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Prometheus
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bm2k said:
concur.
i'm far too paranoid about men sometimes i think...
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concur.
Taps said:I'm only nice to you 'cause I wanna bang your sister. How to you like them apples?
To be prefectly honest, most men think like this when they see a hot chick:
A) If I'm nice to this girl, she'll pay attention to me.
B) Ok, She's paying attention to me now....
C) Therefore, she must find me attractive.
D) I should hit on her so we can eventually have sex.
That's pretty much the male thought process when we do something nice for a girl. IF YOU TALK TO A GUY, HE WILL ASSUME YOU WANT TO SLEEP WITH HIM. See, the only time men really bother talking to women is when we're attracted to them. We assume it must work the same way for you.
It does make for awkward situations at times.My advice would be to make things clear right off the bat that you're not interested in them romantically. Or tell 'em you've got a boyfriend.
LMAO... its funny, cuz its true.
There are very few men(sad to say) that are really nice that are just trying to help women without wanting a piece. I try to warn my wife and my daughters of this frequently. Some guys are so devious it is unreal. A good rule of thumb if the guy is being to nice, he wants something.
mattcanning99
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there are just as many women out there sleeping with men as men sleeping with women (oddly enough, the math works like that), so how can any of you say that this is a problem with men? secondly, if there are fewer women having sex than there are men, then the women who are having sex are having LOTS of it to make up for all the women who hold back.
and sal, watch out - if the guy finds out you assumed he was hitting on you when in fact he was only trying to be nice and has no interest in you, he will think you have the biggest ego ever and probably detest you. well, if i was that guy, i would, reminds me of two such incidents, and i found it really hard to get over the egos of those two girls. it was especially easy for me to resent them afterwards, because i had no interest to begin with.
it would have to be pretty obvious to assume such a thing without being conceited at the same time.
and please don't say: "i have a bf" unless the situation merits it. i have a friend who asked his ex gf to coffee, and she said: "i have a bf". well, anyway, my friend may have liked this girl before (NOT at the time), but let me say, she was ugly in all ways, inside and out, and hearing her say that made me lose an awful lot of respect (assuming i had any for her to begin with).
just don't associate with the guys who are assholes, but give them the benefit of the doubt, until you have some kind of reason to stop talking to them. there are a lot of nice PEOPLE out there (both men and women) and there's no need to waste time with the jerks of either sex.
and sal, watch out - if the guy finds out you assumed he was hitting on you when in fact he was only trying to be nice and has no interest in you, he will think you have the biggest ego ever and probably detest you. well, if i was that guy, i would, reminds me of two such incidents, and i found it really hard to get over the egos of those two girls. it was especially easy for me to resent them afterwards, because i had no interest to begin with.
it would have to be pretty obvious to assume such a thing without being conceited at the same time.
and please don't say: "i have a bf" unless the situation merits it. i have a friend who asked his ex gf to coffee, and she said: "i have a bf". well, anyway, my friend may have liked this girl before (NOT at the time), but let me say, she was ugly in all ways, inside and out, and hearing her say that made me lose an awful lot of respect (assuming i had any for her to begin with).
just don't associate with the guys who are assholes, but give them the benefit of the doubt, until you have some kind of reason to stop talking to them. there are a lot of nice PEOPLE out there (both men and women) and there's no need to waste time with the jerks of either sex.
polarpixie
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Taps said:
LOL. I think there might be some truth to that. You don't know how many times I've heard friends tell me that so and so was thinking of asking me out or 'hooking up' with me because I tend to ask people alot of questions about themseleves and they mistake it for high romantic/sexual interest when in reality I'm just somewhat of an amateur sociologist...
Steroid_Virgin
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polarpixie said:
LOL. I think there might be some truth to that. You don't know how many times I've heard friends tell me that so and so was thinking of asking me out or 'hooking up' with me because I tend to ask people alot of questions about themseleves and they mistake it for high romantic/sexual interest when in reality I'm just somewhat of an amateur sociologist...
Thats just your little secret way of letting me know you want to rip off my clothes and call me daddy while you ravish me isn't it?
Milhouse
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I understand if you are getting harrassed by a dude(but everyone has thier definition of what is harrassment)
On the other hand are you women ever satisfied. If we pay attention to you we are horndogs, if we dont pay attention to you then you wonder whats wrong with you.
Just live with it.
On the other hand are you women ever satisfied. If we pay attention to you we are horndogs, if we dont pay attention to you then you wonder whats wrong with you.
Just live with it.
Rippeddrago
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We are never just nice, if so we are pussies. We want to get into your pants ALL THE TIME unless you're a relative. (Excluding those in Washington, Oregon). Sex is always #1 on the brain, and when we do nice things it's for sex, bottom line.
mattcanning99
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wow, this thread...
hmm, what to say?
hmm, what to say?
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