Just another classic example of how fucked up my ex is...

[Werd]

Make sure someone other than you is evidencing this for the custody hearing werdo. Your attorney will have a much better comprehension as to the impact, but all these things can't bolster his case.

Got it covered... The scales are heavily in my favor (no accident). Had my ex taken even just adequate care of them I would have never returned to the US to even think about taking custody. I never took them from their father and I never will. He has single-handedly destroyed the relationship between him and the kids.

It breaks my heart to see how little he cares about how he hurts them. I have never seen a more selfish asshole in my entire life.

C'est la vie. Everything happens for a reason.... though it pains me to see my children hurt, true enlightenment comes through suffering. It is far better that they learn NOW who truly loves them and exactly what love is perhaps then they will not make the same mistakes their mother made.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

and on the bright side, youre out of hospital and back to your usual self

 

[Longhorn85]

I have excellent reason to believe I will, however, we have gotten so fucked by my trusting my ex in the past (now we do NOT) that we (my family and I) are preparing for the worst.

Without knowing a lot about divorce or your particular situation, it seems like the mother usually gets custody unless she is proven to be unfit.

 

[Werd]

and on the bright side, youre out of hospital and back to your usual self

LOL

WERD

 

[Werd]

Without knowing a lot about divorce or your particular situation, it seems like the mother usually gets custody unless she is proven to be unfit.

Yes, you are correct to a certain extent. Custody is usually joint physical unless either of the parents robs a bank or murders someone.

I GAVE MY EX PHYSICAL CUSTODY, I DID NOT LOSE IT.

However, when I learned of how poorly he had been caring for them I returned in THREE DAYS and began a very ugly and costly battle. He decided to move over an hour away from the town where we all once resided making it impossible to share physical custody. There is so much, but I don't post up a fraction of it as I am more sickened by living the situation than those who had read about it had become by reading it. Every now and then though he pulls some stupid stunt that just makes me shake my head in disbelief.

On the one hand, any one with two grey cells can see that he is only wasting precious time and my children's money with this battle. But on the other hand I am holding my breath waiting to exhale when the day comes that he can never ever fuck with us again.

Any parent... mother or father that would use their child to fuck on the other should be publicly bitchslapped, tar, feathered, drawn and quatered...

I want my kids to have a life.

 

[rnch]

good luck to you in your fight, werd.

 

[Longhorn85]

I GAVE MY EX PHYSICAL CUSTODY

What percent or how much, and why?

 

[Werd]

I gave him sole physical custody. I maitained legal custody although a lot of good that did me or my kids. I was assured that my rights as the non-custodial parent would be protected and that the courts would seriously frown on the custodial parent keeping the children from the other.

A BIG FAT FUCKING LIE.

Reasons I gave up custody in a nutshell:

My ex was waging a never-ending divorce/custody battle that became EXTREMELY expensive and emotionally devastating FOR THEM - me, I lived well over 13 years in hell with my ex - I would have lived another 113 if I thought it would be best for my kids. They begged me to find a way to make it stop.... so I did. I laid down and gave him everything that was due me under the law, including the only thing that mattered to me: MY KIDS. I had offers of publication of my work in another country, far enough away from him that he could no longer obsess over me. I hoped that he would get over me and maybe become the type of father that I mistakenly thought that he could ever be, I could build up my life to someday offer my kids A REAL LIFE if they wanted to live with me and someday we could ALL have a life. In addition my illness was getting progressively worse and I couldn't take the look of fear and worry in my kids' eyes when they saw me sick or high from pain medication. The country where I had moved offered THE BEST FREE EDUCATION in the world in addition to health care and other employment benefits and was non-English speaking so their father would NEVER EVER have the balls to follow us.

In a nutshell....

 

[Longhorn85]

In a nutshell....

Sorry to hear that W. I guess you must have known that there was at least a possibility that you would not get them back. Hope it works out.

You still coming to the DC meetup?

 

[Razorguns]

this is your typical "after-divorce" drama.

Just assume that one side will NEVER say positive things about the othre side. Are you relaly that surprised they talk shit about you????