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silverbackn

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As many of you know, my fiance and I broke up. We were supposed to get married this weekend. You know what the worst part of it is? I miss the puppy that we had! I think of her and get all teary eyed, I miss my Trinket! I have chosen not to see the puppy anymore because I don't want to have any contact with my ex. This might sound stupid, but the truth is that there will be a point when I won't be able to see the puppy anymore anyway. Am I gonna go over there and get Trinket when she has another boyfriend? Of course not. I have just decided to walk away from her now instead of later, I miss her so much :worried:
 
I was in the same situation brother. After a while I knew I either had to take my dog, or I would never see her again. So, I took the puppy. :)

I was in this exact situation (was engaged, about to get married, etc), so if you ever want to talk, PM me.
 
I miss the puppy way more than I miss my ex's disrespect and sense of entitlement. I have a sense of relief that we aren't together anymore, but I miss the puppy.
 
C3bodybuilding said:
I was in the same situation brother. After a while I knew I either had to take my dog, or I would never see her again. So, I took the puppy. :)

I was in this exact situation (was engaged, about to get married, etc), so if you ever want to talk, PM me.
That's the bad part, she is technically her dog and I can't do anything about it. I spent just as much time with her. She's about 4 months old and still doesn't weigh 2 pounds, she's so cute! Thanks bro, I may take you up on the PM action.
 
Get you another Puppy.

And stop thinking about her.

You are killin yourself.
 
I just moved into a very nice house with a friend who is charging me next to nothing, I don't really feel comfortable bringing a dog into the house yet. I will get another one eventually though, it is something to look forward to. I never wanted a pet until I layed eyes on her! I'm not in a deep depression or anything, but I do miss her!
 
Oh shit I just realized you're talking about the dog :o Better hurry up and get it if you want it cuz it won't be a cute puppy for long!
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
Oh shit I just realized you're talking about the dog :o Better hurry up and get it if you want it cuz it won't be a cute puppy for long!
It's her dog, I can't steal her, I would if I could :evil:
 
Good thing you didn't have children....

Imagine how you would feel if you couldn't see them anymore.

You did the right thing. A year from now you will barely remember any of this and you will see the world in color again.
 
silverbackn said:
I just moved into a very nice house with a friend who is charging me next to nothing, I don't really feel comfortable bringing a dog into the house yet. I will get another one eventually though, it is something to look forward to. I never wanted a pet until I layed eyes on her! I'm not in a deep depression or anything, but I do miss her!
Funny thing about splitting up. We move out into someone's house ...(wich is a dear friend in my case my mom ) an we feel like idiots for being there . then split the friends in half ohhhh goddddd so sorry bro ....
Flip side is I am in my own place now annnnnnnn I FUCKEN LOVE IT
Stay strong the good times are on there way back it just sux ass for a little time
 
This isn't about the girl, IT'S ABOUT THE DOG! The girl wasn't right for me and there is no way that we could have made it work. I appreciate all the kind words though, you guys are great!
 
silverbackn said:
I miss the puppy way more than I miss my ex's disrespect and sense of entitlement. I have a sense of relief that we aren't together anymore, but I miss the puppy.


It is every girl's sense of entitlement that pisses me off.

PM if you are interested in the boxer pup, will be awhile but a boxer will make you forget everything and laugh your ass off. Great dogs.
 
silverbackn said:
This isn't about the girl, IT'S ABOUT THE DOG! The girl wasn't right for me and there is no way that we could have made it work. I appreciate all the kind words though, you guys are great!


Awwwwwwww!

I like the name Trinket...


If you miss the puppy so much, take that energy and cruise some animal shelters. You just may fall in love with a doggie and get to save its life...bet that could make a great guy smile.


Its how I ended up with my cat


:kitty:
 
I know you are talking about the dog silly.... I was only trying to help you gain some perspective.

You'll be fine soon enough...
 
((((((((((BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!!))))))))))

I'm very sorry for your loss & separation anxiety!! And the name Trinket is adorable....
 
jenscats5 said:
((((((((((BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!!))))))))))

