loog right in her face!! It felt great!! I then went inside, told and of "bob" I wanted to maim him, but told him he wasn't worth it. I told both That I wanted them out of my life forever and that i hope it was worth it you fuckin' low life scumbags. Then I left. I feel better now, a little. i think I shoulda hit him though. Just once right in his grill. I kinda feel like a let him a little too easy. Sorry for the long read guys, but if you read it thanks for letting me vent. People never cease to amaze me with the shit they pull. Peace -diesel420
The_Mexican
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Whats the big deal??? They arent cheating on you, so relax. Sure, I guess it would have been nice of them to let you know, and yes, they are in the wrong.... but really, its not that big of a deal.
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Frackal
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diesel420 said:
A true badass. Props to you brotha.
The mexican,
I highly disagree with you. There are plenty of men and women in this world to be with. He was my best friend since 5th fucking grade. Like I said before, in the world of "90210" or "melrose place" this kinda thing is acceptable. But I'm sorry if I have some sense of Honor in a world today where such a thing is looked upon as a weekness.
I highly disagree with you. There are plenty of men and women in this world to be with. He was my best friend since 5th fucking grade. Like I said before, in the world of "90210" or "melrose place" this kinda thing is acceptable. But I'm sorry if I have some sense of Honor in a world today where such a thing is looked upon as a weekness.
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KAYNE
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DEISEL
I FEEL YA MAN. BUT YOU GOTTA ASK YOURSELF, HOW GOOD OF A FRIEND IS HE REALLY IF HE WOULD DO THIS TO YOU. I WOULDNT HOOK UP WITH ANY OF MY BOYZ EX'S. ITS UP TO YOU HOW YOU HANDLE THIS BUT TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH, YOU AND HE WILL MOST LIKELY BE FRIENDS AGAIN ONE DAY. THE PART ABOUT HER TELLING YOU SHE LOVES YOU AND WANTS YOU BACK WHILE SCREWING HIM WOULD SET ME OFF TO. HONESTLY, I WOULD HAVE BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HIM FOR THAT REASON AND MADE HER WATCH. AT THE VERY LEAST, HE SHOULD HAVE COME TO YOU AND TOLD YOU ABOUT IT TO TRY TO KEEP THINGS ON A CIVIL LEVEL. HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN A MAN ABOUT THE SITUATION. HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT MAN. LATE.
KAYNE
I FEEL YA MAN. BUT YOU GOTTA ASK YOURSELF, HOW GOOD OF A FRIEND IS HE REALLY IF HE WOULD DO THIS TO YOU. I WOULDNT HOOK UP WITH ANY OF MY BOYZ EX'S. ITS UP TO YOU HOW YOU HANDLE THIS BUT TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH, YOU AND HE WILL MOST LIKELY BE FRIENDS AGAIN ONE DAY. THE PART ABOUT HER TELLING YOU SHE LOVES YOU AND WANTS YOU BACK WHILE SCREWING HIM WOULD SET ME OFF TO. HONESTLY, I WOULD HAVE BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HIM FOR THAT REASON AND MADE HER WATCH. AT THE VERY LEAST, HE SHOULD HAVE COME TO YOU AND TOLD YOU ABOUT IT TO TRY TO KEEP THINGS ON A CIVIL LEVEL. HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN A MAN ABOUT THE SITUATION. HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT MAN. LATE.
KAYNE
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KAYNE
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MEXICAN
ITS EASY TO SIT HERE AND TYPE THAT BUT WHEN FEELINGS ARE INVOLVED, ITS NOT THAT SIMPLE.
DEISEL
WHY DID YOU BREAK UP WITH HER (IF YOU DONT MIND ME ASKING)? ALSO, HOW GOODLOOKING IS SHE? IF SHE IS TOTALLY FINE, THAT MAKES IT THAT MUCH HARDER.
KAYNE
ITS EASY TO SIT HERE AND TYPE THAT BUT WHEN FEELINGS ARE INVOLVED, ITS NOT THAT SIMPLE.
DEISEL
WHY DID YOU BREAK UP WITH HER (IF YOU DONT MIND ME ASKING)? ALSO, HOW GOODLOOKING IS SHE? IF SHE IS TOTALLY FINE, THAT MAKES IT THAT MUCH HARDER.
KAYNE
Kayne- She is pretty nice, I've had hotter but she's pretty nice. I broke up with her becuse she was putting way too much pressure on me about marriage and the like. I had asked her multiple times to stop and she would always find a way to bring it up or sneak it in to a comment or conversation it had no place being. We just startd to fight all the time and I became unhappy with the relationship. I told her I needed some time apart to think things out and come to terms with where I stood. But she obviously moved right along.
frackal- thanks for the props
jimsbbc- Thanks for the support bro.
frackal- thanks for the props
jimsbbc- Thanks for the support bro.
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KAYNE
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IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL ANY BETTER, I JUST BROKE UP WITH MY EX AND NOW SHE IS SCREWING 3 BLACK DUDES. AND THE FUNNY THING ABOUT IT IS, I DONT EVEN CARE!!! SHE WAS ONLY GOOD FOR ONE THING ANYWAY. I DID IT ALL FOR THE NOOKIE!!! LOL
KAYNE
KAYNE
Lord_Suston
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GettingLean said:If this pans out to be true, i wouldnt speak to either of them again. No need to get physically violent tho....you dont need charges pressed against you nor a lawsuit. I would definately give them both a piece of your mind if it is true, and let them both know how hurt you are.. Hope this is just a rumor hun, i wish you the best!
GettingLean
tell them how hurt you are... what kinda shit is that... find whether they did it then I would plan my revenge down the line and wait untill the right time.. He's not your best friend and she is a whore....
if he was a true frine he would have asked you if it was ok since this wasn't a short relationship....
Milhouse
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aww cmon gimme a fucking break.
