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bran987

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Who ALL want to marry me. Because, they just, I am just him... I have ignored, delayed, deflected, self-deluded, and pretended not to notice when they began to drop hints... test the waters... evaluate my gumption.

Why? Because it's EASIER.

So, this girl I really have been digging for the past 5 months. More than any girl probably ever... so I decide to be honest this morn when she says:

"I'm just ready to move on to that next phase of my life, settle down."

WAIT WAIT first of all that has been an INSIDE JOKE between us about getting married and having kids, so I laugh... as I've been enjoying doing, as that is something her retarded mother says to her constantly which supposedly "annoys her".

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

But what a power a mother has.

So instead of doing all of said things I used to do above, after being sick, completely sick at my stomach all day at her comment, I decide to be honest:

I tell her that I just got out of a relationship last year where a woman began to test the waters and pressure me into marriage, and I made the right decision to end it because I want that to be a spontaneous and fun thing and I never want my wife and I to wonder why I asked her... and we have not even been together 6 months and while I enjoy her company more than anyone I've ever been with, I'm just not willing to be in that situation again and I want her to know it's because I care about her that I'm being so honest...

SO

I get asked to leave.

So I leave.

And experience tells me...........................................

don't call, I'll be hearin' from her.

Maybe :worried: she's hot.
 
Shes cheating on you!!!
 
that's good man.. at least you were honest to yourself..

if she is so insecure that she cant handle that and who you are, it's best to end it now..
 
bran987 said:
Who ALL want to marry me. Because, they just, I am just him... I have ignored, delayed, deflected, self-deluded, and pretended not to notice when they began to drop hints... test the waters... evaluate my gumption.

Why? Because it's EASIER.

So, this girl I really have been digging for the past 5 months. More than any girl probably ever... so I decide to be honest this morn when she says:

"I'm just ready to move on to that next phase of my life, settle down."

WAIT WAIT first of all that has been an INSIDE JOKE between us about getting married and having kids, so I laugh... as I've been enjoying doing, as that is something her retarded mother says to her constantly which supposedly "annoys her".

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

But what a power a mother has.

So instead of doing all of said things I used to do above, after being sick, completely sick at my stomach all day at her comment, I decide to be honest:

I tell her that I just got out of a relationship last year where a woman began to test the waters and pressure me into marriage, and I made the right decision to end it because I want that to be a spontaneous and fun thing and I never want my wife and I to wonder why I asked her... and we have not even been together 6 months and while I enjoy her company more than anyone I've ever been with, I'm just not willing to be in that situation again and I want her to know it's because I care about her that I'm being so honest...

SO

I get asked to leave.

So I leave.

And experience tells me...........................................

don't call, I'll be hearin' from her.

Maybe :worried: she's hot.

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you better marry the bitch

you're only going to get fat and ugly here on out
 
bran987 said:
Who ALL want to marry me. Because, they just, I am just him... I have ignored, delayed, deflected, self-deluded, and pretended not to notice when they began to drop hints... test the waters... evaluate my gumption.

Why? Because it's EASIER.

So, this girl I really have been digging for the past 5 months. More than any girl probably ever... so I decide to be honest this morn when she says:

"I'm just ready to move on to that next phase of my life, settle down."

WAIT WAIT first of all that has been an INSIDE JOKE between us about getting married and having kids, so I laugh... as I've been enjoying doing, as that is something her retarded mother says to her constantly which supposedly "annoys her".

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

But what a power a mother has.

So instead of doing all of said things I used to do above, after being sick, completely sick at my stomach all day at her comment, I decide to be honest:

I tell her that I just got out of a relationship last year where a woman began to test the waters and pressure me into marriage, and I made the right decision to end it because I want that to be a spontaneous and fun thing and I never want my wife and I to wonder why I asked her... and we have not even been together 6 months and while I enjoy her company more than anyone I've ever been with, I'm just not willing to be in that situation again and I want her to know it's because I care about her that I'm being so honest...

SO

I get asked to leave.

So I leave.

And experience tells me...........................................

don't call, I'll be hearin' from her.

Maybe :worried: she's hot.
shes not a keeper.

wanted to p-whip you and when she realized your not the type to shrink your balls down and be her bitch, she bounced.

probably sucking her ex's dick right now.
 
swole said:
you better marry the bitch

you're only going to get fat and ugly here on out

Fuck that.

You have to think positive.

He might get more jacked and richer. Then, he can have younger and hotter bitches.


Bran987, do not answer her call when she calls. You know she will. This is just a tactic to get her way. If you fall for it she will do the same thing with the sex after you get married.

After she calls, call her back next day. Tell her you are sorry you were busy with some friends, and it just ended up getting late. (be vauge) Tell her thanks for being as honest as I was. But, you wish she wouldn't have kicked your ass out. Tell her that you can still be "friends".

Then, wait patiently for her friends or sister to offer you teh seckxen.

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Is it wrong or sexist for me to think that the woman should never be the first one to bring that type of thing up?
I cant let myself get that emotionally involved that soon.
 
Stefka said:
Is it wrong or sexist for me to think that the woman should never be the first one to bring that type of thing up?
I cant let myself get that emotionally involved that soon.

I bet bran987's girlfriend said the same thing. They all do at first.
 
calveless wonder said:
you already know what to do bro.

you know her asking you to leave is just her being dramatic
if she asked him to leave after that fuck that shit, i would have said

"if you let me leave now, i am gone forever" and turn and walk towards the door.


