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I think I'm falling into a depression
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crazyjoe
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layinback said:
Large. Enormous. Hung. Endless supply. Whatever descriptive term you want to use is fine with me.
Jon79 said:
Can we make it someone worth the effort of hating?
layinback
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Jon79 said:
i didn't bitch slap you.
i think the world of you.....i know you outside of ef, you are a stand up dood.
i strongly disagree with your post.
interesting that you would "victimize" yourself and interpret my
disagreeing with you as an assault or a dismissal.
jon, dichotomous thinking is a learned behavior and can be unlearned.
smurfy is in the know and she merely called you on a destructive post
Pat_McCrotch
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the_alcatraz said:My wife told me our life has become monotonous and somewhat boring. I am getting that feeling as well
To be honest bro STOP POSTING ON EF SO FUCKING MUCH!!! Spend it with your wife. You love her she loves you do some stuff together. Go somnehwere. Enjoy her. Or do what I did and knock her up. lol
crazyjoe said:
You just worry about stockpiling k for this upcoming NFL season.
the_alcatraz said:What are the symptoms of a depression?
I feel like my life has become a routine. I'm not getting along with my wife. My social life has taken a large leap to almost non-existance. I'm having a hard time breathing
A very common problem. Us men are adventurous by nature and we get stuck in a boring routine, it can suffocate us.. Maybe take a trip by yourself and explore.. I did it 2 weeks ago, just got in my car and drove to the places I used to live and then went down to the beach... I needed that. We need to change our surroundings every now and then.
the_alcatraz said:
Since no one has answered this question yet, here's an online copy of the DSM-IV-TR:
http://www.behavenet.com/capsules/disorders/dsm4TRclassification.htm
See mood disorders: major depressive episodes.
HTH
calveless wonder
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sounds like a rut. not really a depression. probably just need to experience new things
the_alcatraz said:What are the symptoms of a depression?
I feel like my life has become a routine. I'm not getting along with my wife. My social life has taken a large leap to almost non-existance. I'm having a hard time breathing
Thx for the advice guys...
I'm kinda feelin better now...
I'm kinda feelin better now...
Too much internet? For real. That happens to me. I get sucked in and get an overwhelming feeling of emptiness after I turn off my computer.
In times like this, I disengage from all things "virtual" and go invest in REAL people. The net is a great escape but can be depressing to me too.
Go get eye to eye, knee to knee with your woman and talk to her without any electronic devices around. We do this and it helps.
Huge hugs! I know how you feel.
In times like this, I disengage from all things "virtual" and go invest in REAL people. The net is a great escape but can be depressing to me too.
Go get eye to eye, knee to knee with your woman and talk to her without any electronic devices around. We do this and it helps.
Huge hugs! I know how you feel.
the_alcatraz said:
I aim to please.
crazyjoe said:I got me a few bonds stashed away too
When you get over 4mil I'll start to worry. Until then keep your pie hole shut.
Hiiiiiiiiiiiii Blueeeeeee!!!!!!
blueta2 said:
BLUETA2 
Mavafanculo
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the_alcatraz said:
The danger is that you may be using EF like alcohol or drugs to escape dealing with the issues - and there are similarities unfortunately
1) its addictive
2) when you sober up (ie get off EF after 3 or 4 hours), the problems are still there, and perhaps worse because of your inattention while you were diverted.
Its always difficult to understand a whole situation over the internet and after a few words, but I think I agree with those who have said maybe you need to spend less time here, and more time fixing your real life relationship for a bit -- but of course the good bro network will always be here for support
crazyjoe said:I WILL slap you with my cock!
BAM! I just screwed up your perfect 700000 karma score. And to add insult to injury, I did it with 10%
HA!
crazyjoe said:
You do and I'm karma storing you 5 hits.
Mavafanculo said:
Actually bro, I took the advice of some good bros on here and it helped. I fixed things with my wife...we spend the whole day together and it was amazing
the_alcatraz said:What are the symptoms of a depression?
I feel like my life has become a routine. I'm not getting along with my wife. My social life has taken a large leap to almost non-existance. I'm having a hard time breathing
Bro seriously and honestly, I've been through this sort of shit before..
I mean those are all definately large signs that you're becoming depressed.. one of two options here fellar..
If you got a really good family doc that you trust and you can talk too then talk to him, you post waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay to fucking much on ef and likely spend waaaaaaaaay to much time in the internet doing anti-social things shutting yourself out from the rest of the world. YOU HAVE TO CUT IT OUT!!! OR REALLY CUT BACK ON IT!!! to make leaps to becoming better and happier again or else you'll just fall deeper and deeper, trust me!!!
It could be as simple as a chemical imbalance in your brain broly, and I've taken meds for as little as thirty days that have totally revamped my mind and energized me for a zest for people again, my social life is so full of great people, it's almost hectic at times, and I love/hate it, but I wouldn't go without it.
it's an essential part of survival, the internet really lets people skip out on that part of life sometimes, and that's good at times bad at others.
