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If a man you dont know touches you without asking
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Scotsman
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Raina said:
You're sister sounds awesome, must run in the family.
Smurf- There will always be jerkoff guys out, still don't let them get away with that shit, you should at least say something to let them know they have done wrong. When I was a doorman, if someone grabbed one of the girls I would usually uproot the bastard and plant him head first into the sidewalk outside. Not much pisses me off more than guys doing that shit.
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Scotsman
GoldenDelicious
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the ones that usually do it arent up to standard, and so i wear that frozen polite smile and move away
being a woman would get really annoying i think, since some people have nfi how to conduct themselves
being a woman would get really annoying i think, since some people have nfi how to conduct themselves
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GoldenDelicious said:
You have no idea Golden.... no idea.
I get wierdos all the time, I guess like Raina's sister, I'm a magnet for them. But unlike her sister I am only 5'3" and hardly as muscular as I used to be.
Let the smile leave your face (as Scotsman advised), stare him dead in the face and tell him, "PLEASE TAKE YOUR HAND OFF OF ME. I DONT LIKE THAT." No need to cuss unless you want to.
It is all about control. Guys like that arent harmlessly flirting. They are having a good time reducing you to a piece of meat - you cease being human. Dudes like this are insecure and major pussies that feel the need to make women feel like nothing because THEY are lacking in some department and are major women-haters.
And if the mood truly strikes you...
PUNCH THEM IN THE JAW.
deltreefitness said:
I don't think it matters what someone looks like. I don't see why being at a bar or club makes someone think they can just grope someone. It wouldn't go over well at the grocery store.
I only dress sexy when I'm with my husband and I'm hanging on him when we're out so it's not like I'm begging others to grab me.
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A woman should be able to stand there naked and still expect NOT TO be touched.
If the situation were reversed and women were doing the groping, do you think it would make the man feel good? I had been in a situation where a very wealthy socialite was grabbing the waitstaff (they were young men no older than 19, she was mid 40's to early 50's) and not letting them go about their business until they kissed her on the cheek. I WAS MORTIFIED. You could see how uncomfortabe these guys were. And they were terrified to say anything because they knew it would mean immediate dismissal from their jobs.
You should have heard this filthy disgusting old pig giggling about how the best lovers were young boys as they would do EVERYTHING to please an older woman, that they would WORSHIP YOU. I nearly wanted to throw up. But of course, because she was the one paying the bill all I did was sit there and smile (at the time I was modeling and she was very well connected so I was afraid to piss her off).
Up till that point in time I had always been on the receiving end of such behavior and always thought that were the tables turned a man would enjoy it, especially if he were young and handsome.
You should have seen the looks on the faces of those guys.
I will NEVER forget it as long as I live.
Bottom line - NO ONE has the right to touch another.
If the situation were reversed and women were doing the groping, do you think it would make the man feel good? I had been in a situation where a very wealthy socialite was grabbing the waitstaff (they were young men no older than 19, she was mid 40's to early 50's) and not letting them go about their business until they kissed her on the cheek. I WAS MORTIFIED. You could see how uncomfortabe these guys were. And they were terrified to say anything because they knew it would mean immediate dismissal from their jobs.
You should have heard this filthy disgusting old pig giggling about how the best lovers were young boys as they would do EVERYTHING to please an older woman, that they would WORSHIP YOU. I nearly wanted to throw up. But of course, because she was the one paying the bill all I did was sit there and smile (at the time I was modeling and she was very well connected so I was afraid to piss her off).
Up till that point in time I had always been on the receiving end of such behavior and always thought that were the tables turned a man would enjoy it, especially if he were young and handsome.
You should have seen the looks on the faces of those guys.
I will NEVER forget it as long as I live.
Bottom line - NO ONE has the right to touch another.
He is ignorant.
You represent the resturant and yourself.
"Please do not touch me. That is called assault."
Say it quietly to him with a smile and self-confidence.
Immediately tell Management so they can confirm your story if it escalates.
Continue to wait on him/them and I'll bet you will be respected and tipped well.
If not, have Management escort them OUT.
You represent the resturant and yourself.
"Please do not touch me. That is called assault."
Say it quietly to him with a smile and self-confidence.
Immediately tell Management so they can confirm your story if it escalates.
Continue to wait on him/them and I'll bet you will be respected and tipped well.
If not, have Management escort them OUT.
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I have been in her situation more times than I care to admit.
No one is ever respected OR tipped afterwards. The guy's friends get really embarrassed and my apologize for the behavior of their friend and they QUICKLY leave because the "evening has been ruined".
Tell management. If you are a good worker (which I am sure you are) they will say, "Fuck that asshole. If he comes back to bother you - let us know."
That is the best one can hope for. Ultimately, you are dealing with drunk assholes that think they can get away with such behavior because they spent 7$ for a beer and "dammit, they are going to enjoy it."
If you dont have a strong stomach then sadly, you need to find another way to pay the bills. All the assholes out there will not change.
No one is ever respected OR tipped afterwards. The guy's friends get really embarrassed and my apologize for the behavior of their friend and they QUICKLY leave because the "evening has been ruined".
Tell management. If you are a good worker (which I am sure you are) they will say, "Fuck that asshole. If he comes back to bother you - let us know."
That is the best one can hope for. Ultimately, you are dealing with drunk assholes that think they can get away with such behavior because they spent 7$ for a beer and "dammit, they are going to enjoy it."
If you dont have a strong stomach then sadly, you need to find another way to pay the bills. All the assholes out there will not change.
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