First off she isnt your girlfriend and what she does or who she does is her business not yours. A
This thing about 'Bros before hos" is fucking horseshit.
Personally if you came over to my house and pulled that bullshit because I was dating your e I would beat the fuck out of you.
And I am saying this because you said all kinds of shit to her how she is a bad km etc so it bringsme to the fact that you dont give a shit about her anyways so why are you acting like an idiot. "oH I am on test and he is 150lbs I a badass because I now weigh 180lbs on my cycle"
Its guys like you that makes bodybuiding look bad.
Get over yourself
Plus I think your full of shit and did dick.
First off she isnt your girlfriend and what she does or who she does is her business not yours. A
This thing about 'Bros before hos" is fucking horseshit.
Personally if you came over to my house and pulled that bullshit because I was dating your e I would beat the fuck out of you.
And I am saying this because you said all kinds of shit to her how she is a bad km etc so it bringsme to the fact that you dont give a shit about her anyways so why are you acting like an idiot. "oH I am on test and he is 150lbs I a badass because I now weigh 180lbs on my cycle"
Its guys like you that makes bodybuiding look bad.
Get over yourself
Plus I think your full of shit and did dick.
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JohnyJuice
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Kayne, how does it feel to know that it took 3 men to fill your condom i mean shoes? Feels good, doesnt it. I laugh when my ex's turn into whores after i break up with them, cause i know they are trying desperatly to find a guy who will dig them out like i did.
Deisel, well done. That guy is a piece of shit, and obviously values his getting some ass over your emotional well being. Fuck him. You should have punched him once though. Right in the stomach, and watched him tople over and curl up on the ground like a bitch. The punch to the stomach is one of my favorites. It doesnt do any damage that i will get in trouble for, like breaking a nose or jaw, and it makes the person double over and whine.
Deisel, well done. That guy is a piece of shit, and obviously values his getting some ass over your emotional well being. Fuck him. You should have punched him once though. Right in the stomach, and watched him tople over and curl up on the ground like a bitch. The punch to the stomach is one of my favorites. It doesnt do any damage that i will get in trouble for, like breaking a nose or jaw, and it makes the person double over and whine.
Milhouse said:
SERIOUSLY. I agree 100%. This is all about being hurt by a
chick who still had the poster whupped. He even alluded to it
by saying they had hooked up a few days prior to his finding
out she was fucking his best friend.
1) The girl is his ex. HIS EX. It would be entirely different if
she were still his girlfriend....but shit, there is no property right
over ex-gf's... none. It's this type of cro-magnon thinking that
makes me sick.
2) To the dude who spat in the girl's face... you ain't a hero,
bro, you're a fucking coward. Way to take it out a girl who isn't
even your girl. I know you're hurt and it sucks dick. But be a
fucking man... get over it and get over your self.
No offense, I don't know you from Adam... but getting this
riled up from an ex-girlfriend's actions? Shit, something you
ain't telling us, bro...
Milhouse- Thanks for your opinion. I know the truth and thats really all that matters. I'm sorry you feel the way you do. Actually, You're exactly like my supposed friend. TO ALLTHE "FRIENDS" OF MILHOUSE!!! Look out, if you've been dating a girl for a while and you break up, Milhouse will fuck her behind your back!!! Like I said before, I am sorry you feel the way you do and I'm sorry if I have a code of ethics that is so rare in the world today. You serve as a good example to prove that point.
And to Icon,
Don't know if you have a girl right now, but if you do and things don't work out between you two, the day after you break up just send her over to my place and I'll blow her back out in a manner you could never dream of. Again, you serve as a prime example of fucked up bro's in this world who don't respect shit. Don't blame me because you have no honor in your life. No chivalry in your sole. You and milhouse mine as well go back to your "90210" world and find out which one of you will fuck Brenda next.
Don't know if you have a girl right now, but if you do and things don't work out between you two, the day after you break up just send her over to my place and I'll blow her back out in a manner you could never dream of. Again, you serve as a prime example of fucked up bro's in this world who don't respect shit. Don't blame me because you have no honor in your life. No chivalry in your sole. You and milhouse mine as well go back to your "90210" world and find out which one of you will fuck Brenda next.
diesel420 said:
I understand that life can suck at times. But all this talk of
"chivalry" and "honor" really makes me laugh. You think you're
some kind of hero for what you've done? Your ex-girlfriend found
other dick... shit, that happens EVERY FUCKING DAY. You want
a medal for going ape-shit in some confrontation you had with
her??? You are hurt and that is understandable. You probably
thinking, "damn, what's my boy got that I don't got?" "why's
she hoping on his cock so fast now?" Thus, you're all defensive
and shit and calling out other people's sexual abilities. This is
all cool and really I don't take any offense.
But the bottom line is: LIFE GOES ON. The girl obviously isn't
for you. Have a fucking backbone, bro, and keep your head up.
Spitting in your ex-gf's face speaks not of honor, nor of chivalry.
My thinking is you're really hurt by the girl's actions--that you
sensed you could eventually patch things up. And when she
went running to your best friend rather than to you, that pissed
you off. This is understandable and I'm not saying if I were in
your shoes I would not be an angry mofo. What i'm saying is
SHUT THE FUCK UP about HONOR and CHIVALRY. And 90210,
too, for that matter...
Icon,
Never did I ask for a medal and never did say I think I'm some sort of hero. In fact, in a few days when emotions calm down and I sit back and think about it..... I probably will regret spitting in her face. It shows that she got me. Probably gave her what she wanted in the long run. But thats what life is about. You live and learn. The important thing is not to make the same mistakes twice. It just kills me that two people I thought I knew so well would betray me in such a manner. I would never have done something like this to him. I thought our 12 year friendship ran deeper then a girl. There are plenty of nice and attractive girls in this world. He just chose the way he did and I reacted the way I did. It happened. I'll deal with it. Thanks for your opinion, after all that is what this board is about.
