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I think open relationships will become the standard.

NJjuice22

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Every day I hear story after story about "this married chick banging this guy", "this engaged chick went home with another guy last night" ...etc. etc...

this guy at my job is banging some chick at work daily ( sometimes 2-3x in his office) , now this girl is engaged to be married in a couple months. I had to tell him to stop talking to me about that situation as it makes me want to puke. fucked up shit is I played football with her fiance and I feel bad for him cuz he's a good guy(i know him on a "hey how are ya" basis) but I cant say shit..its not my place..


Last night while out ( i was on fire btw) my boy was grinding with some engaged girl who kept whispering in his ear "if my fiances sister wasnt here, I would bang you tonight" she asked him for his number also. nasty hoes.

the entire women's lib movement has fucked society. My opinion of the female population as a whole has dropped considerably . I personally will never put my faith in another woman, i rather just know they are a slut and probably banged some dude the night before while out with her friends ...so then I just can just do my thing also.
 
It is not cheating if it is an open relationship for both. It is understood and no one else needs to understand but the 2 people. It is the norm in large cities like NY, South Beach, LA, Vegas, Atlanta, etc... Big cities with sexy people with money run this lifestyle. Different strokes for different folks. I have said this many times on here. Each is own. No judgements!
 
nefertiti said:
Sucks...but not everyone is a cheater.
but the numbers are staggering and its getting worse and worse every year.women are being pigs and then they have the nerve to ask were are all the good guys,"where are we fuck we lost all hope and joined the dark side".
 
Yes, each place and person is different. If someone is not telling the truth then yes, they are a scumbag and it is not cool but if it is understood by both then it is their life. No one should judge unless they life the same life style. Neither way is right or wrong it is just what works for each person in each area.
 
yonkers weights said:
It is not cheating if it is an open relationship for both. It is understood and no one else needs to understand but the 2 people. It is the norm in large cities like NY, South Beach, LA, Vegas, Atlanta, gaylord etc... Big cities with sexy people with money run this lifestyle. Different strokes for different folks. I have said this many times on here. Each is own. No judgements!
don't forget gaylord bro, i added it for ya
 
needtogetaas said:
but the numbers are staggering and its getting worse and worse every year.women are being pigs and then they have the nerve to ask were are all the good guys,"where are we fuck we lost all hope and joined the dark side".


:whatever:

I know lots of girls that don't cheat. When I'm in a relationship I won't even drink if I'm not with m S.O. It's not that difficult to stay faithful or just break things off if the person isn't worth it to you to not betray their trust.
 
A lot of people on this site have or had this type of life style. Shit from what I hear and read the whole 70's was like this. Free love. Key parties. Shit like that. Things come in waves. Some could judge people on this site who do roids. Saying it is wrong. Each is own people.
 
People are missing the point. There are cheaters and then there are open relationships. HUGE DIFFERENCE!!! HUGE!!!
Please know what your saying before you say it. There is a difference. Cheating is bad and wrong but an open relationship is agreeded upon both both people in a relationship. HUGE DIFFERENCE!!!


nefertiti said:
:whatever:

I know lots of girls that don't cheat. When I'm in a relationship I won't even drink if I'm not with m S.O. It's not that difficult to stay faithful or just break things off if the person isn't worth it to you to not betray their trust.
 
yonkers weights said:
People are missing the point. There are cheaters and then there are open relationships. HUGE DIFFERENCE!!! HUGE!!!
Please know what your saying before you say it. There is a difference. Cheating is bad and wrong but an open relationship is agreeded upon both both people in a relationship. HUGE DIFFERENCE!!!


when I said OPEN relationships..i meant in both ways.

1. there is a mutual agreement and yall bang other people
2. the 2 of you just cheat on each other with no remorse. (i was talking bout this more than the 1st)
 
yonkers weights said:
People are missing the point. There are cheaters and then there are open relationships. HUGE DIFFERENCE!!! HUGE!!!
Please know what your saying before you say it. There is a difference. Cheating is bad and wrong but an open relationship is agreeded upon both both people in a relationship. HUGE DIFFERENCE!!!

