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princesa

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So I met up with a few friends at a lounge in the west village last night. The moment I walked through the door I couldn't help but spot this really good looking guy as he was just standing right next to my friends table. We did the eye contact thing, I gave him a smile he smiles back blah blah... As I'm talking to my friends I noticed that he was still looking. I introduced myself, we talked for a quiet a bit and then I excused myself. I had to take a call, I didn't want to be rude so I went to the restroom. On my way back to the table I noticed that he was talking to some guy. I'm like okay cool, I wasn't gonna interrupt so I head back to my table. I'm looking around his table and I noticed there were 6 guys, all extremely good looking btw. I'm thinking, no women?! hmmm I take another look at him and he is gazing into this dudes eyes. I'm like ohh f**&&* he is gay. I was very disappointed!

I mean make up your mind. What are you gay/straight?! Why flirt and/or lead someone on if you are gay?!
 
LOL
Narcisissism Goes both ways.
She is a fickle bish... whom pwns a lota peeps.
Atleast him and his beau, have a chuckle bout some hawtie who's spider sense was off.
No pic request this time.
 
Guys do that too. A woman smiles at them, and instantly they think 'yeah she wants me'.

It's also like an EF guy thang. I never have that problem, cuz 99% of the time, the chick wants me. Must be my 80s atari t-shirt.

r
 
Perhaps he was intimidated. Or just blows (no pun) when it comes (no pun) to talking to wimminz.

I was never good at taking hints. The only way I knew my wife was into me when I met her was because she just came out of nowhere and kissed me on the cheek.

Plus she was drunk so I figured it would be an easy slay anyway.
 
princesa said:
So I met up with a few friends at a lounge in the west village last night. The moment I walked through the door I couldn't help but spot this really good looking guy as he was just standing right next to my friends table. We did the eye contact thing, I gave him a smile he smiles back blah blah... As I'm talking to my friends I noticed that he was still looking. I introduced myself, we talked for a quiet a bit and then I excused myself. I had to take a call, I didn't want to be rude so I went to the restroom. On my way back to the table I noticed that he was talking to some guy. I'm like okay cool, I wasn't gonna interrupt so I head back to my table. I'm looking around his table and I noticed there were 6 guys, all extremely good looking btw. I'm thinking, no women?! hmmm I take another look at him and he is gazing into this dudes eyes. I'm like ohh f**&&* he is gay. I was very disappointed!

I mean make up your mind. What are you gay/straight?! Why flirt and/or lead someone on if you are gay?!
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no worries im not gay and ill be there soon we can hang out! :)
 
Lol at wiminz...every guy that talks to you must be interested..maybe he was looking for a shopping buddy because he noticed your trendy style. :)
 
javaguru said:
Lol at wiminz...every guy that talks to you must be interested..maybe he was looking for a shopping buddy because he noticed your trendy style. :)
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aren't they the same wimminz that blow off 20 guys that complement them, focusing only on the 1 guy who blew them off? hehe. Women and their egos. lol.

tip: to get women to want you bad, act like you're not interested in them. complimenting them only throws you into the dreaded 'friend zone' -- unknown manly man 1940.

r
 
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jfn2 said:
were you in a GAY bar to begin with? HINT, HINT....
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Someone YOU know was at a gay bar... with me... on my birthday.
And she got a perty bruise(from hip to knee)from fallin off tha stripper pole... at tha gay bar.
 
lolololol
p, maybe he was just being friendly. when someone smiles at you, the natural inclination is to smile back.

i've been on the other side of the token where im having a conversation with someone and just being social when out, and they (dude) turn out to be gay and think they have a chance with me. ends up pretty awkward
 
calveless wonder said:
lolololol
p, maybe he was just being friendly. when someone smiles at you, the natural inclination is to smile back.

i've been on the other side of the token where im having a conversation with someone and just being social when out, and they (dude) turn out to be gay and think they have a chance with me. ends up pretty awkward
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If you stayed out of TWIST you wouldnt have this problem
 
calveless wonder said:
lolololol
p, maybe he was just being friendly. when someone smiles at you, the natural inclination is to smile back.

i've been on the other side of the token where im having a conversation with someone and just being social when out, and they (dude) turn out to be gay and think they have a chance with me. ends up pretty awkward
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+1,
except I think the gay guys know I'm straight and look at me as some kind of challenge or something like that sometimes. Twisted, but I really believe that. They are just overly friendly and don't do anything really weird atleast. Similar to how a girl flirts. You're not the first girl to be duped by some gay guy. I can tell a girl is really into me sometimes because they'll flat out ask if a guy is gay. Not that they think a guy is, just that they think they're good looking and friendly and have been burned just like you did.
 
I dunno... maybe the guy was from the south and didn't believe in being what southerners might perceive as being rude?

If I was back east then I (like you) would assume the man was interested in me. But having lived in the south now I wouldn't necessarily assume that. I would just assume he was being polite.

Or he could have been having fun (harmless fun) chatting w/you a moment knowing full well that it wasn't going to go ANYWHERE. (Tell me you've never done THAT before).

Or he could have thought that you were pretty, well-dressed and was charmed by your personality and thought it neat to chat for a few minutes to an individual whom he had ZERO sexual interest in. Would THAT be so horrible?

