training is all about full range and perfect form, the amount of weight on the bar dont mean shit!!
And diet is the key, you can do everything else right, but if you're diet is giving your body what it needs to grow, then it aint gonna....
Realizing that the most important thing you know is that "you know nothing" and that the biggest guy is not always the strongest or smartest guy in the gym!
and one other thing; that women are just as horny as men, they just hide it better!