Yonkers, I'm not a moron. I realize there is a huge difference, but the people nj were referencing are clearly cheating, so I was addressing this, as well as needtogetaas's comment which was not about open relationships either.

FWIW, I don't judge if that's the agreement a couple has it's none of my business. I certainly couldn't do it.
 
To my knowledge I've never been cheated on, but I don't trust women, most of my relationships are with cheating women anyway.
 
NJjuice22 said:
i know and its not that I feel bad about it either. now I just get to have no remorse for my actions. woo hoo


whats worse is worrying about someone who you think might be fuckin around.....I basically just don't.

If I found out I was cheated on......it's just bye bye bitch.
 
NJjuice22 said:
when I said OPEN relationships..i meant in both ways.

1. there is a mutual agreement and yall bang other people
2. the 2 of you just cheat on each other with no remorse. (i was talking bout this more than the 1st)

by George I think I did understand this one....there is a first for everything :)
 
PuddleMonkey said:
Facts are facts bro, most women are scandalous now days.



IF these hos continue to try to play me, I'll show them scandelous...


Yall have no idea how fucking scandelous JH1 will be..


WaterGate ain't got shit on this...
 
yonkers weights said:
It is not cheating if it is an open relationship for both. It is understood and no one else needs to understand but the 2 people. It is the norm in large cities like NY, South Beach, LA, Vegas, Atlanta, etc... Big cities with sexy people with money run this lifestyle. Different strokes for different folks. I have said this many times on here. Each is own. No judgements!

Just shut up! you and your girl have one off the wall relationship!
 
I know you are not. Did not mean that in anyway.
I guess I read it wrong. Sorry for any misunderstanding.

nefertiti said:
Yonkers, I'm not a moron. I realize there is a huge difference, but the people nj were referencing are clearly cheating, so I was addressing this, as well as needtogetaas's comment which was not about open relationships either.

FWIW, I don't judge if that's the agreement a couple has it's none of my business. I certainly couldn't do it.
 
What the hell is the point in an open relationship if your just going to fuck other people? There is no relationship and your ass should just stay single!


For the Record.....I DO NOT CHEAT! I WILL BREAK IT OFF BEFORE I GO AND DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT
 
It makes me wonder how many times I've been cheated on and didn't know it. I've seen plenty of cheaters and despite popular belief, women cheat just as much as men in general.

You can thank the decline of morals in society. Add in mass transportation, cell phones, the internet, etc and it's very easy to meet and be around new people constantly. It's all about sex nowadays. All this together is a recipe for infidelity.

It's the same as with everything, it all boils down to what kind of person YOU are. Don't drop your morals simply because it's easy, temporary satisfying or "because everyone else is doing it"

There are still some decent people in this world who aren't selfish, although it's becoming more rare each day.

I've never cheated, not even remotely, and I'm damn proud of it.
 
That is great fo you. Congrats! Clap Clap Clap
You may step down off your soap box now and stage left.
Yes, I can be a dick sometimes.
You sound very bitter like you have been cheated on several times...

covergrl80 said:
What the hell is the point in an open relationship if your just going to fuck other people? There is no relationship and your ass should just stay single!


For the Record.....I DO NOT CHEAT! I WILL BREAK IT OFF BEFORE I GO AND DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT
 
if you cheat in ur relationship the chances of it surviving are less than 1 in 100.

Open or not.

So if that becomes the norm then meaningful relationships that LAST will not be the norm.

Oh wait ; thats how it is already. lol.

Not saying that open relationships dont work ; its just super hard to get it to last. Is that not what we are all after? A lasting relationship?
 
jerkbox said:
every time.