Never did I ask for a medal and never did say I think I'm some sort of hero. In fact, in a few days when emotions calm down and I sit back and think about it..... I probably will regret spitting in her face. It shows that she got me. Probably gave her what she wanted in the long run. But thats what life is about. You live and learn. The important thing is not to make the same mistakes twice. It just kills me that two people I thought I knew so well would betray me in such a manner. I would never have done something like this to him. I thought our 12 year friendship ran deeper then a girl. There are plenty of nice and attractive girls in this world. He just chose the way he did and I reacted the way I did. It happened. I'll deal with it. Thanks for your opinion, after all that is what this board is about.
This all comes down to respect. Treat others how you would be like to be treated. Tell you what. I would not want to do that to any of my friends and i would not want them to do that to me. Does that not sound fair to you clowns Icon and Milhouse?
So, the girl is obviously a write off but she also fucking stabbed him in the back and as well for his friend he did the same. Anyone that is saying they want him back and than fucking his best friend was out to do some damage. Do you think she gave a fuck about him when she was fucking his best friend? No way! Do you think the friend cared? No fucking way.
Obviously, you two little twerps should find some real friends because a real friend wouldn't do that shit.
So, the girl is obviously a write off but she also fucking stabbed him in the back and as well for his friend he did the same. Anyone that is saying they want him back and than fucking his best friend was out to do some damage. Do you think she gave a fuck about him when she was fucking his best friend? No way! Do you think the friend cared? No fucking way.
Obviously, you two little twerps should find some real friends because a real friend wouldn't do that shit.
havoc
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Damn man, funny post in a way, sorry you are in this situation, I understand when you say that there are plenty of men and women out there, thing is is that these two have probably been thinking about each other for awhile now, so after it was over they both just said "fuck it, its time to do this", they are both thinking with there sex drive. I have done the same thing to a real good friend, my explanation was that "it is over between you and her" , which it was and I was thinking with my dick, if I could go back and do it again I would do it better. Again, sorry you are in this situation, however, you and girl are no more and when a man and a woman are horny , the sky is the limit. peacediesel420 said:
MrMuscle
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She is your ex, not your property. I agree its shitty, but no use making antything more out of it. If you dislike the actions done, just break your friendship. No use getting all up in a knot. You think she would never fuck another guy? She allready has a kid, that she DIDNT get custody over, you should think that would give you a pointer to what kind of a person this is. next time, you may wanna find a better girl. Just let it drop. You are hard working and have have achivements of your own. ocus on them for a while, and yu'll soon get over this shit.
Stay strong, and above all, keep your head screwed on right. Most girls aint worth but a buck-o-five. I guarantee you this wont be the last time you get screwed. Shit happends.
Stay strong, and above all, keep your head screwed on right. Most girls aint worth but a buck-o-five. I guarantee you this wont be the last time you get screwed. Shit happends.
Longhorn85
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diesel420 said:
There is clear solution here to solidify your friendship and diss your ex-girl. To sum it up in one word: TAGTEAM
FreakMonster
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I agree that he has a right to be pissed. His best-friend and ex-GF were fucking eachother behind his back and were keeping it a secret from him acting like nothing was going on. THAT RIGHT there deserves a beat down on the best friend. I don't care what anyone says.
Obviously diesel loved this girl and what she did was shitty.
Icon and Millhouse. I hope one day you break up with a girl you truly love because when I'm there to fuck her brains out you better not come knocking on my door!!!!
Obviously diesel loved this girl and what she did was shitty.
Icon and Millhouse. I hope one day you break up with a girl you truly love because when I'm there to fuck her brains out you better not come knocking on my door!!!!
thefantom1
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Like was said before.... X-them both out of your life.... your Ex actually did you a favor by allowing your "Best Friends" colors really come out... He was not the person you thought he was...same shit happened to me...best friends since 4 years old.... and he did the same shit.. (we had broken up 3 days before...because of him) and he was nailing her...they are married now but I haven't talked to either of them since..... been 10 years......
i'm suprised nobody has thought of this:
ever heard of a "grudge fuck"?
she is boinking your best friend to get back at you for breaking up with her. she knows who your friends are, she figures if she is miserable over the breakup she will hurt you anyway she can.
and she has!
if you beat up or cut your friend outta your life, you are doing just what she wants you to do.
she's NOT your gf anymore; this is your wounded male pride making you feel bad over this. she has shown her true colors, dude, you're lucky to be rid of this bitch.
keep your bud, find another gf worthy of you and MOVE ON!!!!
ever heard of a "grudge fuck"?
she is boinking your best friend to get back at you for breaking up with her. she knows who your friends are, she figures if she is miserable over the breakup she will hurt you anyway she can.
and she has!
if you beat up or cut your friend outta your life, you are doing just what she wants you to do.
she's NOT your gf anymore; this is your wounded male pride making you feel bad over this. she has shown her true colors, dude, you're lucky to be rid of this bitch.
keep your bud, find another gf worthy of you and MOVE ON!!!!
c-sharp minor
Well-known member
Dude, I was in this exact situation. My best friend always lusted after my gf. He was also jealous that I got 10 women to his 1. He was also distrustful of his own gf's around me.
Well, the one woman I was in love with dumps me and 2 fucking days later he jumps right in there to fuck her. Talk about low class.
Needless to say, I haven't spoken to this ignorant bastard, (my supposesd best friend), in 8 years.
People will let you down 90% of the time if given the chance. At least, that has been my experience.
Well, the one woman I was in love with dumps me and 2 fucking days later he jumps right in there to fuck her. Talk about low class.
Needless to say, I haven't spoken to this ignorant bastard, (my supposesd best friend), in 8 years.
People will let you down 90% of the time if given the chance. At least, that has been my experience.
THeMaCHinE
New member
I haven't read all of the replies; but here's the deal. If you can establish that there is truth to this, then fuck them both. Neither are your friend.
