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I took that the wrong way

theoak01

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The girl I thought I was seeing apparently only thinks we are friends, I had a weird feeling bout it and just asked her whats up, and I guess shes kinda seeing someone else right now and just wants to be friends, aka Ill consider you if this other guy doesnt work out.

meh Im likely joining the airforce anyway if I decide its whats best so Ill be taking off anyway,plus there are many more women to meet
 
harsh... but it happens... i would also avoid women who are seperated because a lot of them will trade in happiness for comfort.
 
She's kinda of seeing someone right now??? WTF did she think was up when you picked her up, took her out to dinner, and went to the arcade? She didn't tell you this before you spent your time and money on her!!!
 
im young so def not looking for a woman with that kind of relationship experience, and ya its harsh but I prob just took shit the wrong way as it was my first "date " even though it wasnt since I split with my ex of 3.5 yrs in jan
 
nycgirl said:
She's kinda of seeing someone right now??? WTF did she think was up when you picked her up, took her out to dinner, and went to the arcade? She didn't tell you this before you spent your time and money on her!!!

guess not, I assume its a date when I pay for it all unless its someone Ive known for years and its our way of doing things.

the worst is Im running so ragged with work that its depressing I spent my emotional energy working on this shit,going out of my way to go see her after Ive worked a 14 hour day with another one the next day.

meh fuck it
 
ya when a crew comes by to my club, girls flock around... just say your name is Maverick
 
lol dammit I wanna be a firefighter not a flyboy,but they only have firefighter open as a option in the airforce,not army
 
nycgirl said:
She's kinda of seeing someone right now??? WTF did she think was up when you picked her up, took her out to dinner, and went to the arcade? She didn't tell you this before you spent your time and money on her!!!
are you automatically exclusive after one date?
 
SoreArms said:
are you automatically exclusive after one date?


I dont think so at all,but the way she sees it ,it was just friends,not even a date,which I was lead to believe, its no biggie,it sucks but Im not gonna stress over it
 
Dude fuck girls like that...... the stereotypical "barbie" that will actually lead people on just for attention. Fuck her, not literally.
 
Cata1yst said:
Dude fuck girls like that...... the stereotypical "barbie" that will actually lead people on just for attention. Fuck her, not literally.
no offense to oak 'cause he's one of my main niggas here, but we don't know that she lead him on. He thought there was more, what did she do, aside go on one date with him, to make him think that?
 
Im thinking it could be me just getting ahead of myself because we went on what seemed to be a date and she was super flirty etc,and I really like her,but either way shes seeing someone and bitching and moaning wont change it and I have alot more important shit on my mind, like if I wanna enlist
 
It's the fact he took her out to dinner (probably paid) went to an arcade and this whole time Oak didn't know anything because she "forgot" to mention of her significant other. A lead-on in the fullest. It's bullshit bro... its nothing against Oak this same shit happened to me!... bitch Lebanese version of Paris Hilton (I shouldve redflagged there) actually begged for me to take her out, go downtown with her, and by the end of the night you could cut the sexual tension with a knife. I learn the next day (not from her) but a friend that shes three months in with a boyfriend.
 
SoreArms said:
are you automatically exclusive after one date?

No, I'm not. I didn't state she should be exclusive after one date.

If she is seeing someone, I get the impression she has a boyfriend. Hence, she should not be on a "date".

Obviously, it wasn't in her eyes.
 
TheOak01 said:
Im thinking it could be me just getting ahead of myself because we went on what seemed to be a date and she was super flirty etc,and I really like her,but either way shes seeing someone and bitching and moaning wont change it and I have alot more important shit on my mind, like if I wanna enlist
well bro, I hope you don't make your decision based on this.

I have a feeling that you got ahead of yourself, very easy thing to do, it happens to me too.
 
Cata1yst said:
It's the fact he took her out to dinner (probably paid) went to an arcade and this whole time Oak didn't know anything because she "forgot" to mention of her significant other. A lead-on in the fullest. It's bullshit bro... its nothing against Oak this same shit happened to me!... bitch Lebanese version of Paris Hilton (I shouldve redflagged there) actually begged for me to take her out, go downtown with her, and by the end of the night you could cut the sexual tension with a knife. I learn the next day (not from her) but a friend that shes three months in with a boyfriend.
having a boyfriend is totally different, that skank should be hanged by her ingrown toe nails.

Seeing other people is no biggie though, at least until you start getting deep with someone else. Even then, if you haven't made a clear, mutual descision to be exclusive, then don't assume it.
 
nycgirl said:
No, I'm not. I didn't state she should be exclusive after one date.

If she is seeing someone, I get the impression she has a boyfriend. Hence, she should not be on a "date".

Obviously, it wasn't in her eyes.
I'm not 100% sure, but it seems to me like this chick is dating a guy or three at the same time, but is not exclusive with any of them. I see no problem with that unless she is some hpw making any of them think they're exclusive.
 
SoreArms said:
I'm not 100% sure, but it seems to me like this chick is dating a guy or three at the same time, but is not exclusive with any of them. I see no problem with that unless she is some hpw making any of them think they're exclusive.

How did you come up with that assumption from this thread?

It is clear from this thread that Communication isn't one of her strong points.
 
I guess im just old fashioned in where if im seeing someone I dont see other people aswell as I dont believe its right,but that doesnt mean everyone should be like me
 
hey bro. Is this the chick you took out to the arcade and had a great time....her family loved you????

Because, I told you you were were fucked if you took her out like a bitch and her parents loved you...You would be the guy (friend) she calls crying to after the guy she is banging pisses her off.

You should really look into being that other guy.
 
roll with the punches honey.. just not the right one for you, thankfully you found out now and not later.
 
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