My GF's figured I'm so damn good looking and have women hitting on me constantly that it's only a matter of time before I cheat, so they beat me to it. Right?

right?
 
alien amp pharm said:
It makes me wonder how many times I've been cheated on and didn't know it. I've seen plenty of cheaters and despite popular belief, women cheat just as much as men in general.

You can thank the decline of morals in society. Add in mass transportation, cell phones, the internet, etc and it's very easy to meet and be around new people constantly. It's all about sex nowadays. All this together is a recipe for infidelity.

It's the same as with everything, it all boils down to what kind of person YOU are. Don't drop your morals simply because it's easy, temporary satisfying or "because everyone else is doing it"

There are still some decent people in this world who aren't selfish, although it's becoming more rare each day.

I've never cheated, not even remotely, and I'm damn proud of it.


As the person that defined what an SWV was and is, I'm sure you've sucked many a dick when you've gone down on your wimmens.
 
Like I have said many times:
"Most people are only as faithful as their options."
I did say most not all. I do think all of this tech stuff makes it easier. Look how many people on this site have met new people from being on it. This is not even a pick up site. It should be a Roid and Workout site...
I DO NOT CHEAT! I REPEAT I DO NOT CHEAT!
Cheating is when you lie and fuck behind others backs. I do not cheat!
Why have there been so many posts and threads about this as of late?
People what to know....
 
1 out of 100 is that a stat??? :-)
Every relationship is hard these days. Does an open relationship have a harder shot at lasting... I don't know. Maybe both people are happier so it will last. Most relationships end because of cheating. So if no one is cheating then....


cindylou said:
if you cheat in ur relationship the chances of it surviving are less than 1 in 100.

Open or not.

So if that becomes the norm then meaningful relationships that LAST will not be the norm.

Oh wait ; thats how it is already. lol.

Not saying that open relationships dont work ; its just super hard to get it to last. Is that not what we are all after? A lasting relationship?
 
alien amp pharm said:
My GF's figured I'm so damn good looking and have women hitting on me constantly that it's only a matter of time before I cheat, so they beat me to it. Right?

right?


Just keep telling yourself that bro, its true if you believe it!
 
this 22 year old hooters girl I went out with last night just called
we're going to the gym tonight
she's bi,likes 3somes
holy grail stuff
 
yonkers weights said:
Like I have said many times:
"Most people are only as faithful as their options."

Sorry, but I really disagree. I'm sure a person with more options faces higher and more frequent temptations but it still comes down to whether or not you have respect for your partner and an ounce of self control.
 
jnevin said:
As the person that defined what an SWV was and is, I'm sure you've sucked many a dick when you've gone down on your wimmens.

gross! :sick:


for the record I was never a SWV, that was all just for show and amusement.

;)
 
Love them young chicks. They think they are still in college and kissing other girls is cool. Which it is but they don't need to do it to land an older guy. But the more the better!!! Best of luck!!!

Spartacus said:
this 22 year old hooters girl I went out with last night just called
we're going to the gym tonight
she's bi,likes 3somes
holy grail stuff
 
Yes, you are right. Not looking to fight about this. Remember I do not cheat.
I keep getting lumped in as a cheater and it upsets me. Cheating is not cool after high school. :-) Back then it was fun and cool. JK


nefertiti said:
Sorry, but I really disagree. I'm sure a person with more options faces higher and more frequent temptations but it still comes down to whether or not you have respect for your partner and an ounce of self control.
 
yonkers weights said:
Yes, you are right. Not looking to fight about this. Remember I do not cheat.
I keep getting lumped in as a cheater and it upsets me. Cheating is not cool after high school. :-) Back then it was fun and cool. JK

Sugar, I wasn't calling you a cheater...just arguing a point.

:)
 
yonkers weights said:
Yes, you are right. Not looking to fight about this. Remember I do not cheat.
I keep getting lumped in as a cheater and it upsets me. Cheating is not cool after high school. :-) Back then it was fun and cool. JK



lol

YW - I'm sorry but you are so WIERD!!

You are a nice guy but just you are just DIFFERENT.

haha!!!
 