You are comfortable with him, you've known him for 12 years, et. al. But he is not your friend. How people act at their weakest moment, not when things are good, is the true measure of character. (If it's true) He's lying to you, betraying you, probably talking shit about you behind your back with her since she's giving him a piece -- you can bet that for sure he's not defending you if she says something shitty...
Like somebody said earlier, he is a piece of shit (if true) and he (and she) should be ex-communicated. Never another word. Nothing. Fuck him.
Not fair, but neither is life. Move on. You can find friends and girlfriends that have the capacity to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Look at this as an opportunity.
P.S. To catch him, just call him, or confront him and say "Girl's name" told me everything -- how could you as my friend be fucking her? And while I was going out with her?" See if he spills. Don't approach him in a threatening manner (hard, I know) but rather in a non-confrontational, you are my best-friend, we can work this out, but I need to know the truth manner. As soon as he admits to it. Boom, you're out. If he won't admit to it, IMMEDIATELY (before he has time to call her) call her and try the same routine. Because she's not attached to you anymore, she may tell you. (However, her word is suspect to say the least). The best bet is to get him to admit it. But, on the other hand, if its coming from two friends that you trust implicitly, then it's very likely true. Have they actually seen it, or are they just drawing conclusions?
Either way. Keep your head up.
And if you find out it is true, seriously, get them both out of your life -- they are not good for you.
You are comfortable with him, you've known him for 12 years, et. al. But he is not your friend. How people act at their weakest moment, not when things are good, is the true measure of character. (If it's true) He's lying to you, betraying you, probably talking shit about you behind your back with her since she's giving him a piece -- you can bet that for sure he's not defending you if she says something shitty...
Like somebody said earlier, he is a piece of shit (if true) and he (and she) should be ex-communicated. Never another word. Nothing. Fuck him.
Not fair, but neither is life. Move on. You can find friends and girlfriends that have the capacity to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Look at this as an opportunity.
P.S. To catch him, just call him, or confront him and say "Girl's name" told me everything -- how could you as my friend be fucking her? And while I was going out with her?" See if he spills. Don't approach him in a threatening manner (hard, I know) but rather in a non-confrontational, you are my best-friend, we can work this out, but I need to know the truth manner. As soon as he admits to it. Boom, you're out. If he won't admit to it, IMMEDIATELY (before he has time to call her) call her and try the same routine. Because she's not attached to you anymore, she may tell you. (However, her word is suspect to say the least). The best bet is to get him to admit it. But, on the other hand, if its coming from two friends that you trust implicitly, then it's very likely true. Have they actually seen it, or are they just drawing conclusions?
Either way. Keep your head up.
And if you find out it is true, seriously, get them both out of your life -- they are not good for you.
NY Muscle
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diesel420 you are my twin brother from another mother! i luv u man! there is NOTHING better than spitting in some filthy, disrespectful ex girlfriends face...thats like 100 times more satisfying than ever laying a hand on her...props to you man!
What did she do after u spit on her? she cry?
also im a SICK MOTHERFUCKER...my EX FRIEND did the same shit to me...so what I did was I shrugged it off..for the next year i got even closer to him, like the closest we ever were, but i was SCHEAMING (sp?) the whole time..anyway one night he had some beef at a club with some dude...we broke it up...i knew the guy from my area. it was funny becuase they had beef oevr some ex slut they both were close with...anyway I ended up running into the dude who had beef with my "boy" he asked if id PLEASE stay out of it as he dont want any beef with me...i said "not only will i NOT stay out of it, I INTEND ON BEATING HIS ASS WITH YOU" he looked at me with a look of shock and happiness, hes like bro why wassup? i told him and hes like damn kid ur a sick fuck..he thinks ur his best buddy...i said yes HE DOES
2 weeks later me and my "boy" saw the dude at a club again, i had already discussed on the phone to the dude what was the plan...se he started with my boy again...i took my boy aside and said...lets take this outside..i got ur back...ill break his neck...so we go outside...they get face to face...i break it up for a second..i say "hold on a 2nd, i have something to say" as i looked at the dude as if i was gonna hit him...i turned to my boy..i said...hey BOY pay back is a bitch..he is like HUH...i took him by the neck..dragged him to the wall in the alley...beat his ass until he literally cryed and couldnt move...we left him there..never heard from him since..
diesel420 let me take this punk out for u..i hate SCUM like that!!
What did she do after u spit on her? she cry?
also im a SICK MOTHERFUCKER...my EX FRIEND did the same shit to me...so what I did was I shrugged it off..for the next year i got even closer to him, like the closest we ever were, but i was SCHEAMING (sp?) the whole time..anyway one night he had some beef at a club with some dude...we broke it up...i knew the guy from my area. it was funny becuase they had beef oevr some ex slut they both were close with...anyway I ended up running into the dude who had beef with my "boy" he asked if id PLEASE stay out of it as he dont want any beef with me...i said "not only will i NOT stay out of it, I INTEND ON BEATING HIS ASS WITH YOU" he looked at me with a look of shock and happiness, hes like bro why wassup? i told him and hes like damn kid ur a sick fuck..he thinks ur his best buddy...i said yes HE DOES
2 weeks later me and my "boy" saw the dude at a club again, i had already discussed on the phone to the dude what was the plan...se he started with my boy again...i took my boy aside and said...lets take this outside..i got ur back...ill break his neck...so we go outside...they get face to face...i break it up for a second..i say "hold on a 2nd, i have something to say" as i looked at the dude as if i was gonna hit him...i turned to my boy..i said...hey BOY pay back is a bitch..he is like HUH...i took him by the neck..dragged him to the wall in the alley...beat his ass until he literally cryed and couldnt move...we left him there..never heard from him since..
diesel420 let me take this punk out for u..i hate SCUM like that!!
pushing_fe
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NY Muscle said:
Dude that is pretty ruthless! Watch your back bro, you never know who will come with a 9.
