Dude, You rock immensely, and not due to you smoking out, or the fact that your wife shares the same descent I do.... or the fact that I really dig your taste in movies, its cause you are a good person... lol. Popping Collar lol...
This sounds to me like it has nothing to do with race, but more like its not a priority for him if U get blazed. Either way, your first joint, I'm predicting it will be better than most first joints, cause your perfectionistic tendencies and inherent need for organization, I just think those motivations will help... lol. Too funny.