Is Having A "F*#k Buddy" Realistic??

[stilleto]

I'm my own fuck buddy!!!!

same for me. but i love myself.

 

[PBR]

there r no rules when the heart is involved.. and not always women who develop feelings

agree....its a short term venture- period.

 

[perkele]

My ex has been my fuck buddy those few occations we've met since she moved away. So yes, it's very realistic.

 

[Hiatussin]

My ex has been my fuck buddy those few occations we've met since she moved away. So yes, it's very realistic.

you actually have sex in real life?

 

[Sub-Zero]

having a fuck buddy is basically what a relationship is

 

[Ulter]

It's absolutely possible and can go on for years with a full blown friendship between the participants. It all depends on the participants and their expectations of the relationship as far as how well it works for them. It's been my experience that sex doesn't usually start out as an objective but is something that just evolves from a friendship if it's going to last. It works best if the people don't live in close proximity but it works with neighbors just fine too.

 

[BrothaBill]

having a fuck buddy is basically what a relationship is

Exactly, it was a clever marketing idea from guys.
How do I get to have sex with a woman and not treat her right, the weaker minds of the female populace fell for it.
There always exceptions to the rule, butl human nature takes place and one invariably becomes attached.
I think itd be funny if someone wanted to break up with a fuck buddy is to like every time they had sex, the guy left her like a 50$bill. See her reaction after she recognizes the pattern, a reality check

 

[OMEGA]

It's absolutely possible and can go on for years with a full blown friendship between the participants. It all depends on the participants and their expectations of the relationship as far as how well it works for them.

My best friend has the same theory and I totally disagree with it

if one can separate the act from the emotions I feel that hat is dangerous territory for the soul

darn you guys lol

 

[seizer]

My best friend has the same theory and I totally disagree with it

if one can separate the act from the emotions I feel that hat is dangerous territory for the soul

darn you guys lol

I agree. Besides, why would you want to remove the emotional aspects? That takes everything to a whole new level.

Having a fuck buddy is something that I just cant do.

 

[bb079]

I have a few friends that i have known for awhile who have similar situations; divorced, kids, career, etc. When I am in need of their company I call and plans are made and vice versa. Ill admit that things can get complicated and out of hand if you let them, that is why I am up front with what I want and what I do not want. I have never had any of them ask me about taking it any further, but I think that is because I am an asshole and they can only stand being around me for a couple of hours a month. But thats ok with me.