Just another classic example of how fucked up my ex is...

[jerseyart]

I'll stay out of the discusion at your reuqest Werdo, but honestly it was more than just "sticking up for you", although I don't deny that was a motivation as well.

It has to do with people who really have nothing useful to add, prtend that they do, and then turn the opportunity into one for preaching or personal pats on the back. If they want to do so fine, but be honest about the motivation, at least with themselves.

The lack of self awareness is astounding.

And if my posts came across as somewhat harsh, that is precisely how they were intended

 

[Werd]

I'll stay out of the discusion at your reuqest Werdo, but honestly it was more than just "sticking up for you", although I don't deny that was a motivation as well.

It has to do with people who really have nothing useful to add, prtend that they do, and then turn the opportunity into one for preaching or personal pats on the back. If they want to do so fine, but be honest about the motivation, at least with themselves.

The lack of self awareness is astounding.

And if my posts came across as somewhat harsh, that is precisely how they were intended

Bisous mon ami

This is the interent and I know it all too well. Little internet computer cowboys and silly hating two-faced females with too much time on their hands and no lives of their own and peeps that are so deeply mired in negativity and hate they wouldn't know something positive if it came up to them and bit them on the nose. I have been the focus of countless internet tabloid sensationalisms. Why? Goodness only knows, but it is what it is. For all those who continue to say that I should keep my "personal business" to myself - how many of you have posted personal info on the web? I mean REALLY PERSONAL STUFF? Come on peeps, wake up and get a clue. I haven't done anything that anyone else here hasnt ever done. The only difference is that I am good, bad or indifferent I am not afraid to speak my mind regardless of how it might ruffle the feathers of others. I am definitely not average. I can agree to disagree with EVERYONE. I wonder why I can not be afforded the same? C'est la vie, I guess.

(PS - If you are not one of the those personalities previously mentioned please do not post up with righteous indignation about how that ain't you. Only YOU know whether or not that particular shoe fits. You don't personally need to justify yourself to me as my life is not affected on iota if it does fit you. That mess is on you.)

I have had email exchanges by people who didn't know that they were talking to me about me and it was LAUGHABLE... the ridiculous stories they proliferated as gospel truth - good god! But as I said... as with anything else one reads anywhere - just because you read it somewhere that does NOT MAKE IT TRUE.

Whatever....

It is all good...

 

[Werd]

PS - a co-worker of mine saw me authoring my last post and approached me w/pics of his son and started to tell me of the custody nightmare he has also been embroiled in. Because I shared my experiences (I just went through the process that he is going through) and gave him the REAL heads up about the system and this process I helped him.

He wasn't asking for sympathy or even understanding - only USEFUL information. Sadly I know all too well about the ins and outs of how this shit REALLY works, not how all the holier than thouers THINK that it should work in what they THINK is such a wonderful justice system when it comes to the protection and what is in the best interest of our children.

Imagine that - a "manhating bitch" like myself helping A MAN maintain visitation of his son thwarting the attempts of his embittered ex to keep their son from him in an effort to soothe her personal feelings of anger towards him having nothing to do with what is in the best interest of her son. This guy isn't trying to take custody - he only wants to be able to visit his son and continue to be a part of his life. I never even asked if he pays support as I believe that money or not EVERY PARENT deserves the right to be a part of their children's lives.

When the sun sets on our days as parents it matters not what some judge in some court somewhere decrees. The only judges that will EVER matter are our own children. If more parents got this, then there would be no need for 99% attorneys in this country....