I'm very sorry for your loss & separation anxiety!! And the name Trinket is adorable....
Thank you! I will get another puppy at some point when I have my own place :)
 
tiger88 said:
lay off the clomid bro


jk


better it not ha;ppend all togather then have it then it go down hill afterwards
LMAO, you are definitely very right about it going down hill later on. It would have been a disaster. I'm glad I saw the light when I did!
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I know you are talking about the dog silly.... I was only trying to help you gain some perspective.

You'll be fine soon enough...
I know, I was saying it more in reference to some K messages I got, BTW, thanks for the K (I hit everyone back that I could)
 
fuck that no good rotten bitch. you're an animal shelters wet dream. a bunch of great dogs are there waiting for you to rescue them from certain death. oh yeah, also, fuck that bitch with a wooden, splintery dildo.
 
silverbackn said:
As many of you know, my fiance and I broke up. We were supposed to get married this weekend. You know what the worst part of it is? I miss the puppy that we had! I think of her and get all teary eyed, I miss my Trinket! I have chosen not to see the puppy anymore because I don't want to have any contact with my ex. This might sound stupid, but the truth is that there will be a point when I won't be able to see the puppy anymore anyway. Am I gonna go over there and get Trinket when she has another boyfriend? Of course not. I have just decided to walk away from her now instead of later, I miss her so much :worried:
been there before,you'll get over it
 
fuck...sorry man
I had the same thing happen with my ex and our dog..harmony
havent seen her since last May...still hurts bro
 
morph60 said:
lololololo Bro I cried more about my fish the that skank......mine killed my fish when she tried to give them to her new man
I was (am) crushed
thats some fatal attraction shit right there! you find a boiled bunny too?
 
Awwwww SB.... .I can send my cat over. He's good at huggin' & stuff. He's very fluffy. He'll even play "Fetch" (if he feels like it...)
 
silverbackn said:
As many of you know, my fiance and I broke up. We were supposed to get married this weekend. You know what the worst part of it is? I miss the puppy that we had! I think of her and get all teary eyed, I miss my Trinket! I have chosen not to see the puppy anymore because I don't want to have any contact with my ex. This might sound stupid, but the truth is that there will be a point when I won't be able to see the puppy anymore anyway. Am I gonna go over there and get Trinket when she has another boyfriend? Of course not. I have just decided to walk away from her now instead of later, I miss her so much :worried:


I went through the same thing except I wasn't engaged. The ex-girlfriend kept the dog when we broke up. I miss the dog too. The funny thing is that I sometimes see the dog. I guess I have visiting rights. It's tough. Imagine if you were married and there were children involved and you couldn't see them? Now that would really suck. Hang in there bro.
 
you have way too many post to responses ratio
it's you're posting too often on your train wreck
I think
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Good thing you didn't have children....

Imagine how you would feel if you couldn't see them anymore.

You did the right thing. A year from now you will barely remember any of this and you will see the world in color again.
why are human animals any better than canine ones?
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Good thing you didn't have children....

Imagine how you would feel if you couldn't see them anymore.

You did the right thing. A year from now you will barely remember any of this and you will see the world in color again.

Exactly!!! Was so insightful I had to quote it. :)
 
I gave my kitty to my ex when we broke up, even though I had her before I met him. I didn't want him to be sad. Sorry about missing the puppy. Go to a shelter and get a puppy or a dog. That would help you and the dog, both!
 
HeatherRae said:
I gave my kitty to my ex when we broke up, even though I had her before I met him. I didn't want him to be sad. Sorry about missing the puppy. Go to a shelter and get a puppy or a dog. That would help you and the dog, both!
u obviously better dealed him then
 
Oh, no. That wasn't the case at all. We ended as very good friends, and it wasn't a matter of either of us cheating.
 
silverbackn said:
As many of you know, my fiance and I broke up. We were supposed to get married this weekend. You know what the worst part of it is? I miss the puppy that we had! I think of her and get all teary eyed, I miss my Trinket! I have chosen not to see the puppy anymore because I don't want to have any contact with my ex. This might sound stupid, but the truth is that there will be a point when I won't be able to see the puppy anymore anyway. Am I gonna go over there and get Trinket when she has another boyfriend? Of course not. I have just decided to walk away from her now instead of later, I miss her so much :worried:


Don't be a pussy. You'll be fine.
 
