Is it normal for the ex to date within 2 months of breaking up?

[buffer1]

Been there before bro,best thing to do is forget,I know it's hard but you have to do it.Over time the pain will go away

 

[foxxie]

You guys broke up 2 months ago and she just found a guy two weeks ago. I dont see anything wrong with it! Not unless she found a guy two weeks after you broke up now that would sound fishy and wrong.



I just went back on reading your post. You mention that she had cheated on you when you guys are still together. First of all why do you want to marry a girl who had cheated on you at the first place? You shouldn't be suprise if she already found a cock after you guys have broken up. For the fact that she cheated on you when you guys are still together.


She's obviously not worth of your time. Just move on and forget about her!

 

[needtogetaas]

slowly

 

[BUBBLES]

As a bunch of you guys know, I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. I caught her cheating on me, and we broke up.

We were together for a long time, lived together, and so fourth. Basically married, with a $20,000 engagement ring waitin on my Bank Safe for the right time to ask her.

We broke up 2 months ago, and she's already on some guys cock as of about two weeks ago.

Her and I don't talk as of 2 weeks ago.

Is it too soon for her to be dating? I still can't even think of anyother girl. I feel sick to my stomach. This was the girl I wanted to marry...

I think is anyone is cheating on you and moves on to date someone else this soon she did not love you.

After I broke up with my ex there was no way I could date for months and if I dated anyone after the breakup I felt NOTHING for the guy I was dating because my feelings were in neutral. I could have dumped anyone at that stage with no regrets.

 

[AMGETR]

Thanks everyone.

Everytime I thought of the future, she was always next to me. It didn't matter where I was, what I was doing, she was all that mattered.

I still remember the first time I surprised her. It was for Valentines, and I was away in New York. She was in Vancouver. Other side of the continent. I told her I had a business dinner that night, so I got one of my buddies from Michigan to do a 3-way call with me and her. I hid him when I called her (I was at the airport). I told her, "Hey sweetie, I just picked up Marco and now we're off to dinner. He wants to say hi to you". So I let him talk (he was keeping quiet the entire time). She believed it all, and then I took the 6 hour flight to Vancouver. It was late now, and she called me to see what I was doing. When she called I had just arrived in Seattle, so I tried to keep it quiet. Unlucky for me, the PA system announced "You have just arrived in Seattle, welcome!"... She heard it and asked where I was. I couldn't lie, so I told her. She was so happy... So happy.. I still remember her crying on the phone that she was so happy.

When I got to her house I held her for so long. God, I miss that. I don't get how someone can love you so much, and then later down the road cheat on you and then lie about it. I even bought the Tiffany's engagement ring that she loved. She knew about it, as she knew how much I had to give up, and sell, and save to afford it. Yet... She didn't care...

Foxxie: After she dumped me (Yeah, she dumped me, I caught her cheating and still took her back), she said the most hurtful words one could ever hear "I love you, and I want to marry you, but I don't see us together the entire time from now till then. I don't know what I want..." I found out that she was still "seeing" (fucking) the guy from her work, and basically, from what I heard from people seeing her around, out trying to get with any guy that would give her the time of day (Which unfortunately, is alot of guys). Do I think she waited two months? No. I think she waited 2 days. It was less than 2 months when she was ALREADY with the new guy.

 

[mrdeeznuts]

Thanks everyone.

Everytime I thought of the future, she was always next to me. It didn't matter where I was, what I was doing, she was all that mattered.

I still remember the first time I surprised her. It was for Valentines, and I was away in New York. She was in Vancouver. Other side of the continent. I told her I had a business dinner that night, so I got one of my buddies from Michigan to do a 3-way call with me and her. I hid him when I called her (I was at the airport). I told her, "Hey sweetie, I just picked up Marco and now we're off to dinner. He wants to say hi to you". So I let him talk (he was keeping quiet the entire time). She believed it all, and then I took the 6 hour flight to Vancouver. It was late now, and she called me to see what I was doing. When she called I had just arrived in Seattle, so I tried to keep it quiet. Unlucky for me, the PA system announced "You have just arrived in Seattle, welcome!"... She heard it and asked where I was. I couldn't lie, so I told her. She was so happy... So happy.. I still remember her crying on the phone that she was so happy.

When I got to her house I held her for so long. God, I miss that. I don't get how someone can love you so much, and then later down the road cheat on you and then lie about it. I even bought the Tiffany's engagement ring that she loved. She knew about it, as she knew how much I had to give up, and sell, and save to afford it. Yet... She didn't care...

Foxxie: After she dumped me (Yeah, she dumped me, I caught her cheating and still took her back), she said the most hurtful words one could ever hear "I love you, and I want to marry you, but I don't see us together the entire time from now till then. I don't know what I want..." I found out that she was still "seeing" (fucking) the guy from her work, and basically, from what I heard from people seeing her around, out trying to get with any guy that would give her the time of day (Which unfortunately, is alot of guys). Do I think she waited two months? No. I think she waited 2 days. It was less than 2 months when she was ALREADY with the new guy.

been where u are bro.... just forget about her completely as hard as it

 

[AMGETR]

Yeah, I am.

I'm just in total shock. I knew this girl for nearly 5 years and NEVER did I see these traits come from her. Actually.. Wait.. She was known for the sleeping around part after breakiing up.

She had two one night stands with guys after she broke up with her ex of 2 yrs. But then again, HE dumped HER, and HE cheated on HER. I never ever ever did that to her, and all I wanted to do was love her.
Blah

Time to focus on myself.

 

[awittyusername]

Yeah, I am.

I'm just in total shock. I knew this girl for nearly 5 years and NEVER did I see these traits come from her. Actually.. Wait.. She was known for the sleeping around part after breakiing up.

She had two one night stands with guys after she broke up with her ex of 2 yrs. But then again, HE dumped HER, and HE cheated on HER. I never ever ever did that to her, and all I wanted to do was love her.
Blah

Time to focus on myself.

Yes, focus on yourself!!

We know how you feel. We have all been shocked when a girl who begs you to marry you....suddenly, is fucking someone else and telling him you are a jackass.

I promise you will look back on this as a blessing. Unfortunately, most my friends got married and had kids. (everything the girl asked for) Then, the find out she is fucking someone else. And, she ends up with everything including the house.

 

[velvett]

Her heart stopped giving a damn when she cheated on you. Whether she waited 2 months, 2 weeks, 2 days or 2 years, is irrelevant.

Yep.
When what the heart feels stop it just grows cool and callous.

At least she didn't get married to some other guy within two months.



Mend your ego for a while and try and move on - it's not a you thing, it's just something that happened to you.


From what I recall you're a babe and it sounds like you have some heart so when you least expect it someone new will light up your life.

 

[AMGETR]

Thanks everyone.

I'm not going to go her route though. She wants to go out and fuck around, I much rather be with friends and focus on work and school.