Yes, I am different not weird. A lot of people in the world and even on here have the same thoughts. I not going to pull names out and blow spots up. I am just open with it. I live a different life then most. Most New Yorks are different anyways.
I love sex, money, women and partying! I have a life that some only dream about and some hate. Like I always say, different strokes for different folks. I don't judge you and I hope you don't judge me. If you can't understand or agree that does not mean it is wrong.
What works for me might not work for you. No big either way!
 
yonkers weights said:
Yes, I am different not weird. A lot fo people in the world and even on here have the same thoughts and I not going to pull names out. I am just open with it. I live a different life then most. Most New Yorks are different anyways.
I love sex, money, women and partying! I have a life that some only dream about and some hate. Like I always say, different strokes for different folks. I don't judge you and I hope you don't judge me. If you can't understand or agree that does not mean it is wrong.


nope.

course not.

I'm not that close minded ; I understand not everyone lives life like I do. lol.

Will your relationship continue to be open after you get married; or does she expect you to stop?
 
I once heard that women cheat more often than men, the only difference is they actually know how to keep it a secret.
 
NJjuice22 said:
Every day I hear story after story about "this married chick banging this guy", "this engaged chick went home with another guy last night" ...etc. etc...

this guy at my job is banging some chick at work daily ( sometimes 2-3x in his office) , now this girl is engaged to be married in a couple months. I had to tell him to stop talking to me about that situation as it makes me want to puke. fucked up shit is I played football with her fiance and I feel bad for him cuz he's a good guy(i know him on a "hey how are ya" basis) but I cant say shit..its not my place..


Last night while out ( i was on fire btw) my boy was grinding with some engaged girl who kept whispering in his ear "if my fiances sister wasnt here, I would bang you tonight" she asked him for his number also. nasty hoes.


the entire women's lib movement has fucked society. My opinion of the female population as a whole has dropped considerably . I personally will never put my faith in another woman, i rather just know they are a slut and probably banged some dude the night before while out with her friends ...so then I just can just do my thing also.

I'm old school.

Sounds like these peeps do not have any self respect for themselves or their future partner.Plain and simple-NO RESPECT.

Shit, sex is sex, it's all done the same way.What if the sex was not so good with the fling? Now what? Was it worth screwing up something really good with a decent man or woman you could have a wonderful life with? I think not.

I will tell you this, IF I knew this guy, I'd send a note to him about his cheater and not sign it. Once a cheater, always a cheater!
 
Open unless we talk and change. Right now it is not has open. We have slowed down A LOT. It is us not just me.

cindylou said:
nope.

course not.

I'm not that close minded ; I understand not everyone lives life like I do. lol.

Will your relationship continue to be open after you get married; or does she expect you to stop?
 
Cheating and Open are 2 different things.

vixensghost said:
I'm old school.

Sounds like these peeps do not have any self respect for themselves or their future partner.Plain and simple-NO RESPECT.

Shit, sex is sex, it's all done the same way.What if the sex was not so good with the fling? Now what? Was it worth screwing up something really good with a decent man or woman you could have a wonderful life with? I think not.

I will tell you this, IF I knew this guy, I'd send a note to him about his cheater and not sign it. Once a cheater, always a cheater!
 
A lot of people on this site have or had this type of life style. Shit from what I hear and read the whole 70's was like this. Free love. Key parties. Shit like that. Things come in waves. Some could judge people on this site who do roids. Saying it is wrong. Each is own people.
 
yonkers weights said:
That is great fo you. Congrats! Clap Clap Clap
You may step down off your soap box now and stage left.
Yes, I can be a dick sometimes.
You sound very bitter like you have been cheated on several times...

Your right I have been cheated on in the past.
I guess you and the fucking ass holes I have dated in the past share the same DNA!

It's dick bags like yourself that make hard for women like me to trust men. You say your so in love with your women and talk about how your going home on your lunch break to bang the hell out of her! Mean while you on this board trying to throw your WACK ASS game my way in you lame PM'S! Go fuck yourself Douche Bag!