I seriously think you need to stop posting so much / spending so much time on the internet..
do things with your wife, call some of your best friends, you'll feel so much better.
the internet can ruin lives via, addicting videogames, forums etc etc, because it gives you a social fix a place to be accepted and not judged etc etc. (though EFers are one judgement fucking bunch eh rights, haha)
See your doctor, talk to your wife, hell even talk to her about this man, but honestly stop spending so much time only broly.
I only read the first post, so I don't know if this has been posted yet =)
Get better duder, the intranet seriously is not aiding you in anyway shape or forum in taking the right path to better mental health, trust a brother who's been through it on this one.
FriendlyCanadian said:Bro seriously and honestly, I've been through this sort of shit before..
I mean those are all definately large signs that you're becoming depressed.. one of two options here fellar..
If you got a really good family doc that you trust and you can talk too then talk to him, you post waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay to fucking much on ef and likely spend waaaaaaaaay to much time in the internet doing anti-social things shutting yourself out from the rest of the world. YOU HAVE TO CUT IT OUT!!! OR REALLY CUT BACK ON IT!!! to make leaps to becoming better and happier again or else you'll just fall deeper and deeper, trust me!!!
It could be as simple as a chemical imbalance in your brain broly, and I've taken meds for as little as thirty days that have totally revamped my mind and energized me for a zest for people again, my social life is so full of great people, it's almost hectic at times, and I love/hate it, but I wouldn't go without it.
it's an essential part of survival, the internet really lets people skip out on that part of life sometimes, and that's good at times bad at others.
I seriously think you need to stop posting so much / spending so much time on the internet..
do things with your wife, call some of your best friends, you'll feel so much better.
the internet can ruin lives via, addicting videogames, forums etc etc, because it gives you a social fix a place to be accepted and not judged etc etc. (though EFers are one judgement fucking bunch eh rights, haha)
See your doctor, talk to your wife, hell even talk to her about this man, but honestly stop spending so much time only broly.
I only read the first post, so I don't know if this has been posted yet =)
Get better duder, the intranet seriously is not aiding you in anyway shape or forum in taking the right path to better mental health, trust a brother who's been through it on this one.
I made up with the wife today bro. Everything is a lot better. Maybe I got a little too much goin on in my body also...I'm feelin a lot better...am only spending time on the net when the wife is asleep or when I'm at work...but that still gives me a couple of hrs a day on here
Thank you for your concern though...seriously...thnx from a fellow Canadian
the_alcatraz said:I made up with the wife today bro. Everything is a lot better. Maybe I got a little too much goin on in my body also...I'm feelin a lot better...am only spending time on the net when the wife is asleep or when I'm at work...but that still gives me a couple of hrs a day on here
Thank you for your concern though...seriously...thnx from a fellow Canadian
Bro not to rag on your one day of beautiful awesome success, but tis only a day, that is something you must keep consistent..
just keep one thing in mind, I read after I just now read through this entire forum.. I read a post where you said something along the lines of blah blah blah I just have too many goals.. etc etc.
Goals are very important, but keep in mind, and I'm sure you agree that making your wife happy is likely one of the most important goals you have.
So prioritize it as such. =)
Also all the peeps who say shit like, you can't have that dream life you always wanted are just jaded and dejected fucks, if you can't live your dream then what is the point of living!
DONT DREAM IT!!! DO IT SON!!!! <3
Also just remember bro, I've been there those symptons you describe are definately early signs of depression or continued depression, esp if you blow off your bros and social life, by like not answering calls or just not wanting to do anything etc etc.
I know you hate meds, but if it comes back it gets worse def talk to your doctor talk about your options and I'd suggest only talk about something short time like 30 to 60 days, nothing more. long term medication is bs imo.
but short term can make a world of difference.
And why are you on ef wouldn't you rather be cuddling up to that nice warm body ya dick! ; )
FriendlyCanadian said:
I'm very happy with my wife...we just fight sometimes...some months more than others...we're both very stubborn and we realise it...it's all good though...generally I'm happy....
I'll be going to bed soon to cuddle the wife dnt worry
I still have to watch the last episode of prison break season III first.
EnderJE said:Screw it. EF will ruin your life like everyone else. Ask Biteme.
lmao
digimon7068
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the_alcatraz said:What are the symptoms of a depression?
I feel like my life has become a routine. I'm not getting along with my wife. My social life has taken a large leap to almost non-existance. I'm having a hard time breathing
welcome to the human race. . .we all go through that shit from time-to-time. . .have you done anything to really challenge yourself lately? if your opportunities to challenge yourself at work are limited, do something in your personal life. . .go back to school and get a masters degree. . .buy an old clapped-out muscle car and rebuild it in your garage. . .build a friggin' sailboat. . .do you own a home? could it use a deck/another bathroom/a bigger garage/a remodeled kitchen/a finished basement? don't know anything about carpentry/plumbing/wiring?? PERFECT! learn! it's very satisfying and life affirming. whatever you do, don't take up fucking golf. . .if you're already depressed, that shit will put you over the edge. . .
velvett said:
Velvet, Swole and MM - that's good advice. Thank you.
gotmilk said:
It's got nothing to do with post count. I'm only on EF when I'm at work or when she's sleeping.
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