Yeah, good edit, that's really what I meant. I don't consider it disrespectful when I dress a certain way and guys act a certain way. I think I was just thinking in terms of professional boundaries and such. I think it's absurd to go to work around guys who have been working out so their testosterone levels are boosted, advertising your heiny, and then get uppity and offended when they react to said heiny.
Look, lets be realists here.
Playing sports brings men back to a sort of primal animal form (lol), especially something with the violence of football (yes, I know there are worse, not the point). Do I think women should be able to have jobs in the field if they are qualified? Absolutely. Do I think they have a right to expect everything to change to suit their sensibilities? Absolutely not. Certain things are the way they are and if it's going to bother you, you need to be in another line of work.
Obviously I'm not advocating that a woman should just accept sexual harrassment if that is indeed something that happens (which I don't think this qualifies as...there really should be an element of malice or intimidation to label it that). But there should be a certain level of awareness that if you really want to blend in and just do your job, so to speak, you shouldn't be drawing extra attention to the parts that make you different. And if someone stares are your behind, be glad you've got a behind worth staring at....there are worse things in this world.