I am sure you will have some silly little insults directed towards me after reading this. And that's cool! just remember while wasting even more of your time on me you should be working on your pick up skills cause you really fucking suck at it! :qt:
 
covergrl80 said:
Your right I have been cheated on in the past.
I guess you and the fucking ass holes I have dated in the past share the same DNA!

It's dick bags like yourself that make hard for women like me to trust men. You say your so in love with your women and talk about how your going home on your lunch break to bang the hell out of her! Mean while you on this board trying to throw your WACK ASS game my way in you lame PM'S! Go fuck yourself Douche Bag!

I am sure you will have some silly little insults directed towards me after reading this. And that's cool! just remember while wasting even more of your time on me you should be working on your pick up skills cause you really fucking suck at it! :qt:

lmao!

ouch!
 
WOW. Your an angry cheated on girl.... :-)
Get over it. You got cheated on cause your "wack" (your word)
Either he found someone hotter or someone cooler, either way you lost your man, stopping redirecting towards me. My life is tight. It is all going in the right direction. Don't be mad. As a single mom I am sure it is hard for you to meet people but don't take it out on me. Because your getting fired don't take it out on me. Because you got cheated on, don't take it out on me. It is your life, get control and stop redirecting, I am sure your doc tells you the samethings. Get control of your own life and leave others alone. You will find a man when you stop being so angry! If I wanted I could of been in Delaware this weekend hitting it. You and I both know it. I am not interested so you got bad and are being a crazy lady! Truth hurts. Take care. Not looking to be mean just honest and call it like I see it.


covergrl80 said:
Your right I have been cheated on in the past.
I guess you and the fucking ass holes I have dated in the past share the same DNA!

It's dick bags like yourself that make hard for women like me to trust men. You say your so in love with your women and talk about how your going home on your lunch break to bang the hell out of her! Mean while you on this board trying to throw your WACK ASS game my way in you lame PM'S! Go fuck yourself Douche Bag!

I am sure you will have some silly little insults directed towards me after reading this. And that's cool! just remember while wasting even more of your time on me you should be working on your pick up skills cause you really fucking suck at it! :qt:
 
Pikaberdot said:
I once heard that women cheat more often than men, the only difference is they actually know how to keep it a secret.
cruise through some upscale neighborhoods and think to yourself
50% of these milfs are available
 
yonkers weights said:
WOW. Your an angry cheated on girl.... :-)
Get over it. You got cheated on cause your "wack" (your word)
Either he found someone hotter or someone cooler, either way you lost your man, stopping redirecting towards me. My life is tight. It is all going in the right direction. Don't be mad. As a single mom I am sure it is hard for you to meet people but don't take it out on me. Because your getting fired don't take it out on me. Because you got cheated on, don't take it out on me. It is your life, get control and stop redirecting, I am sure your doc tells you the samethings. Get control of your own life and leave others alone. You will find a man when you stop being so angry! If I wanted I could of been in Delaware this weekend hitting it. You and I both know it. I am not interested so you got bad and are being a crazy lady! Truth hurts. Take care. Not looking to be mean just honest and call it like I see it.


Like I said your wasting your time when you should be working on your game!
 
Game... don't need it with ya. Like I said before you are so angry because you wanted me to vist and fuck ya but I said no. Everyone can see that from your posts. You are showing your cards. Sometimes things don't work out...
Get over it. Move on!!!


covergrl80 said:
Like I said your wasting your time when you should be working on your game!
 
Pikaberdot said:
I once heard that women cheat more often than men, the only difference is they actually know how to keep it a secret.


I'd imagine it to be about equal, but I do think women are a little more clever in hiding it.

