I was "defriended" after 21 years - email included

[cindylou]

Yes, I know this - if you'll notice included in the email response was commentary about how she overreacts about emails and facebook communication, and that you can't rely on the tone or think you understand what they mean. So - yes I do know this, and she's the one that sent me the kiss off email... I was replying to her.

And she is the one that first said... "I know you think I'm being a drama queen"... and I said, well yes you are. When I say drama queen... she is a sever ehypochondriac and will put herself in the hospital for weeks at a time, doesn't admit she's a hypochondriac... She's been married twice already, she doesn't work, she is always crying out for attention, which ... after so many "wolf cries" ... it's deadening, nothing I have ever tried to do has helped her in any manner. She wanted me to sign for custody of her son last year - just give him to me. I've helped her get inpatient and outpatient psychotherapy help.


No, we are not sisters - rather "friends" since 1st grade or so, and in the past 10 yrs I have viewed the relationship more like family, as in - helping her and doing things for her and being there not because I like her or we have anything in common, but because it's like we're family.

Yikes.

 

[nimbus]

oh joaaaaaaana

did you knowwwww.. there was a razorback, in my truck?

 

[bigpokey]

lololol this some female shit right here yall hos retardos

 

[nydj66]

she and I have been over this over and over again. She's really emotionally needy and has some serious problems. It's not like this is out of the blue...
It's hard to explain everything - but she's a total whackjob. Everybody knows it, her parents, my parents...

If she's emotionally needy and a "total whackjob" (and you know it) then you have to expect this stuff.

The defriending won't last.

 

[Rachel...lol]

If she's emotionally needy and a "total whackjob" (and you know it) then you have to expect this stuff.

The defriending won't last.

I understand that, but she also needs somebody to stop sugarcoating things and tell her to get her shit together.

Incidently I was home at lunch and her dad caught me online on facebook (the chat), and he said "nice email"... I was like... "sorry"
and he said "don't be sorry, Julie and I salute you, and you're always a part of this family"

so..

 

[Sub-Zero]

It takes effort and time to maintain relationships.. people come and go in your life, take what you like from each experience..

only family are there for you and they'll screw u over everytime..

CC her parents?? dude, move on, life is too short..

i would physically assault over this

 

[ortiz34]

and this relates to us how?

 

[75th]

i would physically assault over this

This.

 

[nimbus]

shit happens


chuchhhh

 

[Ezekiel]

rachel is so hawt that nothing she does is wrong....However, that being said, perhaps some girl on girl actual might make your friend feel better.... We would need video evidence as well...