i'm far too paranoid about men sometimes i think...

[smallmovesal]

well, if that's what you want to think... a lot of it has to do with the feelings i have regarding what happened to me in february... that in some way i might have encouraged it (altough being unconscious isn't really a way of encouraging anything)... i guess it's my way of sorting out how to avoid the wrong impression... somewhere in my mind i have that tied to the incident although it's impossible since i never spoke with that guy at all that night.

what i mean to say is i'm paranoid now because of that... and i wasn't sure if one guy in particular (one instance) was trying to hit on me... i brushed it off, and then last week he definitely was hitting on me... didn't try anything but i'm afraid of feelings i'm not returning somehow being mistaken...

does that make any sense?

 

[b fold the truth]

There ARE nice guys around. Unfortunately they are both in Kentucky...right Saint?

B True

 

[Taps]

Smalls, what happened to you in Feb was fucking shitty and in no way your fault...you know that, right kiddo?

I think you have every right to be confused after an event like that.

If you're really worried about guys hitting on you, I think the best way to deal with it is to be clear you don't want any romantic involvement. Mention offhand you have a boyfriend, and that'll keep the guys from hitting on you. Perfectly acceptatble way to avoid unwanted attention, I think.

 

[mattcanning99]

im not talking about you sal, just any person, man or woman who would have too much of an attitude like that. im more thinking of two girls i know who have that attitude.

sorry if you thought i was referring to you.

 

[J-DAM]

I'd rather just be friends with a girl than complicate things with sex and a relationship.

But then again, I'm a eunuch.

 

[smallmovesal]

jdam, will you be my friend?

 

[Jimsbbc]

Girls like to be the center of attention and have guys stare at them so they can get pissed about it.

 

[Sebass67]

So very true...I know some girls like this and they act like they have a big ego but you know that they just want to go to busy places where there are lots of men so that they can reinforce themselves.

Sometimes...i feel like...

 

[J-DAM]

jdam, will you be my friend?

 

[Sebass67]

Sometimes i feel like...