(at least i wish i was that badass)
 
SublimeZM said:
if she asked him to leave after that fuck that shit, i would have said

"if you let me leave now, i am gone forever" and turn and walk towards the door.


(at least i wish i was that badass)

he can make the same point through actions, which he's going to.
 
calveless wonder said:
he can make the same point through actions, which he's going to.
yes this, brother, is the idea.

we shall see if our theory holds in the throes of real life. really do like her though.
 
bran987 said:
yes this, brother, is the idea.

we shall see if our theory holds in the throes of real life. really do like her though.

it does...love is screwing up your thinking. You don't want to lose her so you're doubting yourself :)
 
calveless wonder said:
it does...love is screwing up your thinking. You don't want to lose her so you're doubting yourself :)

^^^^^^^^

This guy is smart.

So, is this guy.
"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another."
HL Mencken
 
bran987 said:
Who ALL want to marry me. Because, they just, I am just him... I have ignored, delayed, deflected, self-deluded, and pretended not to notice when they began to drop hints... test the waters... evaluate my gumption.

Why? Because it's EASIER.

So, this girl I really have been digging for the past 5 months. More than any girl probably ever... so I decide to be honest this morn when she says:

"I'm just ready to move on to that next phase of my life, settle down."

WAIT WAIT first of all that has been an INSIDE JOKE between us about getting married and having kids, so I laugh... as I've been enjoying doing, as that is something her retarded mother says to her constantly which supposedly "annoys her".

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

But what a power a mother has.

So instead of doing all of said things I used to do above, after being sick, completely sick at my stomach all day at her comment, I decide to be honest:

I tell her that I just got out of a relationship last year where a woman began to test the waters and pressure me into marriage, and I made the right decision to end it because I want that to be a spontaneous and fun thing and I never want my wife and I to wonder why I asked her... and we have not even been together 6 months and while I enjoy her company more than anyone I've ever been with, I'm just not willing to be in that situation again and I want her to know it's because I care about her that I'm being so honest...

SO

I get asked to leave.

So I leave.

And experience tells me...........................................

don't call, I'll be hearin' from her.

Maybe :worried: she's hot.
WHOA!
 
Bran, She should respect the fact that your being honest and that you would like to continue to get to know her before entering a huge commitment.. Believe me, she will think about how childish she acted and beg your forgiveness. Open communication is the key.. Good Luck
 
How old is she & how old are you, if you don't mind me asking?
 
Arabian said:
Bran, She should respect the fact that your being honest and that you would like to continue to get to know her before entering a huge commitment.. Believe me, she will think about how childish she acted and beg your forgiveness. Open communication is the key.. Good Luck

I agree.
bran, just tell her that conversation happened too early, and that you'd be really happy if she just dropped it and let things continue to happen.

then know that the longer you make her wait, the more likely she is to cheat on you.
:)
 
stilleto said:
I agree.
bran, just tell her that conversation happened too early, and that you'd be really happy if she just dropped it and let things continue to happen.

then know that the longer you make her wait, the more likely she is to cheat on you.
:)
i dobut that..

if thts true, its the longer he is with her the more likely she is to cheat on him....people cheat after marriage
 
how old are you? how old is she? i agree that five months seems a little pre-mature. . .but to be honest, my wife and i had probably been dating for around a year when she started putting pressure on me for more of a committment. . .if she hadn't i'm sure it would have been quite a while before i moved any further. . .that was 18 years ago and the years since then have been the best of my life. . .

at a certain point (age is usually a factor) women (and men) generally start looking for someone to settle down with. . .that's normal. . .if you (and the women that you're dating) are that "age". . .get used to it. . .it ain't gonna go away. . .
 
Your mistake was being honest.

You should've just let her think what she wanted to think.

That way, you're happy and she's happy.
 
damn....5 months

and then ask you to leave? Well, if she is already willing to call things off over that then a marriage for sure wouldn't work out!!!!

your better off...your still young....your doing right by not rushing into it. Trust me...been there, done that twice :(
 
SublimeZM said:
i dobut that..

if thts true, its the longer he is with her the more likely she is to cheat on him....people cheat after marriage

Stilleto is right.

When a girl who wants to get married, and the guy wants to take it slow or says not ready YET. Most girls will continue working on her boyfreind while she looks for some other sucker who might be ready.

It has happened to myself and a lot guys I know.

Just the other day at the gym. This girl was talking 2 new guys she was interested in. I asked what happened to her boyfriend of 3 or 4 years. She said he told her he wasn't ready YET to get married, so they were seeing other people. I asked her friend if her boyfriend knew that she/they were seeing other people and she say no!
 
all the whey said:
Stilleto is right.

When a girl who wants to get married, and the guy wants to take it slow or says not ready YET. Most girls will continue working on her boyfreind while she looks for some other sucker who might be ready.

It has happened to myself and a lot guys I know.

Just the other day at the gym. This girl was talking 2 new guys she was interested in. I asked what happened to her boyfriend of 3 or 4 years. She said he told her he wasn't ready YET to get married, so they were seeing other people. I asked her friend if her boyfriend knew that she/they were seeing other people and she say no!
wtf? why are they in such a rush to get married to someone they dont givea fuck about enough to be faithful too?
 
SublimeZM said:
wtf? why are they in such a rush to get married to someone they dont givea fuck about enough to be faithful too?

that's an interesting question. . .but it definitely happens. . .they'll even say "i love you" to the "boyfriend" before they hang up the phone. . .while they're sitting in the room with the other dood that they're getting bizzy with on the side. . .seen it wiff my own eyz. . .
 
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