female relationships between women are tricky. Not all women are in that cliche, but many are. Try having a really good friend send suggestive texts to your husband and then when you call her on it, she tells you that you are being too sensitive and that she was just playing around. Imagine how much that would hurt. Try being close to another woman after shit like that happens.
If a friend of mine is hurt by something I say or write or do, even if I think they are being a drama queen or sensitive, I apologize and understand I have to be careful them them. Its really easy, if you know someone takes your texts or emails the wrong way, just put a smiley at the end. It takes two seconds and can change the whole tone of the message
I happen to be one of those women who does not have to have contact every single freakin second - but I do get butthurt if you no show at a bday party if we have done nothing but text for 6 months. You gotta do SOMETHING or it just feels one sided.