I have no reason to live....I am contemplating my departure...

[habitualhealth]

such a terrible thing you're feeling right now...the best thing you can do right now is to spend as much time as possible with your daughter. take advantage of the unemployment and spend time with her.

i have a hard time believing any parent who looks in their child's eye could truly make the choice to end their life.

remember this: despite how YOU see yourself...how terrible you feel, how insecure, hurt, upset, destroyed, destructive, etc....that little girl sees a HERO and a LIFELINE.

 

[curvymommy]

OMG! Stop talking like that please. You have a baby girl to think of. Please stick around to leave more of a legacy for her than offing yourself.

Who can you talk to in real life? Call them now!

Did your DVD come in yet? If not, I'll rip you one and send it to you via priority mail asap. Just K me your address.

 

[digimon7068]

i've been married for almost 16 years now. . .the happiest, healthiest, most productive years of my life. . .i haven't touched another woman since october 7, 1989. . .two weeks before my first date with my wife. . .but i still remember that one of the best feelings in the whole world is when a new girl sticks her hand down your pants for the first time. . .

you need to move on. . .you'll never trust her. . .get out, take some time for yourself to get your head straight, then get back in the game. . .life is too short and too precious to wallow for too long, or to step off before the ride's over. . .

 

[jdynasty]

seriously, you need to snap out of it, suicide is never the answer

 

[jackangel]

it is likely that things will get better, in time. or, more to the point, you can make them better. no one can, or should, dismiss the pain you're feeling. i don't know what it's like being in your shoes, but i know what it's like to feel bad and then to feel better. sometimes, it doesn't take much to lift you up.

can you see a future version of yourself feeling happier than you do at this moment? your rational mind can and does. it's the emotion that is lying to you. it would be a terrible thing to give up your own life because you're temporarily caught up in a falsehood.

your obligation to your daughter outweighs any of this. there is great power in having purpose.

 

[Nobledude]

First of all, I am not trying to impress anyone....I reach a point where I cant see how would I be able to live knowing that my daughter could be yanked away from me at any time by her mom....

She is a great mom and they love each other very much. But I wont be able to stand the idea that in the morning I would wake up and not be able to see her waking up...

Also, in the future she may reunite with her former lover....I wont give her my approval to have my daughter being taken to Europe in Romania to see him..

Their only option would be for him to come to US and live together....from what she told me, he doesnt want to live in US..but who knows...

 

[silverstar1025]

I know ...but I cant suffer being alive and knowing that my fiancee can leave my anytime and maybe reunite with her former lover!

I will not be able to witness this...

Today, I sent her the following text message " if for some reasonI will disappear from this world , please tell our daughter that I loved her very much and I am sorry"
I know, you guys would say " if you lover her a lot, why would you off yourself"?

Trust me, unless you walk in my shoe it will be hard to understand what I am going thru...

Seek help now!! Do you want to be responsible for your daughter grow up with issues possbily with drugs, alcohol,etc. If that doesn't bother you then you obviously don't love her as much as you say you do. Such a shame. I feel bad for your daughter I really do that just because her mother won't be with you that you are leaving your little girl too. Sad

 

[txbondsman]

suicide- permanent solution to temporary problems. The ULTIMATE selfish act. You don't REALLY love your daughter or you wouldn't be talking like this, would you?
Think about this, "Would you intentinally physically harm you daughter in any way, i.e. punch her in the face, kick her in the ribs hard enough to break them, etc." But you would mentally rip her heart out every single day, every morning, every important occasion, that she thought, I wish Dad was here to (infinate number statements) for her entire life. Every day, every time.

think about it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I know ...but I cant suffer being alive and knowing that my fiancee can leave my anytime and maybe reunite with her former lover!

I will not be able to witness this...

Today, I sent her the following text message " if for some reasonI will disappear from this world , please tell our daughter that I loved her very much and I am sorry"
I know, you guys would say " if you lover her a lot, why would you off yourself"?

Trust me, unless you walk in my shoe it will be hard to understand what I am going thru...

OK Now I am going to bitchslap you... because YOU NEED IT.

You are talking about taking yourself from the life of your child because her mother may not want to be your wife anymore?

ARE YOU FUKKIN HIGH?!?!

Guess what... I am a mother who had her children and HER ENTIRE LIFE TAKEN FROM HER simply because she did not want to be married to my children's father anymore...

AND I LIVED.

So now, pull your head out of your ass and get a fukkin grip.

No pussy is worth taking your life over.

I know how badly you are hurt but YOU WILL get over it. To tell your fiancee that you want to take your own life because she loves another man is controlling and cowardly.

GET OVER IT ALREADY AND MOVE ON.

YOU ARE ALL YOUR DAUGHTER NEEDS FOR A FATHER. <-- REMEMBER THAT!!!

 

[ponyfitness]

Remember that many of these things that you are going through were not caused by you and you had no control over.

Fiance cheating isn't your fault. Her lack of fidelity has nothing to do with you being a bad person, it is her being a whore. Get rid of her. And provide your daughter with a positive role model to boot.

Job situation is easy to get out of. Find another job with your best skills - a job is just a job, so find something you actually enjoy doing that someone will pay you for. Use your daughter as motivation.

Your family situation cannot affect you anymore. It is in the past.

Find a place where you used to be happy and get those feelings back. Listen to a song you like, go work out, do anything to get your good hormones flowing and your positive energy back up. When you break down your problems often it is pretty simple, but you just have to wrap your mind around how easy it is. People change their lives every day for the better. The choice is yours.