Is anyone actually faithful anymore?

[Mavafanculo]

Sort of like when she pissed you off so badly that you just HAD to punch her in the head to shut her up?

Sorry, but that is pretty weak.

If the woman you are with is capable of this type of behavior then why would you continue to remain in the relationship? Either focus your energies on fixing your relationship - or get out.

See how simple NOT CHEATING is?

p.s. most of the time when a woman goes into "withholding sex" mode for an extended period of time, it means SHE'S getting it elsewhere.

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[Jimsbbc]

The worst one I saw and was caught up in since my parents were the mediators was at an inner city church we helped start where the pastor had his wife of 40 years go out swinging with a younger man. She was out going to swingers clubs in the Montrose area of Houston, a notorious and risque part of town. She would get jocked in every hole and come home and blame the husband for being too orthodox.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

I hate hearing stories of somewhat religious girls wanting a stand up relationship with their bf and to get ''jocked in every hole'' by some other dude.

 

[Bikini Mod]

again yep.

My last GF was a typical " white american blond haired, blue eyed rich daddys little girl".

She will never be happy because nothing anybody ever does will ever be enough.

My current GF is half Hispanic/Croatian who comes from a modest family who was taught to appreciate things in life.

The difference is night and day, I didnt know girls like this even existed.

I'm still amazed with how down to earth and logical this girl is.

My husband's prediliction was for big-tittied, blond-haired, blue-eyed strippers. Median age? 24.

He ended up marrying me, a near 40 y/o single mother of four, with a crazy ex that just wont die, brunette with a coupla health problems, and in a hole of epic proportions. There are times when no matter how much I would like to be intimate with my husband, I dont feel up to it. Far cry from sitting in a hottub just several months ago with any number of young strippers whose only purpose to be there was to give him whatever pleasure he wanted for THAT MOMENT, then told to leave, the car was waiting.

He makes love to me all day long.... not in the bedroom but from the moment he wakes and makes me my coffee and breakfast before he leaves for the office leaving me sleep till I want to wake, every time he opens the door for me (I havent opened a door since I met him), and every time he tells me how beautiful I am even though we can both see as clear as day that that is hardly the case.

Sex is a gift to be shared between two mutually consenting adults. But there are times when no matter how much one wants to share, there are circumstances beyond their control that keeps them from sharing their gift with the one they love.

My husband is a kind, doting and patient man. He puts up with all sorts of drama just to have me in his life. I am truly lucky to have found such a man amongst men. My only fear is that one day, his patience will run out and there will be nothing I can do to "fix" it as I have zero control over the greatest sources of what makes our lives difficult - my health and my ex.

 

[Bikini Mod]

p.s. most of the time when a woman goes into "withholding sex" mode for an extended period of time, it means SHE'S getting it elsewhere.

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Wont argue with the accuracy of this statement.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

not necessarily true. Im low maintenance and frugal and my dad makes well over $500,000 a year.

Thank you. Same here. I grew up in a home with plenty of money. I am that "blonde haired blue eyed" American girl .....

And guess what? I don't cheat on my husband.

And I know he doesn't cheat on me. I know for a fact my husband is content in our marriage (as am I). Are either one of us perfect? Nope. Are there things that could be better? Sure. So we'll just keep working on being the best couple, best individuals and best parents we can be. Together.

People who make excuses for their behavior - blaming others for "driving them" to do things are weak. What you are admitting is that SOMEONE ELSE has control over you and your behaviors - that you are not in control of your own life and own choices. Maybe if you take a deep look inside, you would find a way to have more control over your life and the choices you make. Just my opinion.

 

[TC2]

Thank you. Same here. I grew up in a home with plenty of money. I am that "blonde haired blue eyed" American girl .....

And guess what? I don't cheat on my husband.

And I know he doesn't cheat on me. I know for a fact my husband is content in our marriage (as am I). Are either one of us perfect? Nope. Are there things that could be better? Sure. So we'll just keep working on being the best couple, best individuals and best parents we can be. Together.

People who make excuses for their behavior - blaming others for "driving them" to do things are weak. What you are admitting is that SOMEONE ELSE has control over you and your behaviors - that you are not in control of your own life and own choices. Maybe if you take a deep look inside, you would find a way to have more control over your life and the choices you make. Just my opinion.

So in your mind a man who is loving and does everything the "perfect" man should do should just "control" himself when his wife neglect him sexually over and over again???

What would you do if you truly did love this person, AND KEEP IN MIND THAT A MAN'S SEX DRIVE IS LEAPS AND BOUNDS HIGHER THAN A WOMAN'S, an you did everything right, they werent being emotionally neglected and there truly is nothing more you can do to keep this person happy and even though you've talked about it and talked about it and they STILL sexually neglect you???

 

[Smurfy]

So in your mind a man who is loving and does everything the "perfect" man should do should just "control" himself when his wife neglect him sexually over and over again???

What would you do if you truly did love this person, AND KEEP IN MIND THAT A MAN'S SEX DRIVE IS LEAPS AND BOUNDS HIGHER THAN A WOMAN'S, an you did everything right, they werent being emotionally neglected and there truly is nothing more you can do to keep this person happy and even though you've talked about it and talked about it and they STILL sexually neglect you???

Well, if you feel compelled to cheat, then you probably shouldnt be in that relationship. That's an example of a relationship that just isnt going to work out.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

So in your mind a man who is loving and does everything the "perfect" man should do should just "control" himself when his wife neglect him sexually over and over again???

What would you do if you truly did love this person, AND KEEP IN MIND THAT A MAN'S SEX DRIVE IS LEAPS AND BOUNDS HIGHER THAN A WOMAN'S, an you did everything right, they werent being emotionally neglected and there truly is nothing more you can do to keep this person happy and even though you've talked about it and talked about it and they STILL sexually neglect you???

Maybe you just aren't a good match. Sex is simply ONE of the aspects of a relationship. If there is something lacking in a relationship and one (or both) of the people in the relationship are not interested in "fixing it" - then it might be time to move on.

And I do not believe ANYONE is perfect. There is no perfect man, nor is there a perfect woman. We are all flawed in some way.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

Oh, and when I say "you" - I mean "you" in the general sense, not pointing fingers at any one person in particular.