Is anyone actually faithful anymore?

[Smurfy]

Nah, love fades over time.

The grass is greener on the other side is what happens then. People want to experience new and different 'pastures'. That is the peoblem.




That is misleading. "Tons" could be several women, or 1 of Smurfy.

I resent that.

 

[manny78]

Bro, that's not true at all, I don't give a shit what Joe Blow says If I cheat on my girlfriend, but I care what my girlfriend feels, and if I do it behind her back, that's dishonesty, which is just as serious as lying, in short, if you have a Jimminy Cricket, you won't cheat.

You're trying to go against human nature and that's all good but keep in mind you aren't the first nor the last to say that. One day you'll obviously feel something for another woman. It's normal. Wether or not you cheat on her depends on how deep the "rules", moral or society in general have gotten into your head because deep down inside, you'd screw that other chick. But you wont (at least that's what you say) cause you've been thought how wrong it was. That's the difference between a monogamous and a polygamous society.

 

[Sub-Zero]

You're trying to go against human nature and that's all good but keep in mind you aren't the first nor the last to say that. One day you'll obviously feel something for another woman. It's normal. Wether or not you cheat on her depends on how deep the "rules", moral or society in general have gotten into your head because deep down inside, you'd screw that other chick. But you wont (at least that's what you say) cause you've been thought how wrong it was. That's the difference between a monogamous and a polygamous society.

deep down he may also not wanna cheat on his girl, because of how he was raised, and how he has learned to apply his feelings,...itd hurt him to be cheated on and he loves his SO enough to not deal her that pain...

its not that difficult to separate physical and emotional from eachother if u care enough to do so

 

[manny78]

deep down he may also not wanna cheat on his girl, because of how he was raised, and how he has learned to apply his feelings,...itd hurt him to be cheated on and he loves his SO enough to not deal her that pain...

its not that difficult to separate physical and emotional from eachother if u care enough to do so

You realize you just proved my point ?

 

[blueta2]

Nah, love fades over time.

The grass is greener on the other side is what happens then. People want to experience new and different 'pastures'. That is the peoblem.


That is misleading. "Tons" could be several women, or 1 of Smurfy.

Here is something that comes with age and experience....You need to water the grass you already have to make that grass greeener.
That is the mature way.
There are habitual cheaters (scum bags) and ppl who cheat for lack of emotion.
Manny is right, it's human nature

 

[katdav]

Here is something that comes with age and experience....You need to water the grass you already have to make that grass greeener. That is the mature way.
There are habitual cheaters (scum bags) and ppl who cheat for lack of emotion.
Manny is right, it's human nature

I like that.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

Nah, love fades over time.

I don't think love fades .... I think it changes over time. The more time you are with someone, the feelings and emotions change. Sometimes they grow deeper, sometimes the feelings grow farther apart. Can depend o nthe individual and your life experiences.

Regardless, how you react to the changes speaks a lot about you. Some people take the changes as an excuse to cheat or leave. Others find ways to make things new and close again.

 

[Sub-Zero]

You realize you just proved my point ?

im agreeing with you that how your raised affects your emotions, and that emotions and physicality is different, but only a weak individual would blame cheating on "human nature".

if emotionally, cheating and being cheated on doesnt bug you then i guess more power to you?? (as long as ur upfront with ur SO about it)

basically im just saying that if you believe cheating is wrong and are in a relationship and cheat, then your scum,

if u agree and i misunderstood u then my bad

 

[seaking420]

You're trying to go against human nature and that's all good but keep in mind you aren't the first nor the last to say that. One day you'll obviously feel something for another woman. It's normal. Wether or not you cheat on her depends on how deep the "rules", moral or society in general have gotten into your head because deep down inside, you'd screw that other chick. But you wont (at least that's what you say) cause you've been thought how wrong it was. That's the difference between a monogamous and a polygamous society.

I totally agree with this statement. I'm not saying cheating is right, but I think that our society looks down on it so much that everyone thinks its terrible. If you live in other parts of the world(depending were) it happens all the time and people dont think twice.
People try to disassaciate humans and animals as 2 totally different speicies but the fact is we are all the same and it is within us(hormones) to be attracted or want a sexual relation with other people. But like manny said it all depends on how deep the rules of society has gotten into your head.

 

[manny78]

im agreeing with you that how your raised affects your emotions, and that emotions and physicality is different, but only a weak individual would blame cheating on "human nature".

if emotionally, cheating and being cheated on doesnt bug you then i guess more power to you?? (as long as ur upfront with ur SO about it)

basically im just saying that if you believe cheating is wrong and are in a relationship and cheat, then your scum,

if u agree and i misunderstood u then my bad

Cheating is wrong. I dont cheat and hope I never do but that's cause I follow the rules. Sometimes I look at other girls and damn I'd just like to fuck the shit outta them.