I will probably never find love...

[Cutiebaby]

I may be wrong, but from this end, you seem to be judging me. Dont throw stones at glass houses. I did make a poor decision with this relationship. But im fixing it, and i didnt ask for anyones help. I was just commenting on heathers situation and being empathetic. I made my bed, im sleeping in it. and i am a good mother. However, from ur comments, u should get mother of the year. You seem to never make mistakes.

No, see the thing of it is that people do make mistakes! Mothers make mistakes...I know I have been awake since 8 this morning and I have made many mistakes..My kids got snack before lunch, my kids did not have to pick up their toys because I did, I should have made it to the drug store a little earlier so my son could start meds today but had to make lunch instead,there are many...
However coming onto a fitness site and pretty much bragging about how you and your bf got into a fist fight on the highway....Fuck I mean, you don't know any of these people, yet you come out and talk like this? Goes to show that you really have 0 appreciation for privacy..Who knows maybe you are crying out for help by making all these statements, but still....
I am sorry all shoes are different in looks and sizes...However, I have a few thoughts on this, and shit I will say then purely because I can!!! First off, I highly doubt that out of the clear blue sky he decided to just hit you. NO I am not stating that it was your fault..what I am saying is clearly there has been abuse before now....Then you go on to talk about your 13 year old??? Do you want him to have this behavior? Hell i would be soooo ashamed if my other half ever hit me and I stayed around.....Another thing here is that you claim it is not your house and LE wont get him out for you...That is a pure crock of horse shit..Considering the fact that if you have any bruises or marks on you at all then you can just as easily not only get a no contact restraining order but you could also get him on domestic assualt charges....
And you claim to be a nurse? Not trying to knock you here but don't you think that being in a position that sees abuse cases, you would know what the hell to do???
SO dont go on knocking stilleto because obviously she is not the only one who sees things this way...
KthanxBye now

 

[H_T_]

she needs manlove. bestowed upon her by a manly man. one who chops wood with his shirt off, and belches & farts freely. one who will never say "i'm sorry" but at the same time, fly off the handle and demand apologies. one who would take the change out of center counsel and blame it on the homeless...

 

[all the whey]

she needs manlove. bestowed upon her by a manly man. one who chops wood with his shirt off, and belches & farts freely. one who will never say "i'm sorry" but at the same time, fly off the handle and demand apologies. one who would take the change out of center counsel and blame it on the homeless...

Don't we all need that though?

 

[heatherrae]

I do think there's different socio/sexual-economic reasons between the sexes for each choosing to stay in abusive relationships; for women it may be a matter of financial security, for men, some just enjoy a shoe to the ass or other ancillary parts.





Okay, that may be a bit flip and hyperbolic.

I'll be really honest here.

I think lots of time, it is financial dependence. I let that happen to me, which was a BIG MISTAKE.

Here is what happened. I gave up my law practice and all my furniture and moved in with my fiance in Florida. He was plenty wealthy and covered all the bills, my car payments, etc. However, he controlled everything that I did. It was subtle at first, and then got worse and worse until he would pull phone chords out of the wall and then the physical stuff. I had gotten in a situation where I could not just up and leave, or I didn't feel like I could. I didn't want to go to a woman's shelter because I had a dog and two cats. I was not licensed to practice law in Florida, and when I talked about getting a job, I would get pushed and shoved and told that I "have one foot out the door." He knew I was trying to be more independent so that I could leave if he was mean to me. I was a bit stuck financially.

 

[H_T_]

Don't we all need that though?

no one loves like a manly man...

 

[heatherrae]

Gosh people. Why be so harsh on bones? Jeez. It is hard to share something like that. She is doing the right thing. Give her a break.

 

[rubberneck]

Gosh people. Why be so harsh on bones? Jeez. It is hard to share something like that. She is doing the right thing. Give her a break.

SHE is the new kid on the block. We have to see how she handles herself!!

 

[heatherrae]

SHE is the new kid on the block. We have to see how she handles herself!!

Oh yeah, I forgot the new girls always get pummeled around here. lol.

 

[javaguru]

Gosh people. Why be so harsh on bones? Jeez. It is hard to share something like that. She is doing the right thing. Give her a break.

"life is rough, wear a fucking helmet." - Denis Leary

 

[rubberneck]

Oh yeah, I forgot the new girls always get pummeled around here. lol.

only the good women last here!!!