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i've been at my new job for slightly under 2 months and for the most part, i love it. i like the people I work with and I like what I do. I like the people that are under me and i've gotten a lot of compliments.

the problem is the owner/ceo.

first of all, he's 6'5, probably 250lbs, and 40 years old. he talks down to EVERYONE, cuts me off when i'm talking, and often walks away in the middle of a conversation and says, "i'm done with this conversation" when i'm trying to get clarification or discuss our marketing plans.

that's not the problem though. the problem is:
a. he curses constantly. he says "fuck" in every conversation, a few times. It doesn't offend me, obviously, but it's NOT appropriate for business. and certainly not when it's him talking down to me and telling me "this isn't what I fucking wanted."

b. monday I was in a conference call with the sales team. the CEO was demonstrating a sales call and gave out his fake email address during a fake phone call as "mrs smith@ I've got big breasts dot com."

He was sitting across from me when he said it.

c. during the meeting, he his laptop got a virus. he turned to our security expert in the room and said, "my computer has a trojan.... I guess I had cybersex and forgot to wear a rubber."



there are other instances that happen, but I can't remember. little things, but not appropriate. Should I just write them down with dates for future reference/use?
 
i've been at my new job for slightly under 2 months and for the most part, i love it. i like the people I work with and I like what I do. I like the people that are under me and i've gotten a lot of compliments.

the problem is the owner/ceo.

first of all, he's 6'5, probably 250lbs, and 40 years old. he talks down to EVERYONE, cuts me off when i'm talking, and often walks away in the middle of a conversation and says, "i'm done with this conversation" when i'm trying to get clarification or discuss our marketing plans.

that's not the problem though. the problem is:
a. he curses constantly. he says "fuck" in every conversation, a few times. It doesn't offend me, obviously, but it's NOT appropriate for business. and certainly not when it's him talking down to me and telling me "this isn't what I fucking wanted."

b. monday I was in a conference call with the sales team. the CEO was demonstrating a sales call and gave out his fake email address during a fake phone call as "mrs smith@ I've got big breasts dot com."

He was sitting across from me when he said it.

c. during the meeting, he his laptop got a virus. he turned to our security expert in the room and said, "my computer has a trojan.... I guess I had cybersex and forgot to wear a rubber."



there are other instances that happen, but I can't remember. little things, but not appropriate. Should I just write them down with dates for future reference/use?


Yes. An asshole like that will end up doing something that probably pits you against him in the future.

Documentation > Lack Thereof.
 
write them down? I probably wouldnt. But if i didnt like where it was going at this place, Id start making moves. Or, Id learn to deal with it I guess. Knowing me, Id start thinking it was funny and become just as innapropriate as he was, if not worse. Like ask him in a meeting with others when was the last time he jacked off.
 
thanks.

yesterday he was particularly condescending and it triggered something in me I guess. I went outside to get some fresh air and relax. the production manager came out to have a smoke and I couldn't even talk to him because I was afraid my voice would crack. like, he talked and I didn't say a word, then i just turned and went inside. I apologized to him today, but he said he knew perfectly well what was up with me.

Today he gave me a free wireless router. lol.
 
you should have sex with him. definitely let him give it to you anal style too.


there it is, glad i could help. karma points in return is good enough.
 
write them down? I probably wouldnt. But if i didnt like where it was going at this place, Id start making moves. Or, Id learn to deal with it I guess. Knowing me, Id start thinking it was funny and become just as innapropriate as he was, if not worse. Like ask him in a meeting with others when was the last time he jacked off.

i MIGHT do that too, but

he only thinks he's funny. nobody else is funny to him.

and everyone thinks he's an ass... i don't want to be thought of the same way, since I manage others.

today I said, "dude!" during a conversation where he thought he was being funny and he was fucking obnoxious to me back.
 
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