I will probably never find love...

[bones1435]

because you made an assumption, i said nothing about women beating. but now, i will. women who let that happen to them are just as responsible....once is an assault. twice is a lifestyle choice....

I totally agree. If you hit someone that you claim to love, then you have major character issues. and your a no good piece of shit. But if i decide to stay in that, then im no better. I'm out. no thanks. i dont need anyone beating on me. I just wish i could've broken his face yesterday.

 

[heatherrae]

I totally agree. If you hit someone that you claim to love, then you have major character issues. and your a no good piece of shit. But if i decide to stay in that, then im no better. I'm out. no thanks. i dont need anyone beating on me. I just wish i could've broken his face yesterday.

LOL...yeah, I sort of regret that I did not whip the shit out of my ex, either. At least you hit him. I just ducked and ran most of the time...lol.

 

[bones1435]

maybe things look different from this end...

I may be wrong, but from this end, you seem to be judging me. Dont throw stones at glass houses. I did make a poor decision with this relationship. But im fixing it, and i didnt ask for anyones help. I was just commenting on heathers situation and being empathetic. I made my bed, im sleeping in it. and i am a good mother. However, from ur comments, u should get mother of the year. You seem to never make mistakes.

 

[heatherrae]

uh oh...this thread took a bad turn.

Okay, everyone calm down and let's have a group hug.

 

[bones1435]

LOL...yeah, I sort of regret that I did not whip the shit out of my ex, either. At least you hit him. I just ducked and ran most of the time...lol.

Yeah, all i remember yeaterday is just looooooosing it. As i was punching his face, i just remember yelling and puching. I have never hit a face with a closed fist. its pretty painfull ofter its all said and done.

 

[blueta2]

uh oh...this thread took a bad turn.

Okay, everyone calm down and let's have a group hug.

I agree.....DONUTS FOR ALL! Bones you get two for kicking that dickhead out.

 

[H_T_]

I may be wrong, but from this end, you seem to be judging me. Dont throw stones at glass houses. I did make a poor decision with this relationship. But im fixing it, and i didnt ask for anyones help. I was just commenting on heathers situation and being empathetic. I made my bed, im sleeping in it. and i am a good mother. However, from ur comments, u should get mother of the year. You seem to never make mistakes.

i may have the perfect person for you. have you been introduced to HealOther yet????

 

[rubberneck]

You can't ignore my ass. It has magical powers.

and its HUGE!!!!!

 

[bones1435]

uh oh...this thread took a bad turn.

Okay, everyone calm down and let's have a group hug.

Yeah, i better go. I dont think im among friends here. I apoligize if my situation made anyone feel that they needed to comment on my mothering. I love my child. and i miss my husband dearly. I shouldn't have been so honest on here. If was truely a mistake.

 

[Bikini Mod]

no, thats the thing. i have great friends. and my self esteem is fine. i look forward to moving on and finding someone else. I cant get him out of the house. He wont leave. its my house. and he's from Jersey. The lady at the courthouse said that as long as he's getting mail here, this is his primary residence and i have to file papers to get him out. He's from Jersey so he doesnt have family here. And im sure if his mother found out what he did, she wouldn't take him in. I

If you had great friends they would have certainly advised you to get away from this abusive asshole long before he hit you. We all no it begins somewhat subtly not with you getting your head driven into the pavement because you were 10 minutes late for your first date.

And so what if you have to file papers? THEN DO IT.

I could care less that he has no family and no place else to go. Apparently that wasn't his primary concern when he was pummeling you.

I am not riding your ass. Just calling it like I see it.