Us men are too stupid, we're bound to fuck up. I was seeing two women a couple years back, both of these girls had boyfriends (one even a fiancee). Well of course neither one thought it would be ok that I see someone else, even though they both had boyfriends themselves (women are fucked up like that). Typical woman it wasn't weeks in and they both had clothes, toothbrush, razor, etc over at my place. Well for months I would bring out from a locked bedroom upstairs which ever girls stuff it was that was coming over that night. One night I accidentally put out the wrong stuff, she wasn't in the bathroom maybe 7 seconds and she comes bolting out screaming, "WHO'S TOOTHBRUSH IS THIS?!?! WHO'S TOOTHBRUSH IS THIS!!?!" I had nothing, I just stood there like a deer in the headlights. We lasted a couple weeks after that, but I couldn't deal with the non-stop guilt trips. If I didn't pick up the phone, or respond to her text instantly she'd reply with stuff like, "I know you're with her!!! I know you are!".

I think the worst part is the laundry, women have a sense of smell like no other. I'd have to wash bed sheets like every other day just to be safe.
 
NJjuice22 said:
Every day I hear story after story about "this married chick banging this guy", "this engaged chick went home with another guy last night" ...etc. etc...

this guy at my job is banging some chick at work daily ( sometimes 2-3x in his office) , now this girl is engaged to be married in a couple months. I had to tell him to stop talking to me about that situation as it makes me want to puke. fucked up shit is I played football with her fiance and I feel bad for him cuz he's a good guy(i know him on a "hey how are ya" basis) but I cant say shit..its not my place..


Last night while out ( i was on fire btw) my boy was grinding with some engaged girl who kept whispering in his ear "if my fiances sister wasnt here, I would bang you tonight" she asked him for his number also. nasty hoes.

the entire women's lib movement has fucked society. My opinion of the female population as a whole has dropped considerably . I personally will never put my faith in another woman, i rather just know they are a slut and probably banged some dude the night before while out with her friends ...so then I just can just do my thing also.
yeah, life is awful man.
 
Turn someone down and they get angry and bitter real quick.
I could of went to Delaware and fucked her and never called or lied. Instead I told her the truth and she flips... WTF???
Next time guys just fuck her and vanish... less bullshit.
Someone is going to have to overcome a lot fo trust issues with this girl.
Best of luck boys!

ksharp01 said:
boy this turned ugly quick
 
nefertiti said:
:whatever:

I know lots of girls that don't cheat. When I'm in a relationship I won't even drink if I'm not with m S.O. It's not that difficult to stay faithful or just break things off if the person isn't worth it to you to not betray their trust.
you know your rare right? sadly there are so many girls who are the opposite of you that it ruins your immage too and it is hard for people to believe that your telling the truth.


(i don tmean to say you are a liar, i just mean in a relationship it will still be hard for a guy to fully trust you)
 
I am rare or at least one of the few honest ones on here about it.
Trust me there are others on here that live this lifestyle or have lived it. Each is own. It should of never gotten to this point but a certain female took it there. I back up what I say and stand by it. No need to lie. Get nothing out of it. People don't know me so what do I have to gain? Nothing. No need to lie. Ya know. I am just open and honest. Why would I say these things? Not getting any ass out of it? Ya know???


SublimeZM said:
you know your rare right? sadly there are so many girls who are the opposite of you that it ruins your immage too and it is hard for people to believe that your telling the truth.


(i don tmean to say you are a liar, i just mean in a relationship it will still be hard for a guy to fully trust you)
 
jnevin said:
As the person that defined what an SWV was and is, I'm sure you've sucked many a dick when you've gone down on your wimmens.
it wasnt even funny the first of 6 times
 
Monogamy is not biologically natural. Relationships are a paradox of sorts. They make you feel secure, but the sex drive is always there, hard-wired for variety. Women are slightly more prone towards monogamy being that they are wired to be more selective of mates and look for security, but even they are not immune to temptation. It's all about temptation.
 
OK Check this out...

With the exception of his first marriage, my Old Grump lived the life - women, money, parties - open relationship - whatever, just don't lie... and guess what? EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THOSE DUMBASSED BROADS FUCKED IT UP. So what did he do? Kicked them the fuck out and said, "Buh-bye.... NEXT!"