I was in the same situation a year ago bro, exactly. Only I ended up with my 2 year old golden, I could not imagine not seeing her. I know its tuff bro, but sometimes you have to do what has to be done. If you know your eventually not going to be able to see her as if your x is moving or whatever its best you start now. Its funny how dogs hit that spot in us that wont ever let go, a spot that a women never can find.
 
It sucks because I have never been attached to an animal in my life, and when I finally do I lose her! I realize that is a very minor problem in the grand scheme of things. I'm a lucky guy and have a lot to be very thankful for. I do miss her cute little face though!
 
silverbackn said:
It sucks because I have never been attached to an animal in my life, and when I finally do I lose her! I realize that is a very minor problem in the grand scheme of things. I'm a lucky guy and have a lot to be very thankful for. I do miss her cute little face though!

Actually it's not that minor.....your feelings are real, thus are valid......Don't apologize for grieving - you are entitled to how you feel.....

Animals are like small people - with fur....
 
jenscats5 said:
Actually it's not that minor.....your feelings are real, thus are valid......Don't apologize for grieving - you are entitled to how you feel.....

Animals are like small people - with fur....
PETA freak. Next thing you know, you're going to tell me how KFC is like Auswithz...
 
SublimeZM said:
why are human animals any better than canine ones?

because we can shoot the canine ones.

that's why.


(that, plus any spawn that comes from you, you would likely be pretty die-hard for, more so than any-non-spawn of yourself.
 
CEASAR said:
because we can shoot the canine ones.

that's why.


(that, plus any spawn that comes from you, you would likely be pretty die-hard for, more so than any-non-spawn of yourself.
is that why parents who adopt dont love their kids?

o wait, they do
 
I will agree that the attachment to an animal is of course different than that to another human, but that doesn't mean that it is irrational to love an animal and miss them.
 
I got visitation with my English Bulldog. (not a court thing, but agreed upon by the ex and me)
 
He is cool and at least I am glad to get him now and then. I let her have him for the kids since at the time, I was working out of state and he means a lot to the kids and her.
 
chesty said:
I got visitation with my English Bulldog. (not a court thing, but agreed upon by the ex and me)

When my first husband & I separated, we had 5 cats & he refused to take any of them.....so we agreed that I would keep them, but he paid alimony of sorts for them for 1 year....I called it cat-amony!! :lmao:
 
silverbackn said:
As many of you know, my fiance and I broke up. We were supposed to get married this weekend. You know what the worst part of it is? I miss the puppy that we had! I think of her and get all teary eyed, I miss my Trinket! I have chosen not to see the puppy anymore because I don't want to have any contact with my ex. This might sound stupid, but the truth is that there will be a point when I won't be able to see the puppy anymore anyway. Am I gonna go over there and get Trinket when she has another boyfriend? Of course not. I have just decided to walk away from her now instead of later, I miss her so much :worried:


lo, when my ex and i broke up... i missed our puppy more then her! lol!!!

i'd rather grieve over a pet then a chick....unless we're talking about death, thats different........
 
GrandMaster said:
lo, when my ex and i broke up... i missed our puppy more then her! lol!!!

i'd rather grieve over a pet then a chick....unless we're talking about death, thats different........
I hear you on that
 
chesty said:
He is cool and at least I am glad to get him now and then. I let her have him for the kids since at the time, I was working out of state and he means a lot to the kids and her.
That's really cool of you bro
 
dont worry about it bro
this shit can be hard...
i had a new revalation! after being upset about my ex's and my break up......... FUCK BITCHEZZ!!

and never let her know! lol

I went to Pitsburgh last weekend, in the way up i get 4 calls from 4 different girls.. wanting some cawk.......fucking sucked!
but u'd be amased at what u can do when u want to.....im lovin it! :)
But i am the GM!
 
GrandMaster said:
dont worry about it bro
this shit can be hard...
i had a new revalation! after being upset about my ex's and my break up......... FUCK BITCHEZZ!!

and never let her know! lol

I went to Pitsburgh last weekend, in the way up i get 4 calls from 4 different girls.. wanting some cawk.......fucking sucked!
but u'd be amased at what u can do when u want to.....im lovin it! :)
But i am the GM!
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