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dballer
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I know the feeling. I had it happen to me.. but it was not my best friend. Instead.. it was some kid I used to stick up for in high school.. cause he was too much of a butch to stand up for himself.
anyhow.. here is what I did...
this kid worked at a bar.. so I went in there when he had a full bar and confronted him. He knew he had nowhere to run. So he started to get teary eyed and he stared shaking. I yelled at him and made him get on his knees in front of a bar full of people who would be tipping him.. and he cried and begged in front of all of the regulars.. I knew they would never respect him again. After smashing his manhood to pieces in front of a crowd.. I had to leave cause I thought the cops were gonna come. Now (3 years later) I let him know that his punishment is not over. I plan on bumping into him and finishing off the job. At the time I was soo mad I knew if I actually hit him.. I would not quit. So I had to walk away after making him cry. But I still have alot of built up aggression for him. I plan to eradicate it sometime.
anyhow.. here is what I did...
this kid worked at a bar.. so I went in there when he had a full bar and confronted him. He knew he had nowhere to run. So he started to get teary eyed and he stared shaking. I yelled at him and made him get on his knees in front of a bar full of people who would be tipping him.. and he cried and begged in front of all of the regulars.. I knew they would never respect him again. After smashing his manhood to pieces in front of a crowd.. I had to leave cause I thought the cops were gonna come. Now (3 years later) I let him know that his punishment is not over. I plan on bumping into him and finishing off the job. At the time I was soo mad I knew if I actually hit him.. I would not quit. So I had to walk away after making him cry. But I still have alot of built up aggression for him. I plan to eradicate it sometime.
fistfullofsteel
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your best friend is a piece of fucking shit and so is your skank fucking ex-girlfriend. the fucking cunt was jocking you to marry her and then she fucks your best friend that you have been with since you were a little kid.
the rest of you mother fuckers talking shit are full of shit.
the rest of you mother fuckers talking shit are full of shit.
diesel420 said:
Who cares? Go live your own life and stop worrying about others.
FreakMonster
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Threads like this make me not want to trust any ho's ever.
Milhouse
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Well first of all let me clarify a few things
Did this ever happen to me?
Yes a couple of times.
Did I act like an idiot too?
Yes I did.
Did I gain anything from the experience?
Nope
Would I have wasted my time pulling shit like this again?
Nope.
Have I ever gone out with any of my friends ex girlfriends?
Nope
Would I?
If opportunity knocked and they were finished why the hell not? You only live once.In all fairness I would tell my friend too. I think I am being his friend by telling him and him accepting it now or later tells me he is a friend too.I do agree that what diesals friend did by not telling him was not kosher but maybe he did now know how.
Another point. All you guys who are going "fuck him up, thats wrong blah blah fucking blah" ok like you guys would not fucking hesitate to bang your ex's little female friends if opportunity knocked.
Point being unless you are married to the person then once you break up well who gives a shit who she bangs?Marriage being different as it is a commitment way bigger then some fucking guy going out with your ex- GF, not wife, not mother of your kids, your FUCKING EX GIRLFRIEND.get over it.
Love and lust are weird things and when opportunity knocks so dont ever say "never would I do something like this"
Finally my personal opinion and with my own experiences of getting out of control and doing/saying irrational things tells me that the REAL REASON we get riled up because our buddy goes out/fucks our ex gf has less to do with the fact that our buddys are doing this but more to the fact that we are afraid(read insecure) that maybe he will be more sucessful with her then we are.
I think that point makes alot of sense.
Did this ever happen to me?
Yes a couple of times.
Did I act like an idiot too?
Yes I did.
Did I gain anything from the experience?
Nope
Would I have wasted my time pulling shit like this again?
Nope.
Have I ever gone out with any of my friends ex girlfriends?
Nope
Would I?
If opportunity knocked and they were finished why the hell not? You only live once.In all fairness I would tell my friend too. I think I am being his friend by telling him and him accepting it now or later tells me he is a friend too.I do agree that what diesals friend did by not telling him was not kosher but maybe he did now know how.
Another point. All you guys who are going "fuck him up, thats wrong blah blah fucking blah" ok like you guys would not fucking hesitate to bang your ex's little female friends if opportunity knocked.
Point being unless you are married to the person then once you break up well who gives a shit who she bangs?Marriage being different as it is a commitment way bigger then some fucking guy going out with your ex- GF, not wife, not mother of your kids, your FUCKING EX GIRLFRIEND.get over it.
Love and lust are weird things and when opportunity knocks so dont ever say "never would I do something like this"
Finally my personal opinion and with my own experiences of getting out of control and doing/saying irrational things tells me that the REAL REASON we get riled up because our buddy goes out/fucks our ex gf has less to do with the fact that our buddys are doing this but more to the fact that we are afraid(read insecure) that maybe he will be more sucessful with her then we are.
I think that point makes alot of sense.
NY Muscle
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Milhouse said:
No REAL friend does that shit...if you would even consider dating one of your boys ex girls then you are scum...i would NEVER even THINK of it, dating my boys ex..and if i did they have EVERY RIGHT to want to beat my ass...I guess being Italian and raised the way i was and having the notion of RESPECT instilled upon me makes me the way i am today.
And it has NOTHING to do with insecurity..i could give 2 shits if my ex banged someone i didnt know..good for her...but banging my friend..um no..that is unacceptable.
THeMaCHinE
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Well, they're still fucking (she's fucking them both); and she's still saying she wants to be with him, so I think the situation is not so cut and dry as if she and he were completely split.
Milhouse
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NY Muscle said:
No that does not make me scum at all, just honest cause you guys who say never well like they say 'never say never"
The way I look at it is this. If it did not work out between me and her well who am I to stand in her way or anyone elses(including a friends)? No matter how pissed off I would get(And I would be lying if I said I would not get pissed off, but I am mature enough to get over it eventually) I am still not with her in the end anyways.