Now - I am his LAST WIFE and I don't share... feel me?

I have been cheated on - SHAMELESSLY. Did it hurt? Yep. Did I die? Nope. There are far worse pains to suffer than having some asshole cheat on you.

Have I ever cheated? Nope. Just not that type. Hell, I won't even swing...

YonkersWeights is right - money, beautifull people - swinging... goes hand in hand. I don't judge. I put up a thread in the BTS board about how my husband and I are CONSTANTLY being solicited for 3somes. :worried: But I don't roll that way. I don't have an issue with other adults doing whatever it is that consenting adults do.

As for all the lame-assed men on this thread calling women pigs because "their seems to be more of them cheating than ever before."

HOW DOES IT FEEL?

Women have had to put up with this lame-assed bullshit behavior from men for FOREVER.

DEAL....

Find yourself a quality woman. Till then... lick your wounds and move on with your life.

As I said, there are far worse pains in life to suffer than having some lamo cheat on you.

GET OVER IT.
 
Thank you!

hanselthecaretaker said:
Monogamy is not biologically natural. Relationships are a paradox of sorts. They make you feel secure, but the sex drive is always there, hard-wired for variety. Women are slightly more prone towards monogamy being that they are wired to be more selective of mates and look for security, but even they are not immune to temptation. It's all about temptation.
 
yonkers weights said:
WOW. Your an angry cheated on girl.... :-)
Get over it. You got cheated on cause your "wack" (your word)
Either he found someone hotter or someone cooler, either way you lost your man, stopping redirecting towards me. My life is tight. It is all going in the right direction. Don't be mad. As a single mom I am sure it is hard for you to meet people but don't take it out on me. Because your getting fired don't take it out on me. Because you got cheated on, don't take it out on me. It is your life, get control and stop redirecting, I am sure your doc tells you the samethings. Get control of your own life and leave others alone. You will find a man when you stop being so angry! If I wanted I could of been in Delaware this weekend hitting it. You and I both know it. I am not interested so you got bad and are being a crazy lady! Truth hurts. Take care. Not looking to be mean just honest and call it like I see it.
nobody likes you scumbag
 
I LOVE YOU BM!!!
:heart:


BIKINIMOM said:
OK Check this out...

With the exception of his first marriage, my Old Grump lived the life - women, money, parties - open relationship - whatever, just don't lie... and guess what? EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THOSE DUMBASSED BROADS FUCKED IT UP. So what did he do? Kicked them the fuck out and said, "Buh-bye.... NEXT!"

Now - I am his LAST WIFE and I don't share... feel me?

I have been cheated on - SHAMELESSLY. Did it hurt? Yep. Did I die? Nope. There are far worse pains to suffer than having some asshole cheat on you.

Have I ever cheated? Nope. Just not that type. Hell, I won't even swing...

YonkersWeights is right - money, beautifull people - swinging... goes hand in hand. I don't judge. I put up a thread in the BTS board about how my husband and I are CONSTANTLY being solicited for 3somes. :worried: But I don't roll that way. I don't have an issue with other adults doing whatever it is that consenting adults do.

As for all the lame-assed men on this thread calling women pigs because "their seems to be more of them cheating than ever before."

HOW DOES IT FEEL?

Women have had to put up with this lame-assed bullshit behavior from men for FOREVER.

DEAL....

Find yourself a quality woman. Till then... lick your wounds and move on with your life.

As I said, there are far worse pains in life to suffer than having some lamo cheat on you.