Regardless of the scenario I wouldn't be irritated by it. I would take the situation as a compliment. :)
 
lartinos said:
+1,
except I think the gay guys know I'm straight and look at me as some kind of challenge or something like that sometimes. Twisted, but I really believe that. They are just overly friendly and don't do anything really weird atleast. Similar to how a girl flirts. You're not the first girl to be duped by some gay guy. I can tell a girl is really into me sometimes because they'll flat out ask if a guy is gay. Not that they think a guy is, just that they think they're good looking and friendly and have been burned just like you did.
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lol of course they don't think i'm gay bro. what you said is the whole thing. lots of gay dudes think they can "turn" straight dudes. but they figure if you're friendly and open to them its their in
 
calveless wonder said:
lol of course they don't think i'm gay bro. what you said is the whole thing. lots of gay dudes think they can "turn" straight dudes. but they figure if you're friendly and open to them its their in
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I've had geigh dudes swear on their lives... I was geigh...
LOL
Fuck I don't care... I'm not feminine in the sense that I"m prissy or some shit like that.
I just think since I'm more articulate than most straight dudes... and I dunno affable, than dudes in the midwest, out west it happens less, like way less. Geigh Dar is more discerning...
Well in the midwest it tripps of geighdar.

Either way, its a compliment.
 
some enlightened people just can't help but to respond to beauty, style and grace. take it as a compliment, dawlin' !
 
calveless wonder said:
lol of course they don't think i'm gay bro. what you said is the whole thing. lots of gay dudes think they can "turn" straight dudes. but they figure if you're friendly and open to them its their in
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lol, i didn't mean it that way lollololol
 
try not to think every guy who takes the time to talk with you after you approach them in a bar is actually interested in more than a brief conversation with you. it will make for less fingernail biting and posting about it on EF for approval.
 
Damn! Give me some credit guys, at least those who do know my character here a bit. I'm not one of those people who thinks that every person I talk to or smiles at me wants to screw me jeeezz :) I thought that he was interesting and that we hit it off but, the thought that he was gay never really crossed my mind. It caught me by surprise, it never happened before. I guess my gaydar was way off lol.. and yeah maybe I misread the signs who knows...I'm not gonna lie though, gay or not I was attracted to him it doesn't happen to me everyday. Whatever, it's all good I still had a good time :) ...
 
princesa said:
Damn! Give me some credit guys, at least those who do know my character here a bit. I'm not one of those people who thinks that every person I talk to or smiles at me wants to screw me jeeezz :) I thought that he was interesting and that we hit it off but, the thought that he was gay never really crossed my mind. It caught me by surprise, it never happened before. I guess my gaydar was way off lol.. and yeah maybe I misread the signs who knows...I'm not gonna lie though, gay or not I was attracted to him it doesn't happen to me everyday. Whatever, it's all good I still had a good time :) ...
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If he has a dick and isn't gay, why would you think otherwise?

(Meaning, that isn't a bad thing.)
 
P
This is not your situation the context is totally different, I was surprised dude turned out to be gay as well. By the thread title I thought dude was in your kitchen... -head- and maybe had your digits... was surprised you got, what plays out like a really bad mentos commercial in my head.

I remember when I was rushing the Pike House at Creighton, anyway, I was like 19 and ya know. So anyway, dude hits on this chic, and she just kinda blows him off... she walks away, and he looks me dead in the eye... and says 'Whore'. I mean what a douche. I was so put off by that, at 19... that yeah... house was not for me.
In fact I was put off by the whole scene I didn't even pledge that year.
I ended up being in a House, but still think Frats are Geigh.
LOL
 
-Ariel- said:
P
This is not your situation the context is totally different, I was surprised dude turned out to be gay as well. By the thread title I thought dude was in your kitchen... -head- and maybe had your digits... was surprised you got, what plays out like a really bad mentos commercial in my head.

I remember when I was rushing the Pike House at Creighton, anyway, I was like 19 and ya know. So anyway, dude hits on this chic, and she just kinda blows him off... she walks away, and he looks me dead in the eye... and says 'Whore'. I mean what a douche. I was so put off by that, at 19... that yeah... house was not for me.
In fact I was put off by the whole scene I didn't even pledge that year.
I ended up being in a House, but still think Frats are Geigh.
LOL
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Guys like that are douches of epic proportions and are best left alone. Funny thing is that most often (I hate to generalize, I didn't say ALL.. I said MOST) men that are very attractive (and know it) are the ones that tend to be this way. They pour on the "phony Don Juan" horseshit until the girl makes it painfully obvious that she is NOT buyin it. Then some will actually come out and say it to her face! (Yup, I'd been on the receiving end of comments like that on more than one occasion.) At first it used to REALLY hurt my feelings but once I realized that this was all about THEM (had nothing to do with me) I used to chuckle and say something to the effect of, "Is THAT the best you could come up with? Please don't tell me you stayed up all night formulating that common monosyllabic grunt." Then I'd look at their knuckles and say, "Yup, just as I thought. Knuckles all beat up too from a lifetime of dragging on the ground."

There was no retort. Was priceless. :biggrin:
 
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