I think Elite has all kinds of people on it. Most of them don't dwell on size all the time. However we do have some vocal members who never miss an opportunity to put someone down because that person admitted to weighing less than the person who puts others down will admit to.
I believe this mentality is somewhat common with avid bodybuilders and the reason they have developed their reputation.
I have concluded that I will never be huge. Genetically...my body wants to do triathlons but it looks much better from lifting. I simply have too many other interests to do the diet thingie properly.
I also admit to lifting so I attract more women. That works but without the right personality behind the body, a guy is likely wasting his time by lifting to get girls. I become quite bashful when I really like a girl and have literallly pissed away a few hundred opportunities that make me cringe.
On my last vacation I let about 8 solid opportunities slip right through my fingers. For example....I was standing in a huge line and admiring a beautiful woman standing 20 yards away. She eventually walked up to me and asked me to help lift her over a fence. My heart almost quit beating. I lifted her over and then kept an occasional eye on her waiting for the right time to buy her a drink. That time never came.
The next day I seen her and said that I had been waiting for the right opportunity to buy her a drink but never seen it. She enthusiastically said that she would have enjoyed a drink from me.
Excuse me now....I have to go shoot myself.