I mean how many of you guys including myself have ever said "he is my friend but he does not realize how lucky he is and if I had the chance I could treat her better" or something similar along those lines.
Main reason I would not go out with 99% of the people I know ex gf's is because I have already heard or seen how spun some of these chicks are so why would I want to bring these bitches misery into my life.
But all the dudes saying "yeah I would beat my friends ass lemme ask a question. What if your friend in question was the resident psycho of your group of friends and you know no matter how hard you tried he would end up beating your ass. I think these guys would not be saying shit because at that point it would not be worth it.
And dont anybody tell me that they are capable of winning a fight with anyone they go against cause now your really bullshitting me.
Besides I enjoy playing devils advocate here.
NY Muscle
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Milhouse said:
Thats why they made bats... I have a few friends that i wouldnt even joke about fighting and they know it cause they are sick fucks and ive seen some of them take on 4 guys alone like it was a walk in the park..they also know id crack their skull waiting by their house at 6am and thats why they would NEVER piss me off... There are also certain people that I wouldnt even get my hands dirty with because (no matter if they can fight or not) they are such scum or did something so bad that a baseball bat beatdown is warrented.
Let me ask you...if some dude raped your mom...and you know you cant kick his ass...like Hulkster says "watcha gonna do?"
Milhouse
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NY Muscle said:
Yes but comparing kicking some guys ass for fucking your ex to doing it when your mom gets raped is pretty moronic to compare.
If some guy rapes your mom you do whatever is necessary no matter who he is. Simple as that.
Fuck I cannot believe your trying to debate there being no difference to some guy fucking your ex to raping your mom.
In that case there is no debate and you lose the argument right there.
Dont waste my time with stupid comparisons like that.
Come up with something better next time.
K
KAYNE
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JohnyJuice said:
LMAO!!!........ACTUALLY, SHE WAS A WHORE BEFORE I MET HER. SHE IS AN NFL GROUPIE MEANING SHE THOUGHT SHE WAS "DATING" FOOTBALL PLAYERS. HAHA YEAH RIGHT. SHE STILL TILL THIS DAY ACTUALLY THINKS SHE WAS DATING A COUPLE. AND THEY DIDNT EVEN LIVE IN THE SAME STATE!!! ANYWAY, SHE IS VERY FINE AND CAN BE THE NICEST CHICK IN THE WORLD. I GUESS THATS WHAT ATTRACTED ME TO HER. BUT SHE IS A DIRTY WHORE WHO WAS NVR WITH A WHITE GUY BEFORE ME AND NOW SHE IS BACK TO THE BLACK DUDES. NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT BUT I AM THE ONLY PERSON WHO HAS EVER TREATED HER LIKE THEY CARED FOR HER AND DIDNT CHEAT ON HER. ENOUGH ABOUT THAT WHORE. SHE IS TRASH!!! LOL
MILHOUSE
I'M GLAD YOU ARENT MY FRIEND MAN. HOW MANY FRIEND DO YOU HAVE AND HOW MANY OF THEIR GF'S/EXGF'S HAVE YOU TRIED TO GET WITH??? YOU SUCK MAN!!!
KAYNE
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dballer
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NY Muscle said:
you godamned right.
I became enraged halfway through reading alot of replys actually "against" this guy for his bitch and ex boy fuckin him over. I don't know what soup kitchen you mother fuckers pick you friends up at but me and my closest boys have a bond as close as blood if one of them did something like this to me I would be fucking his ass straight up without question, there is a unspoken code among "MEN" maybe not you desperate "i need ass so bad I don't care who I fuck over" pussy ass bitches but among true MEN there is that code it doesn't matter if I dumped this fucking cunt 5 months ago, if he decides he wants to move in he better ask me first or there is hell to pay. I don't know what kinda friends you fuckers have but you might need to find some new ones if you can just go behind your supposed "friends" backs and fuck their former so's. Big D I think you did the right thing man fuck that bitch but I would have personally hit your friend with a left hook in the liver and left him laying there on the ground on my way out, to leave without smashing him a good one is a travesty. Peace
Drizz
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NY Muscle
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Milhouse said:
Hey genius…we are not discussing what’s worse than what the mom or ex girl situation..you said”
’””””””””””””””But all the dudes saying "yeah I would beat my friends ass lemme ask a question. What if your friend in question was the resident psycho of your group of friends and you know no matter how hard you tried he would end up beating your ass. I think these guys would not be saying shit because at that point it would not be worth it.
And dont anybody tell me that they are capable of winning a fight with anyone they go against cause now your really bullshitting me. “”””””””””””””””
So like I said you better believe id still be saying it…my buddy is 275 5 foot 8 and lean and used to fight in the UFC..hes a PSYCHO I seen him mall 4 guys like a JOKE…but he knows if he ever fucked with me id crack his skull like it was nothing…that’s the point…who gives a shit if the guys a psycho and maybe i/we cant beat him up..that’s not gonna stop us from saying we will kick his ass or kicking his ass. That’s the point you brought up and that’s the point im replying to.
Understand
Thanks to you all who gave me support with post and comments. To the few who disagree with me...........all I can say is you are probably the same type of person my "supposed" friend is and really not worth my time anyway,
To NY muscle- Thanks for your responses bro. Just thinking about those things brings a small smile to my face. After sleeping on this, I'm gonna try and be the better person here. I don't plan on speaking to either one of them EVER again and hopefully I'll find some real friends and a girl who is not a whore. I will say this however, If I end up coming face to face with the mutha fucka in the next few days, I hope I can control myself.
To NY muscle- Thanks for your responses bro. Just thinking about those things brings a small smile to my face. After sleeping on this, I'm gonna try and be the better person here. I don't plan on speaking to either one of them EVER again and hopefully I'll find some real friends and a girl who is not a whore. I will say this however, If I end up coming face to face with the mutha fucka in the next few days, I hope I can control myself.
