I will never trust another woman as long as I live.

[all the whey]

I will never lend money to friends ever again...

....that have a vagina

 

[all the whey]

 

[Sassy69]

No such thing as a loan to a friend.

Further don't give any money expecting anything more than just the good feeling you get from knowing you were able to give and be happy you can afford to give.

On the lighter side it aint' always the bitches. Plenty of fuckheads in S. Florida owe me money. The upshot is I don't "lend" money any more.

Just to be funny you should call her up and ask if you can borrow a couple hundred.

 

[Arabian]

No such thing as a loan to a friend.

Further don't give any money expecting anything more than just the good feeling you get from knowing you were able to give and be happy you can afford to give.

On the lighter side it aint' always the bitches. Plenty of fuckheads in S. Florida owe me money. The upshot is I don't "lend" money any more.

Just to be funny you should call her up and ask if you can borrow a couple hundred.

Sassy, I tried that last night and actually went to see her thinking she would make good on the loan.. I walk in her house and see a new toshiba laptop her punk ass kid has a new nikon digital camera with its own printer, she has a new stainless refigerator new clothes for her and her punk ass kidd ...2 new mountain bikes hell it goes on and on.. So I ask her if she would mind starting to pay me back as she could the money I loaned her and she got all mad and said she had not recieved any money and that her mother did this for her... what a liar... her mother is as broke as she is.. she got mad so I left... I help her out in a time of crisis and IM THE ASSHOLe

 

[jh1]

Demand sexual favors.

 

[Arabian]

The bad thing is she is lying saying she has a credit card that she is putting this all on and when she gets her money she will pay it off.. bad news is she can not get a credit card due to her defaulting on several hundered thousand dollars with her old house... what a fucking tool

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

I'm the same as you. Random acts of kindness make the world a better place, and I am quick to help friends or family in need when I can. Sometimes I get taken advantage of, sometimes I don't. At the end of the day I know that those people who took my generosity for granted have to live with that. I understand you're angry, and hurt, but don't let someone else make you a cynic. Stay good and kind for yourself because that's who you are, and you'll always know who in your life is worth keeping around by who appreciates and reciprocates.

that's some good advice.

also I've had similar things like this happen to me aswell, one of the best peices of advice I've recieved.

is when you lend some money out, don't expect to get it back.

be comfortable with that when you do it, or don't do it imo.

 

[biteme]

Sassy, I tried that last night and actually went to see her thinking she would make good on the loan.. I walk in her house and see a new toshiba laptop her punk ass kid has a new nikon digital camera with its own printer, she has a new stainless refigerator new clothes for her and her punk ass kidd ...2 new mountain bikes hell it goes on and on.. So I ask her if she would mind starting to pay me back as she could the money I loaned her and she got all mad and said she had not recieved any money and that her mother did this for her... what a liar... her mother is as broke as she is.. she got mad so I left... I help her out in a time of crisis and IM THE ASSHOLe

The only way you're probably going to get that money back is thru intimidation. Otherwise, you'll probably have to let it go.. She's a fucking roach that deserves to be stomped on.. Tell her in a roundabout way, that you will fuck her world up if she doesn't pay you back, or you could grab her by the throat (that worked once for me) although with a woman that won't work because the bitch will call the police and you'll be arrested. People that know me, know not to fuck with me... I'm my own mafia.

 

[puddlemonkey]

what a fucking tool

Unfortunately she's laughing while saying the same about you.

 

[Arabian]

The only way you're probably going to get that money back is thru intimidation. Otherwise, you'll probably have to let it go.. She's a fucking roach that deserves to be stomped on.. Tell her in a roundabout way, that you will fuck her world up if she doesn't pay you back, or you could grab her by the throat (that worked once for me) although with a woman that won't work because the bitch will call the police and you'll be arrested. People that know me, know not to fuck with me... I'm my own mafia.

I cant Im already facing 9 months in prison on my third bar fight in which the 2 men pressed charges last year and that trial is coming up in March.... I cannot get in any more trouble... I have 4 assault and battery convictions on my record due to bar fights etc: