I just fell down and busted my ass. Think I hurt my foot.

[Sub-Zero]

quit feeding her dinner, and make her make dinner and clean stuff

 

[biteme]

okay, I'll bite (no pun intended) you did say she is 13 right? sounds like she is acting it. And why is she next door if she is grounded?

Jesus Christ. DId I say she was next door? She isn't grounded until as of now, which means I have to go and get her.

 

[randk]

Jesus Christ. DId I say she was next door? She isn't grounded until as of now, which means I have to go and get her.

sorry, you said at a friend's and I ASSumed that was next door.

 

[biteme]

Now I'm really angry. I'll be leaving in a few minutes to get her. She is such a lying, little manipulative female. She was crying and saying that I make her want to slit her wrists because I expect her to be pefect. The whole thing was an act. I'm one of the most leniant parents on the planet. Far too leniant.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Now I'm really angry. I'll be leaving in a few minutes to get her. She is such a lying, little manipulative female. She was crying and saying that I make her want to slit her wrists because I expect her to be pefect. The whole thing was an act. I'm one of the most leniant parents on the planet. Far too leniant.

thats fucked up man, im sorry u have to deal with her.

slit her wrists? u definately need to just hand her ass to her, fucking bend her over and start slapping (im not joking)

 

[Mr. dB]

Good luck with that. She'll try to lay every guilt trip she can think of on you, but you have to be strong. But then she also has to understand that she's being punished because she fucked up, and be made to understand HOW she fucked up, or else she'll just think you're being spiteful and arbitrary.

 

[biteme]

thats fucked up man, im sorry u have to deal with her.

slit her wrists? u definately need to just hand her ass to her, fucking bend her over and start slapping (im not joking)

I should have done that a long time ago, but it's too late now. DO NOT SPOIL YOUR CHILDREN. YOU WILL RUIN THEM. There's a thing about fathers and daughters. They know how to play us and they have our hearts wrapped around their fingers. This is not good sometimes.

 

[75th]

She is such a lying, little manipulative female.

Key word right there.

Make sure you stick to your guns. Dont act civil to her during the weekend either until she apologizes.

She doesnt like being treated like a kid? Have her make her own dinner. Adults make their own dinner...kids dont.

 

[biteme]

Good luck with that. She'll try to lay every guilt trip she can think of on you, but you have to be strong. But then she also has to understand that she's being punished because she fucked up, and be made to understand HOW she fucked up, or else she'll just think you're being spiteful and arbitrary.

Thanks Dave. I think I explained it to her well, although I was angry because I have to do this kind of stuff everyday. Always repeating myself and her behaviour never changes. How would you handle it?

 

[biteme]

I love her so damn much. I'm about in tears myself now. She's a master at creating doubt. I don't know what to do. She's not emotionally stable and I have to get her help. Even if I'm right, I'm afraid it will push her over the edge.