GET OVER IT.
 
yonkers weights said:
I am rare or at least one of the few honest ones on here about it.
Trust me there are others on here that live this lifestyle or have lived it. Each is own. It should of never gotten to this point but a certain female took it there. I back up what I say and stand by it. No need to lie. Get nothing out of it. People don't know me so what do I have to gain? Nothing. No need to lie. Ya know. I am just open and honest. Why would I say these things? Not getting any ass out of it? Ya know???
if you wernt a liar and talking out of your ass i wouldnt juge you.



you said in another thread you give the girls your cellphone so your girlfriend doesnt find out.

thats cheating.

if she knows and is chill its not.

your just changing your story around cause you realize your a fayge
 
SublimeZM said:
you know your rare right? sadly there are so many girls who are the opposite of you that it ruins your immage too and it is hard for people to believe that your telling the truth.


(i don tmean to say you are a liar, i just mean in a relationship it will still be hard for a guy to fully trust you)

I don't really expect someone to believe what I say, but it's clearly evident in what I do. I've honestly never had a problem with someone not trusting me - even when I've been in long distance situations. I just don't think I give off a vibe of someone who is deceitful.
 
Respect.
Sub why do you hate too...?

nimbus said:
i havent read the thread yet; i just wanna mention that 'yonkers weights' is currently my favorite handle on EF. and i laugh everytime they call out the YONKAZ stop on the train to tarrytown.
 
nefertiti said:
I don't really expect someone to believe what I say, but it's clearly evident in what I do. I've honestly never had a problem with someone not trusting me - even when I've been in long distance situations. I just don't think I give off a vibe of someone who is deceitful.

Actually I believe that it is prolly that you have your head screwed on correctly and wouldn't waste your time with a loser that is insecure.

Took me 13 years with a TOTAL LOSER to figure out that jealousy is NOT part of love (the way my mother had raised me to believe).

I trust more than I should and that is for one reason: because I am trustworthy. I get screwed for it every now and again, but hey, c'est la vie.
 
Will not be back till Monday. I will be away in Bermuda for work. Take care and keep talking shit. Love all of you haters that don't understand.
BM your the BEST!!!
Keep my name clean while I am gone.
 
The sense of content you get when you are in a good healthy relationship where you both trust each other is one of the best feelings in the world.

I would not trade it for anything.
 
THANKS BM. People mock what they do not understand.


YonkersWeights is right - money, beautifull people - swinging... goes hand in hand. I don't judge. I put up a thread in the BTS board about how my husband and I are CONSTANTLY being solicited for 3somes. :worried: But I don't roll that way. I don't have an issue with other adults doing whatever it is that consenting adults do.
 
yonkers weights said:
Will not be back till Monday. I will be away in Bermuda for work. Take care and keep talking shit. Love all of you haters that don't understand.
BM your the BEST!!!
Keep my name clean while I am gone.

LOL I can hardly keep my own name clean!

I'll be busy mopping up my own personal nightmare so I won't be round these parts much I don't think.

Have fun "working"... lucky bastard.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I trust more than I should and that is for one reason: because I am trustworthy. I get screwed for it every now and again, but hey, c'est la vie.

I am with you 100% on that. No matter what someone does to me or whether someone turns out to be an ass, I will always give each person a clean slate. Someone who hurts me isn't worth being a thorn in my side once they are out of my life. What's done is done and eventually I'll give my full trust to someone who deserves it. I'd rather get burned by giving everything to someone bad than lose someone great for not giving enough.
 
Work Hard - Play Hard
Someone has to take care of clients by playing golf, smoking cigars, eating amazing meals, getting sun and drinking wine... Tough job.
Take care.

BIKINIMOM said:
LOL I can hardly keep my own name clean!

I'll be busy mopping up my own personal nightmare so I won't be round these parts much I don't think.

Have fun "working"... lucky bastard.
 
yonkers weights said:
Respect.
Sub why do you hate too...?
i just think your full of shit in what you post.

on one hand your bragging about how you cheat without her finding out (in patsfans thread at the store), and now your saying its an open relationship and you both know about it and its cool.

it seems like your just full of shit saying what you want to justify your actions while still looking like a "tough guy" in front of the EF crowd.

then i called you out on it, and you redded me. thats pretty ghey
 
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