Is it all worth it?

[Juice Authority]

I mean everything, the AAS, diet pills, aggressive behavior, health risks, etc....to look good?? Well, for me it was at the cost of my relationships with my co-workers, my wife, my son and now her mother who I laid into bouncing a rental check for $1,000 on a property own. I just don't think it's worth it anymore because she wants a separation and is taking my son with her so what good is it to look good, have money, property and be alone? That's where I am in my life right now.

 

[Izzman]

I am really sorry to hear all that bro, I can't imagine how you must feel and all I can say is that I wish you the best of luck and that everything works out. We all have our reasons I guess and it is very hard sometimes on when to draw line......is there even a line with us BB'ers? We all strive for the perfection we'll never have and in doing so we ruin so much.....our health, our minds, and our lives. Good Luck bro, I sincerely wish you the best.

 

[Juice Authority]

Thanks but right now I feel lower than life and looking in from the outside one would think I have it all going on. My priorities are obviosuly all fucked up.

 

[satchboogie]

dont blame the sauce bro..

 

[RADAR]

I mean everything, the AAS, diet pills, aggressive behavior, health risks, etc....to look good?? Well, for me it was at the cost of my relationships with my co-workers, my wife, my son and now her mother who I laid into bouncing a rental check for $1,000 on a property own. I just don't think it's worth it anymore because she wants a separation and is taking my son with her so what good is it to look good, have money, property and be alone? That's where I am in my life right now.

JA ,I'm sorry to hear that.wishing you the best there man,

RADAR

 

[Mavy]

Dude ... you have to think of your training as your number 1 hobby! Not your number 1 priority in life IMO. Family, friends, work, etc should always come first ... unless of course you are a pro and this is your work.

1 think that I noticed about you Juice, .... is that it seems as though you are ALWAYS on! Everytime I hear you post you are on something it seems. You dont have to ditch the training and juicing ... why not get a plan together and limit yourself to 2 cycles per year. I dont mean 5 month cycles either ... something like 8-10 wks. One fall bulker and one spring cutter! Then you have plenty of time to plan and save up for your cycles. In between ... just train naturally and strive to be the best you can ... spend some time and money on family and friends and those close to you. Then ... when cycle time comes around ... its a treat for you.

"so what good is it to look good, have money, property and be alone?" ... so true dude ... sometimes I get caught up in my training to see the big picture as well (miss out on things because I put training first). Its almost like being TOO dedicated. You have to get your priorities straight.

If you seriously are in a dilemma like it sounds like you are ... admitt to what you are thinking and feeling. Tell your wife that you think that maybe you werent devoting enough time to her because you got to caught up in training etc.. tell her you realise what your priorities are and that you want to change things around.

You dont have to quite working out bro. Try things like training during lunch so that you ahve your evenings free for wife and kid. Train Mon, tues, thurs and fri. so that you have the weekends free for your fam and friends. Trust me you dont want to loose them for a few extra lbs of muscle.

Mavy

 

[Izzman]

Dude ... you have to think of your training as your number 1 hobby! Not your number 1 priority in life IMO. Family, friends, work, etc should always come first ... unless of course you are a pro and this is your work.

1 think that I noticed about you Juice, .... is that it seems as though you are ALWAYS on! Everytime I hear you post you are on something it seems. You dont have to ditch the training and juicing ... why not get a plan together and limit yourself to 2 cycles per year. I dont mean 5 month cycles either ... something like 8-10 wks. One fall bulker and one spring cutter! Then you have plenty of time to plan and save up for your cycles. In between ... just train naturally and strive to be the best you can ... spend some time and money on family and friends and those close to you. Then ... when cycle time comes around ... its a treat for you.

"so what good is it to look good, have money, property and be alone?" ... so true dude ... sometimes I get caught up in my training to see the big picture as well (miss out on things because I put training first). Its almost like being TOO dedicated. You have to get your priorities straight.

If you seriously are in a dilemma like it sounds like you are ... admitt to what you are thinking and feeling. Tell your wife that you think that maybe you werent devoting enough time to her because you got to caught up in training etc.. tell her you realise what your priorities are and that you want to change things around.

You dont have to quite working out bro. Try things like training during lunch so that you ahve your evenings free for wife and kid. Train Mon, tues, thurs and fri. so that you have the weekends free for your fam and friends. Trust me you dont want to loose them for a few extra lbs of muscle.

Mavy

Excellent words Mavy.

 

[satchboogie]

good advice mavy..

juice... addicitive personalities destroy lives.. not juice!

good luck my man.

 

[beastboy]

Ditch the gear......get your life straightened out....then go from there.

 

[Mavy]

juice... addicitive personalities destroy lives.. not juice!

Very true Satch ... dont blame it on the juice. Rec drugs ... gambling, its all the same.

I thought that I remembered you saying that you had a problem with rec drugs as well. You have to stay in control bro. Once you start to slip and loose control .... your fucked bro! You can loose it all. This has happened to a few of my close friends and my brother as well. You just gotta stay in control ... you cant be "owned" by any kinda substance or habbit. You have to watch it though as it does become a personallity. Often it takes others to see this in you ... you wont recognize it.

Mavy