Thanks everyone for the encouraging words...
Though I know I did the right thing... hell that I should have done months ago... I'll be a mess all weekend worried about what will take place on monday. I truely love my job and the people I work for, this one bad apple makes some of my days hell.
He's a prick, bipolor also and has a problem talking to people including his welders on a human level... there are numerous complaints against him already for degrading and cursing out employees at the drop of a dime. Nothing has been done thus far so Im not sure what can or will be done this time. I have to work with him everyday because I am the one that draws all the prints for them to build off of.. I take measurments etc so we have to work side by side alot which is often times uncomfortable esp when he drops sexual comments... I don't like to ruffle feathers so I just ignore them usually but I've had enough.
I will request not to have to interact with him, I don't know if they can accomidate me and keep both of us on due to the nature of our work, but I know that the conditions at the office will never be the same. The tension is already there and now that he knows he's been reported it will be worse.
I lost my religion on him, and the entire office heard us going at it... more than one of the ladies knows what's happened with the harassment because I have told them in the past. My boss, the engineer was out of town on vacation, therefore I guess he thought he had command over me and could treat me like he does his workers, with not a lick of respect, but eh... Im not like his guys and I won't bow down to his manic behavior.. nope.
I would like to settle this as calm as possible but fear that its not gonna be so easy. Hes a needed employee as am I... Work is crazy and finding someone to replace either of us and train in the fields we are in would set the company back big time and would put us in a bind on the contracts we have to build the projects we need to build.
ehhhh.... I'm gonna stress this shit all weekend... I sure didn't need this right now.