I will probably never find love...

[redguru]

LOL...

wassup, chesty?

 

[heatherrae]

Two words....black men.

1. We won't mind the extra junk in the trunk.
2. We know you'll be home with the rug rat while we're out cheating on you with the bitch you can't stand.
3. Your law degree will keep us in shiny new grills for the duration.

Sounds so appealing.

 

[heatherrae]

At least your grammar does.

I would say that my grammar is better than average.

 

[jh1]

wassup, chesty?

You.

 

[Bikini Mod]

yeah, you are right, BM.

Once you get all of your ducks in a row with the baby and career and your hormones level out (LOL) you will find it much easier to shift some attention to dating.

And I do understand about having a hard time being alone as I NEVER was until my ex and I split and then I went from CONSTANT need for me to UTTERLY ALONE in the blink of an eye... I was very very depressed for many reasons. I had to go through an entire evolution before I understood more about me as a person - independant of being a mother. Then I had to reinvent my life several times, deal with a never ending custody battle, try to parent my girls and so on and so on....

Anyway, I learned how to enjoy being alone and how to focus on looking at life from the perspective of an individual. Once I got that figured out, being alone was NOT the same as being LONELY and I much prefered it to settling. I had my best friend and my family and my interests to keep my mind fed when I didnt feel like being with people.

I dated all sorts of men, and began to focus on my likes and more easily eliminate my dislikes.

You are a very generous soul and I can gather from what you have posted about yourself are most likely uncomfortable with a man who puts YOU FIRST. All I can say is.... GET OVER IT FAST.

There are many many men who are bright and witty and have wondefully generous hearts and are strong of character - will be a good partner for you and an excellent male role model to your son. He may not be your physical ideal - so? If his mind and his heart are beautiful then what difference does it make how he looks on the outside?

Again... just my .02

We are all free to make our own choices and decide what makes US happy.

 

[javaguru]

I would say that my grammar is better than average.

I normally don't make spelling and grammar jokes but I couldn't resist.

 

[rubberneck]

did you see the picture of the guy? GOD, HUGE earphones clipped on his belt loop, the pornostache, the nascar shirt and badge, and a fanny pack. Then, the porno pose in the parking lot outside of some nascar event.



You think we would have anything to talk about?

YOU TWO MAKE A CUTE COUPLE!!!! LOL

 

[MichaelScott]

i takes cares of mys kids

 

[heatherrae]

 

[Bikini Mod]

I dont care how much of a giver a woman is, if shes a single mom its a no-go on all counts just on principle.

And that is a fair statement. Matter of fact there was a point in time when my preference was dating men who had no children of their own.

We are all free to make our own choices.