agreed man, agreed. there are bigger fish to fry. truth is, we love to see people lose everything. their money, love, reputation, life. we're sick fucks. heartless sick fucks.
I got that karma for this thread. It was from someone who doesn't usually agree with me, loves to get his/her digs in, but at least can realize when someone is talking common sense.
He/She brings up an excellent point that I have not DARED even bring into the mix because its nearly impossible to defend, although we can all relate and realize it.
Its also what I consider to be one of the fundamental differences between myself and the majority of others.
Seems like a LOT of people out there love to see the big guy fall. When someone makes it big, whether it be through luck or hard work, people automatically want to see that person fail, break town, torn down. It brings people pleasure to their own lives, makes them feel better about their own mistakes and short comings.
I identify with that feeling all too well, I used to feel it a lot. I thought that the worse other people do, the better I look! I figured the more people at the top that fall, the closer to the top I get. That is a truly miserable way to live life and I have long left it behind.
I find that not many people share my view now that I want to see others succeed. I want to see others happy. Even people who I do not like or care for, I'd rather see them happy than upset or sad. I know it doesn't make logical sense to many, its just how I am.
If someone who I have NEVER liked comes to me and says they lost their job, or a loved one, I feel sympathy and genuine concern. It didn't always come naturally, but now it does. I look at us as a country, and humans as a population as one living and breathing entity. We all face the same struggles and challenges and all pretty much want the same basic shit.
We also all make mistakes. Some are bigger than others, some easier to forget than others, but I definitely believe in second chances, I know I've been lucky enough to get a few in this life.