I Think I just got my ass fired

[starfish]

You need to document it with HR EACH time he does it. Not just keep a journal because if he is sexually harrassing you and HR does not know about it, I dont think you have much of a case or they are at fault. I was there....all the way down to hot shot corporate lawyers.

Maybe now that you complained once, they will just move him to another job or let him go so you are not in a hostile work environment.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

You need to document it with HR EACH time he does it. Not just keep a journal because if he is sexually harrassing you and HR does not know about it, I dont think you have much of a case or they are at fault. I was there....all the way down to hot shot corporate lawyers.

Maybe now that you complained once, they will just move him to another job or let him go so you are not in a hostile work environment.

After this incident I will document it and report it.. I was hoping it didn't come to this but it was unavoided.

What happend with your case? Wow that must have been a mess

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

He's a prick, bipolar also and has a problem talking to people including his welders on a human level... there are numerous complaints against him already for degrading and cursing out employees at the drop of a dime.

I've experienced this before as have a few other past coworkers of mine. It really does suck getting bitched at for no real reason. I'd just learn to roll my eyes and ignore it cuz it never made any sense. I even got accused of fucking up because of someone else's mistakes, and there's no reasoning with some people.

 

[Dakotah]

Best of wishes to you Frisky

 

[starfish]

After this incident I will document it and report it.. I was hoping it didn't come to this but it was unavoided.

What happend with your case? Wow that must have been a mess

It was a while ago so I gotta think about it. I should dig up the old letters from lawyers to see what was said.

It was just typical male ego stuff that went to far. I didn't even complain, I was put on the spot about it and told the truth...he wanted to quit then, and my job got threatened by my boss...I loved my job so that was the wrong thing to do to me and then I got pissed...lol

The wierd part is after...because so many people do play around in fun, they acted uncomfortable around me. My boss was REPREMANDED HARD buy a top person in the company in front of my face and I know it went on his record. It was just plain awkward after between us. Male egos suck sometimes.


I seem to remember my lawyer telling me, HR had to be aware of the problem and NOT do something about it for them to be breaking the law. So basically, you have a case from what he does at this point on and how HR responds to it.

 

[jrlex]

Thanks jrlex..

Thanks Austin

All of you guys are the bestest

There's no need to thank me. I haven't done anything yet. But your welcome

 

[Scotsman]

After this incident I will document it and report it.. I was hoping it didn't come to this but it was unavoided.

What happend with your case? Wow that must have been a mess

Well you could get the monthly I hate all of you, you suck, none of you are as good as me, and I could do everything better than you people e-mails that we get from the owner of our company. They are typically 5-8 pages long. He then doesn't apologize but sends out another e-mail telling us all he loves us and the company couldn't get along without us. The guy never apologizes for anything. I typically skim these e-mails and delete them. Maybe next time he sends one out I'll edit it for company info and post it up.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Well you could get the monthly I hate all of you, you suck, none of you are as good as me, and I could do everything better than you people e-mails that we get from the owner of our company. They are typically 5-8 pages long. He then doesn't apologize but sends out another e-mail telling us all he loves us and the company couldn't get along without us. The guy never apologizes for anything. I typically skim these e-mails and delete them. Maybe next time he sends one out I'll edit it for company info and post it up.

Cheers,
Scotsman

Damn.. Yep I'd print them out just for the future.





Update: I am going in to meet with two partners that own the company at 1:30

The Foreman cornered my boss, the engineer as soon as he got here and told him his side of the story... early this am he came to talk to me to ask me what happened.. and I told him everything. I have a very easy open relationship with him and even stressed the pt that i was in fear of my job for speaking out and that Im not sure how things will go from here because of the nature of our work and due to my actions it will make it a even more hostile working enviroment.. one which I don't think I want to be in.

He was very understanding, listened and his only concern was that he thought I'd made the report weeks ago and he was never addressed by anyone about it... I assured him the only reason I went to upper managment was because he was out on vacation and that was my only option.

I'm gonna go and just tell them of a few instances.. no need to dig them all up, IMO happeing once was one to many... and then we will go from there. I'm nervous yet its a huge monkey off of my back and I know I've done the right thing. No regrets just not sure about my future with the company.

 

[Scotsman]

Damn.. Yep I'd print them out just for the future.





Update: I am going in to meet with two partners that own the company at 1:30

The Foreman cornered my boss, the engineer as soon as he got here and told him his side of the story... early this am he came to talk to me to ask me what happened.. and I told him everything. I have a very easy open relationship with him and even stressed the pt that i was in fear of my job for speaking out and that Im not sure how things will go from here because of the nature of our work and due to my actions it will make it a even more hostile working enviroment.. one which I don't think I want to be in.

He was very understanding, listened and his only concern was that he thought I'd made the report weeks ago and he was never addressed by anyone about it... I assured him the only reason I went to upper managment was because he was out on vacation and that was my only option.

I'm gonna go and just tell them of a few instances.. no need to dig them all up, IMO happeing once was one to many... and then we will go from there. I'm nervous yet its a huge monkey off of my back and I know I've done the right thing. No regrets just not sure about my future with the company.

Best of luck to you, be strong.

Wouldn't do me much good to print out the letters as in a company of 30 ppl we don't have an hr department.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Vicious cycle]

Damn.. Yep I'd print them out just for the future.





Update: I am going in to meet with two partners that own the company at 1:30

The Foreman cornered my boss, the engineer as soon as he got here and told him his side of the story... early this am he came to talk to me to ask me what happened.. and I told him everything. I have a very easy open relationship with him and even stressed the pt that i was in fear of my job for speaking out and that Im not sure how things will go from here because of the nature of our work and due to my actions it will make it a even more hostile working enviroment.. one which I don't think I want to be in.

He was very understanding, listened and his only concern was that he thought I'd made the report weeks ago and he was never addressed by anyone about it... I assured him the only reason I went to upper managment was because he was out on vacation and that was my only option.

I'm gonna go and just tell them of a few instances.. no need to dig them all up, IMO happeing once was one to many... and then we will go from there. I'm nervous yet its a huge monkey off of my back and I know I've done the right thing. No regrets just not sure about my future with the company.

You must spread some Karma around before giving it to Frisky again.