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all the whey
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Smurfy said:
I didn't say owning a business.
I said Self Sufficient and Self Confident.
I agreed with java about the girls he dated that owned businesses. Because, I think he was saying they were self confident and self sufficient.
Damn, I wish I had a wet towel right now.
needtogetaas said:
But they also take advantage of a guy who is emotionally available.
It's a balancing act I tell ya.
heavy_duty
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javaguru said:OK, I'm a decent guy and my ex's claim I'm a great boyfriend but they also call me "emotionally unavailable." That's the same phrase my ex-wife used. Now, should I try to be more emotionally available, not something I'm sure that I'm capable of, or should I just stay single and play the field.
Go into therapy and find out why.
all the whey
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Smurfy said:
I thought I only wasn't allowed to snap you with a towel while you are going about your business???
needtogetaas
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javaguru said:Actually, my ex-wife hated the fact I could bring up something that happened a year ago, it didn't support her position.
javaguru
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Play the vulnerability card bro.....I call it the common sense card.....I give every woman basic trust but you have to earn my heart.all the whey said:You are exactly right.
I think java (and myself) don't want to open up completely, open up vulnerablitly, be their rock, make youself totally available to them.
Not that we are "emotionally unavailable". It's just we don't want to do it until we know it is right. Because, when we do most women interpret it as weakness and bolt.
Hey Java do all the females you know think you are not in a relationship because you have been hurt bad?
All my friends wives and gfs say Poor ATW, he must have been hurt so bad.lol
needtogetaas
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How many people in life just fall in love and let things go. So what if it fails. Move on and do it again. Its liek every one is a bunch of bitches. O O O please don't hurt me. I will guard my heart from being hurt. Every one act so tough but at the same time be so afraid of getting hurt.javaguru said:
javaguru
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Well bro, if you volunteer to jump out of perfectly good airplanes then you know risk takers are different than the average person. If you jump out of the plane then you have "faith" the canopy will open and you always have the reserve. In real life that translates to a basic trust with no reserve chute.needtogetaas said:
javaguru
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needtogetaas
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Hell some times it means jumping with no damn shoot at all so to speak.javaguru said:Well bro, if you volunteer to jump out of perfectly good airplanes then you know risk takers are different than the average person. If you jump out of the plane then you have "faith" the canopy will open and you always have the reserve. In real life that translates to a basic trust with no reserve chute.
needtogetaas
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Fuck ya!!!!!javaguru said:
javaguru
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The Charge Of The Light Brigade
by Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Memorializing Events in the Battle of Balaclava, October 25, 1854
Written 1854
Half a league half a league,
Half a league onward,
All in the valley of Death
Rode the six hundred:
'Forward, the Light Brigade!
Charge for the guns' he said:
Into the valley of Death
Rode the six hundred.
'Forward, the Light Brigade!'
Was there a man dismay'd ?
Not tho' the soldier knew
Some one had blunder'd:
Theirs not to make reply,
Theirs not to reason why,
Theirs but to do & die,
Into the valley of Death
Rode the six hundred.
Cannon to right of them,
Cannon to left of them,
Cannon in front of them
Volley'd & thunder'd;
Storm'd at with shot and shell,
Boldly they rode and well,
Into the jaws of Death,
Into the mouth of Hell
Rode the six hundred.
Flash'd all their sabres bare,
Flash'd as they turn'd in air
Sabring the gunners there,
Charging an army while
All the world wonder'd:
Plunged in the battery-smoke
Right thro' the line they broke;
Cossack & Russian
Reel'd from the sabre-stroke,
Shatter'd & sunder'd.
Then they rode back, but not
Not the six hundred.
Cannon to right of them,
Cannon to left of them,
Cannon behind them
Volley'd and thunder'd;
Storm'd at with shot and shell,
While horse & hero fell,
They that had fought so well
Came thro' the jaws of Death,
Back from the mouth of Hell,
All that was left of them,
Left of six hundred.
When can their glory fade?
O the wild charge they made!
All the world wonder'd.
Honour the charge they made!
Honour the Light Brigade,
Noble six hundred!
by Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Memorializing Events in the Battle of Balaclava, October 25, 1854
Written 1854
Half a league half a league,
Half a league onward,
All in the valley of Death
Rode the six hundred:
'Forward, the Light Brigade!
Charge for the guns' he said:
Into the valley of Death
Rode the six hundred.
'Forward, the Light Brigade!'
Was there a man dismay'd ?
Not tho' the soldier knew
Some one had blunder'd:
Theirs not to make reply,
Theirs not to reason why,
Theirs but to do & die,
Into the valley of Death
Rode the six hundred.
Cannon to right of them,
Cannon to left of them,
Cannon in front of them
Volley'd & thunder'd;
Storm'd at with shot and shell,
Boldly they rode and well,
Into the jaws of Death,
Into the mouth of Hell
Rode the six hundred.
Flash'd all their sabres bare,
Flash'd as they turn'd in air
Sabring the gunners there,
Charging an army while
All the world wonder'd:
Plunged in the battery-smoke
Right thro' the line they broke;
Cossack & Russian
Reel'd from the sabre-stroke,
Shatter'd & sunder'd.
Then they rode back, but not
Not the six hundred.
Cannon to right of them,
Cannon to left of them,
Cannon behind them
Volley'd and thunder'd;
Storm'd at with shot and shell,
While horse & hero fell,
They that had fought so well
Came thro' the jaws of Death,
Back from the mouth of Hell,
All that was left of them,
Left of six hundred.
When can their glory fade?
O the wild charge they made!
All the world wonder'd.
Honour the charge they made!
Honour the Light Brigade,
Noble six hundred!
javaguru said:OK, I'm a decent guy and my ex's claim I'm a great boyfriend but they also call me "emotionally unavailable." That's the same phrase my ex-wife used. Now, should I try to be more emotionally available, not something I'm sure that I'm capable of, or should I just stay single and play the field.
You should decide what is important to you and live with that.. over time you may come to understand that you need to be with a woman because it's just easier, and more fulfilling to love and be loved without condition..
and that's a hard thing to accomplish..
vixensghost
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If ANYONE wants you to change the way you are---hit the road and find someone who will accept YOU for the way you are. It's very simple really...
Pat_McCrotch
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Stay single bro
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Spartacus
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hook me up with said exjavaguru said:
javaguru
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She wasn't ugly...but I tried to make the transition from "player" and it didn't work so well....I stopped "challenging her" on some level because I tried to be the perfect guy she claimed to want and forgot she actually fell in love with the guy that was really me. She's re-married to a six figure guy so unless you can overcome the status of an exec working for a top three accounting firm you might have a hard time of courting her...Spartacus said:
vixensghost
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You having coffee with McCain today in Perrysburg, Java?
why is her skin all shiney>? is that a competition pic?javaguru said:She wasn't ugly...but I tried to make the transition from "player" and it didn't work so well....I stopped "challenging her" on some level because I tried to be the perfect guy she claimed to want and forgot she actually fell in love with the guy that was really me. She's re-married to a six figure guy so unless you can overcome the status of an exec working for a top three accounting firm you might have a hard time of courting her...
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