THeMaCHinE
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diesel420 said:
Good call! You'll come out stronger for it.
Milhouse
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Yep and dudes who run aorund getting into fights with friends over chicks usually get thier asses handed to them sooner or later.
Hey Kayne re read my posts, no where did I say I have done that to any friends of mine. But if I was in love with a chick and just because she used to be with a friend of mine would not stop me from pursuing a relationship with her. And he would be the first to know too. And if doesnt like it tough shit.
Some of you guys on here are so full of shit with your tough guy heroics its laughable. Half of you would do shit if this happened to you except sit there and stew.
Anyways I am finished with this thread. No matter what I say here because it is contrary to the rest of the sheep means I am just a jerk because I refuse to tow the line with the rest of you fucking bullshitting pussies.
Most of you single dudes would stick your dicks in anything female that spread her legs in a New York minute if you knew you would not get caught.
BTW how many of you dudes hit on the married women on here. Maybe its not your buddys wife but really it is someone elses wife.
Hey Kayne re read my posts, no where did I say I have done that to any friends of mine. But if I was in love with a chick and just because she used to be with a friend of mine would not stop me from pursuing a relationship with her. And he would be the first to know too. And if doesnt like it tough shit.
Some of you guys on here are so full of shit with your tough guy heroics its laughable. Half of you would do shit if this happened to you except sit there and stew.
Anyways I am finished with this thread. No matter what I say here because it is contrary to the rest of the sheep means I am just a jerk because I refuse to tow the line with the rest of you fucking bullshitting pussies.
Most of you single dudes would stick your dicks in anything female that spread her legs in a New York minute if you knew you would not get caught.
BTW how many of you dudes hit on the married women on here. Maybe its not your buddys wife but really it is someone elses wife.
NY Muscle
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Milhouse said:
You must live in like IDAHO...
come chill with me and diesel420 in NY/NJ take ya down to brooklyn have some pasta with my cousins...take you out...show you how sick some of us really can be.
Bottom line is, i would NOT take a bat to someone who fucked my ex..no need to...rough his ass up a little bit yes...the bat comes out of what was done was so haneus (sp?) and outright disgusting (like rape or some shit) but over a stuipd ex trick who shows no respect..nah i am not going to jail over a peice of meat like that.
Milhouse..i cant even tell you what one of my boys would do to me if i even said his ex girl/wife had a nice ass..let alone fuck her...GOD FORBID the thought....
Some of us take this shit seriously...its respect..nothing more..if you dont got it..you dont got it...most people get their ass beat because they need a lesson in respect... the thought of even getting close enough to one of your boys ex girl to fall in love with her...to me is INSANE..but you have no problem with it..hey thats you..this is me. No hard feelings.
NY Muscle said:
Must be somethin in the italian blood that causes us to have more respect than the common man eh. I feel it all comes down to that RESPECT for your friends the bond you have between them its more than any "skank bitch" can divide at least between your true friends, he didn't respect your friendship diesel so you should show him the same fuck his ass up like has been mentioned eariler, its amazing what a pillowcase and a ballbat can accomplish. Oh and on another note if your ex bitch has a sister, make it a point to bone her trust me this works QUITE WELL as I have done this in the past and it creates quite the "drama sequence" when the sisters start fighting because the one fucks you after she knows the other one did first *cackles* ahh good times.
Drizz
NY Muscle
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Drizzt said:
Let me add…fucking your buddys girl or your ex girls sister or best friend is WAY better revenge than kicking the guys ass…that’s my opinion..well that gets the ex whore back so get your guy friend back by doing his sis or girl or something otherwise just beat his ass lol……ive done it to my old boss to be honest…that prick betrayed my TRUST he didn’t even touch a girl or ex girl of mine but he did/said something he shouldn’t have…so like a man I asked him to meet me for drinks and discuss what was going on…not only did this prick fuck admit to what he said/did he justified it and said he would do it again….so I courted his girl…a fitness model and school teacher…im no way her type and never in a million yrs would he think hes goody goody girl and very possible future wife would even hug me let along fuck me..i courted her for 2 whole yrs…then we started fucking like sex deprived catholic schoolgirls…man she was a freak…the WHOLE town knew…cause EVERYONE knows me and I wanted it to get back to my boss w/o me telling him because its more embarrassing and hurtful that way…man the whole town would laugh at him when they waked by him because they knew what was going on….in the end when he found out he STILL wouldn’t believe it..she even denied it..then finally admitted it but down played it like we only banged 3 times…lemme tell u it was the greatest/nastiest/dirtiest sex…man I took this chic to a sec club in NYC..HOLY FAWK this girl is a freak!! Needless to say I got that punk back..IMAGINE what I would have done if he had fucked an ex girl lol oh boy…
"Love and lust are weird things and when opportunity knocks so dont ever say "never would I do something like this" Millhouse
OK...that is seriously the dumbest thing i have ever heard. That's like not handling your alcahol and if you can't handle it than STAY THE FUCK AWAY! You can't blame it on 'lust', that is hogwash.
I know for a fact i would never do shit like that.
You said you would tell your buddy if you got involved with his ex and if he didn't like it too bad...bolshit, that is the most selfish thing i have ever heard, a good friend(as hard as they are to find) will last you way longer than a piece of ass.
OK...that is seriously the dumbest thing i have ever heard. That's like not handling your alcahol and if you can't handle it than STAY THE FUCK AWAY! You can't blame it on 'lust', that is hogwash.
I know for a fact i would never do shit like that.
You said you would tell your buddy if you got involved with his ex and if he didn't like it too bad...bolshit, that is the most selfish thing i have ever heard, a good friend(as hard as they are to find) will last you way longer than a piece of ass.
NY Muscle
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Milhouse said:
Its called PAYBACK..id never do that shit to a friend (unless he did something bad to me like my boss did)...only to a punk ass bitch...so its not even close to being the same.
