I Think I just got my ass fired

[Sub-Zero]

what's wrong with sexual harrassment, i wish some hot chics would sexually harrass me.

cause its different if its welcomed. sometimes people say it in situations that just make people feel completely unwelcomed. they arnt even friends it sounds, and hes just bein str8 up creepy, and shes tried to put a stop to it and told him, but he seemingly keeps doing it, despite knowing it makes her feel comfortable, almost using it to get to her. this is sexual harrasment.

(not sure if thats whats happening here, but thats most cases)

 

[Austin316]

Hmmm have you kept a journal or memos or anything documenting the occasions and dates, what was said, etc when he has harrased you? That would help I would think but either way you should be able to threaten a big lawsuit against the owner of the company if he won't do anything about what that shit heads been doing. I think you'll be ok, you definately should have the upper hand in this one so don't let this stuff get you all riled up because you'll come out well on top

 

[thelion2005]

Sending you an PM.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Hmmm have you kept a journal or memos or anything documenting the occasions and dates, what was said, etc when he has harrased you? That would help I would think but either way you should be able to threaten a big lawsuit against the owner of the company if he won't do anything about what that shit heads been doing. I think you'll be ok, you definately should have the upper hand in this one so don't let this stuff get you all riled up because you'll come out well on top

No I haven't kept a journal.. Just really thought that If I didn't respond to them he'd get the pt.. I'd for the most part walk away. I work in the oil field.. I hear alot of shit and I just let it roll off my back, I don't jump and tattle everytime something is said, I know the industry but he took it too far.

Even my boss, the engineer has said to me more than once that it was easy working with me because I didn't take things so personal and that I'd been there so long that sometimes in a room full of men, I'm the only women in my department, that some things come out that most would run and scream about but I don't let it get to me... No one else there has ever directed a statement TO ME like he has.. but I've plenty of times walked past the break table and had a clear view of playboy... or got caught in the middle of a convo that involved sex etc...

I seriously didn't want to have to go to upper managment but he pushed too many buttons with me and I can't deal with it anymore. I've become uncomfortable around him.. not that Im afraid, I know that I could handle my self but I shouldn't have to get uptight when Im alone with him in fear that hes gonna make a comment or say something disgusting to me.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Sending you an PM.

Wow.. thank you so much for the Pm sugar!

Helped me out alot... I'm gonna take all that advice and put it to use.

 

[jrlex]

But Im tired of the Foremans Childish sick bullshit. He's a freaking control freak.. and yep the one that has time and time again sexually harassed me..

I am sick of it and I just turned him in.. so hes off at our main office blabbing his mouth to no telling who about no telling what... but I am not taking this shit anymore... If something isn't done, I'll take legal actions.

Enough is Enough

Well no woman should ever have to go through this. I have cousins and friends that will shave his head and fuck him with a broom stick if the price is right and if you so happen to try to deal with this outside of work? Are you on the west coast?

I hope you don't have to result to violence because this will be a last resort.

It can be done. Though.

PM me if you'de like.

 

[Austin316]

Hmm I completly understand the need to be able to shrug everything off my dear, I was just asking that because you have had repeated problems with this person in particular that goes beyond the whole "boys will be boys" bs, if someone directly and intentionally makes you uncomfortable you shouldn't have to shrug it off my dear, thats not fair to you and shoulnd't be expected

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Thanks jrlex..

Thanks Austin

All of you guys are the bestest

 

[Sub-Zero]

No I haven't kept a journal.. Just really thought that If I didn't respond to them he'd get the pt.. I'd for the most part walk away. I work in the oil field.. I hear alot of shit and I just let it roll off my back, I don't jump and tattle everytime something is said, I know the industry but he took it too far.

Even my boss, the engineer has said to me more than once that it was easy working with me because I didn't take things so personal and that I'd been there so long that sometimes in a room full of men, I'm the only women in my department, that some things come out that most would run and scream about but I don't let it get to me... No one else there has ever directed a statement TO ME like he has.. but I've plenty of times walked past the break table and had a clear view of playboy... or got caught in the middle of a convo that involved sex etc...

I seriously didn't want to have to go to upper managment but he pushed too many buttons with me and I can't deal with it anymore. I've become uncomfortable around him.. not that Im afraid, I know that I could handle my self but I shouldn't have to get uptight when Im alone with him in fear that hes gonna make a comment or say something disgusting to me.

ur cool if u can let people talka bout sex and watch playboy etc.

but its one thing if a dickhead who u dont even have a good relationship with in the firstplace is gunna constantly direct harrasment at u and shit

any person with any sort of brains will recognize the difference- dont worry about that, it doesnt "uncoolify" you because you dont like abuse...

 

[Evil_Frisky]

ur cool if u can let people talka bout sex and watch playboy etc.

but its one thing if a dickhead who u dont even have a good relationship with in the firstplace is gunna constantly direct harrasment at u and shit

any person with any sort of brains will recognize the difference- dont worry about that, it doesnt "uncoolify" you because you dont like abuse...

I'm cool aren't i.. lol

yea.. it's not cool what he did...

Thank you honey