I will probably never find love...

[Faizakafez]

this is why

I'm a lover and not a fighter..





now bring me some french toast with powdered sugar... momma!

 

[Cal_21]

look you sensitive little fag, get off of the internet...

Not a fag, not little, not sensitive. Just believe that a man shouldn't hit a woman. If he does he's an insecure small dicked, small minded piece of shit. Who would also most likely get his ass whooped by any guy if he has to get physical with women. If that offends you you're the sensitive fag.

 

[bones1435]

did it continue when you got home?

Yeah, he was seen throwing me down in the yard. So i think my neighbors called the cops. but i had left before they got to the house. So they only got his statement. He claimed to be the victim. Which if they could see my size and his juiced up size (that fing hilarious). Im glad i wasnt there though. I pretty much know most of the LE around here because of my job. I would have been so embarrased.

 

[stilleto]

Yeah, he was seen throwing me down in the yard. So i think my neighbors called the cops. but i had left before they got to the house. So they only got his statement. He claimed to be the victim. Which if they could see my size and his juiced up size (that fing hilarious). Im glad i wasnt there though. I pretty much know most of the LE around here because of my job. I would have been so embarrased.

sounds like you may have to do some major life evaluating.

 

[heatherrae]

what posses a man to hit a woman. I dont get it. Where they raised that way. Why would you want to physically hurt someone that you claim to love. And when i started hitting him back. he stopped hitting me and spit in my face. I have never had ANYONE spit in my face. I seriously wanted to kill him at that point. Talk about a dysfunctional relationship. He's so apoligetic today and says that it was "just a bad day for both of us". WTF! He just doesnt get it. And the cops wont make him move out. I have to go to the couthouse today and file for him to be evicted. There's something wrong with the system.

That is typical behavior of an abusive guy. By saying it is "just a bad day" he obviously doesn't think it is anything out of the ordinary. If you stay, it will get WORSE. Right now is called the honeymoon phase of the abuse cycle. He will be as sweet as can be to get you to stay.

 

[Bikini Mod]

what posses a man to hit a woman. I dont get it. Where they raised that way. Why would you want to physically hurt someone that you claim to love. And when i started hitting him back. he stopped hitting me and spit in my face. I have never had ANYONE spit in my face. I seriously wanted to kill him at that point. Talk about a dysfunctional relationship. He's so apoligetic today and says that it was "just a bad day for both of us". WTF! He just doesnt get it. And the cops wont make him move out. I have to go to the couthouse today and file for him to be evicted. There's something wrong with the system.

Oh let me count the ways.

 

[bones1435]

What kind of guy beats the crap out of his gf going down the interstate in a car lol. And hes a lot bigger than you I can imagine how that went down, did he beat you down with fists to the face and head or what? You should have called the fucking cops, jesus h.

I took two hard fist to the thigh. then whe i started fighting back (which im sure looked so horrible to anyone driving by) he puched me in the head. I hit hime twice with closed fist in the face, then thats when he spit on me. I wasnt raised that way. i had never had a man hit me. i was so enraged. i didnt know how to deal with it. i obviously could have dealt with it in a better manner. how f'ing jerry springer huh

 

[Bikini Mod]

That is typical behavior of an abusive guy. By saying it is "just a bad day" he obviously doesn't think it is anything out of the ordinary. If you stay, it will get WORSE. Right now is called the honeymoon phase of the abuse cycle. He will be as sweet as can be to get you to stay.

WERD also agree 100% with Stiletto's statement.

Get yourself some therapy to find out what it is IN YOU that you choose this type of partner. I am also willing to be that your friends aren't very nice to you either.

Took me losing my entire life - I mean ALL OF IT before I hit rock bottom before I reached out for help. YEARS OF THERAPY and bigtime cleaning out my closet and major life changes have FINALLY helped me to figure it out. I have a very loving doting supportive husband, one VERY VERY dear friend, only those family that truly love and support me.... now it's just a matter of time and tremendous effort to get it all straightened out.

If I did it.... anyone can.

This is generic advise for ANYONE who finds themselves in an abusive situation.

 

[H_T_]

Not a fag, not little, not sensitive. Just believe that a man shouldn't hit a woman. If he does he's an insecure small dicked, small minded piece of shit. Who would also most likely get his ass whooped by any guy if he has to get physical with women. If that offends you you're the sensitive fag.

that chivalric attitude will get you lots of internet play, Capt. save-a-ho. i've never heard of anyone standing up so vehemently to something considered socially unacceptable. you are truly unique....

 

[stilleto]

bones, in the short time you've been here, we've learned that you're an ER nurse who's boyfriend convinced her to try GH and then got caught, causing you to have to go to rehab and almost needing to shave your head to save yourself from further problems, and then he abused you.

You said you have a 13 year old son- are you being the mother you want to be?