People get dealt with in different ways..personally i find no need to fight..i deal with things on a mental level...im kinda like Triple H. the Cerebral Assassin..that kind of shit hurts more than a beat down, cause evntually you will heal from a beat down...a mental beat down like what I prefer to do, is something that will take a lonngggg tionme to get over.
Milhouse
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Sebass67 said:
Well, i don't hear you reputing my arguement...your supposed to playing Devil's Advocate here and this is all you can come up with?
Ther was no argument, in fact just your saying that you would never do something tells me you are so much more moral and higher up on the evolution scale then me.I really hope you keep the windows in that glass house you seem to live in clean.
Think about it this way. People who get caught cheating on thier spouses probably said "they would never ever do something like that"
Point meaning "never say never" because one day that thing you say you would "never do" you just might do.Not just cheating or any of the stuff in this whole thread but anything in life.
That being said I am not the dumb fuck who named myself after the Gay public washroom loving truck driver from the movie "Dumb and Dumber"
K
KAYNE
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Milhouse said:
HEY MILHOUSE, RE-READ MY POSTS, NO WHERE DID I SAY YOU SAID YOU DID THAT!!! I WAS ASKING YOU A QUESTION, NOT MAKING A STATEMENT. THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE.
AND HOW COULD THIS BE ABOUT LOVE??? THE DUDE JUST BROKE UP WITH THE BITCH AND SHE IS FUCKING HIS BEST BOY NOW!!! WHATS LOVE GOT TO DO WITH THIS SITUATION. SHE WAS JUST BEING A DIRTY WHORE!!! DUDE, I'M NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE TO YOU OR FLAME YOU BUT I THINK YOU ARE FUCKING SCUM IF YOU WOULD DO THAT TO ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS. THAT SHOWS WHAT TYPE OF PERSON YOU ARE!!!
NO IF'S, AND'S, OR BUT'S ABOUT IT---A REAL FRIEND WOULDNT HAVE DONE THIS. IF, AND ONLY IF, HE WOULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS, A FEW YEARS DOWN THE ROAD WOULD BE A LITTLE MORE APPROPRIATE DONT YOU THINK!!!
KAYNE
Same thing happened with me and my ex. We split up and she went away to college where a good friend of 4 years was going as well. Next thing I know he stops talking to me and they are going out together. Whether they are sleeping together is unknown. Sure it pissed me off but in the end I got over it. She was a bitch for doing it and he was an asshole for complying but nonetheless whats done is done. It just sucks when its a good friend. I didn't care so much about the relationship with the ex as I did with my friend. We were friends longer than me and my ex were together. Now I am friends with my ex and my buddy and I don't talk anymore. How fucked up is that?????
Milhouse said:
Yeah but just because someone says never say never doesn't make it ok to do something. So if i say 'never say never' like you say than i guess it's ok to do just about anything. Your reason doesn't justify anything and it is far off the point.
Oh by the way, the reason i picked that name is because i thought it was funny, but i guess 'funny' isn't in your vocabulary is it? And by the way, anytime you wanna detract from the actual discussion and avoid admitting your wrong bring up dumb shit like that. But i guess you have too much pride for that as well, as you attack my supposed 'arrogance' to cover youself up.
Well said like a dumbass.
NY Muscle
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rudedawg said:
I have no idea where your 1st statement comes from but im sure diesel will address that. but if this dude told diesels ex that diesel fucked him over ill almost bet $$$ he said that and is lying just to manipulate this chic...girls are SO DUMB ive done shit like that to them b4 and they are like "awww poor you i feel so bad for u" blah blah then 2 days later ur banging the slut!!
statement #2 you make...the answer is YES!
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dballer
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This makes me sick.
I HATE people who cheat. I never cheated on any of my girlfriends.. and I never would. I have been cheated on and this thread brings it all back. It was described by Frackal on another thread.. I forget whar he said... but he hit the nail on the head.
Diesel.. I HOPE you can see that if someone cheats on you.. they have somthing inside them that makes them non-loyal. Non-loyal to me, is non-human.
if you cheat on your girlfriend or boyfriend.. in my eyes you are less than human.
I HATE people who cheat. I never cheated on any of my girlfriends.. and I never would. I have been cheated on and this thread brings it all back. It was described by Frackal on another thread.. I forget whar he said... but he hit the nail on the head.
Diesel.. I HOPE you can see that if someone cheats on you.. they have somthing inside them that makes them non-loyal. Non-loyal to me, is non-human.
if you cheat on your girlfriend or boyfriend.. in my eyes you are less than human.
smallmovesal
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NY Muscle said:
if you had any respect for women you wouldn't admit to such shady behaviour... then again, you just called women dumb and sluts...
NY Muscle
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smallmovesal said:
if you had any respect for women you wouldn't admit to such shady behaviour... then again, you just called women dumb and sluts...
Instead of getting mad and nasty with me, take your insecurites out elsewhere and do something productive towards the cause...start a womens foundation that teaches girls to NOT BE SO STUPID AND GULLABLE....dont blame ME for the morons.
You seem to be a littile bothered by the fact that it is easy to manipulate women..hmmmmmm..im sorry your ex or ex's did that to you....smarten up next time and such comments we make on here (about SOME women NOT ALL so stop staring problems) wouldnt bother you so much or hit so close to home.
smallmovesal
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it's not nasty to ask you to take responsibility for your actions.
rudedawg
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NY Muscle said:
Check her post as TwiceAsNice
So if you get revenge on him then he gets revenge on you then you get revenge on him then he gets revenge on you then you get revenge on him.
"The best manner of avenging ourselves is by not resembling him who has injured us. "—Jane Porter
"In taking revenge, a man is but even with his enemy;
but in passing it over, he is superior."
-- Francis Bacon
Not that I wouldn't want to beat his ass either but I do believe it takes more of a person to get on with life than to try to get revenge.
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