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I have never been so pissed off in my life.... I was so livid I was shaking.... there's only one source of frustration at that level possible.........
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Re: I have never been so pissed off in my life.... I was so livid I was shaking.... there's only one source of frustration at that level possible.........
Unbeleivable...
I had our daughter last night, and agreed to keep her this morning through noon. Her day sitter is out of town so it was either my wife or I. Our standing agreement is that our days begin at 8:30 - so this morning - the wif would have to pick her up at 8:30 on a normal occasion.
I canceled two appointments so I could do this for her - she said she had to be in the office this morning, and would pick her up at noon.
She comes to pick her up - I've been with this girl for 4 years - I know her better than her mother. She has all the signs going on of having a really late night on substances... but I have to play it cool with how everything is going - I don't wan to loose my cool unless I know for sure.
After she leaves I cannot stand the welling feelings inside myself - so I call her office and ask if she was there - they say no, obviously, and ask if they had seen her. Nope.
Never went in.
Come to find out she wasn't supposed to be there until 1, but had already called and said she'd be late because she had our daughter! So I make a few more calls - she was at a bar until 2:00am... who knows what after that.
I guess I shouldn't expect her to be respectful now, and not betray my trust of her - she never did that when we were together. It's just so infuriating because it puts me in the position of having to say no to her when she asks me to watch our daughter for her - because I know it might be so she can either be high or recover from being high!
FUCKING FUCK FUCK FUCk.
Unbeleivable...
I had our daughter last night, and agreed to keep her this morning through noon. Her day sitter is out of town so it was either my wife or I. Our standing agreement is that our days begin at 8:30 - so this morning - the wif would have to pick her up at 8:30 on a normal occasion.
I canceled two appointments so I could do this for her - she said she had to be in the office this morning, and would pick her up at noon.
She comes to pick her up - I've been with this girl for 4 years - I know her better than her mother. She has all the signs going on of having a really late night on substances... but I have to play it cool with how everything is going - I don't wan to loose my cool unless I know for sure.
After she leaves I cannot stand the welling feelings inside myself - so I call her office and ask if she was there - they say no, obviously, and ask if they had seen her. Nope.
Never went in.
Come to find out she wasn't supposed to be there until 1, but had already called and said she'd be late because she had our daughter! So I make a few more calls - she was at a bar until 2:00am... who knows what after that.
I guess I shouldn't expect her to be respectful now, and not betray my trust of her - she never did that when we were together. It's just so infuriating because it puts me in the position of having to say no to her when she asks me to watch our daughter for her - because I know it might be so she can either be high or recover from being high!
FUCKING FUCK FUCK FUCk.
Re: I have never been so pissed off in my life.... I was so livid I was shaking.... there's only one source of frustration at that level possible.........
LOL @ pi0nk
Wow at the details.
LOL @ pi0nk
Wow at the details.
Re: I have never been so pissed off in my life.... I was so livid I was shaking.... there's only one source of frustration at that level possible.........
JH1 at least be thankful that you can see you daughter as much as you want. Also by the sounds of things your ex really shouldn't have custody of your daughter at all. I have done my partying back in the day but IMHO you shouldn't be all strung out and shit around your child that is just fucked up.
JH1 at least be thankful that you can see you daughter as much as you want. Also by the sounds of things your ex really shouldn't have custody of your daughter at all. I have done my partying back in the day but IMHO you shouldn't be all strung out and shit around your child that is just fucked up.
jh1
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Re: I have never been so pissed off in my life.... I was so livid I was shaking.... there's only one source of frustration at that level possible.........
I understand what you are saying, but it is my daughter - I don't think I should have to be thankful for being able to see her... I know that probably just sounds like I am coming off as an ass - but this whole system is stacked against men... It's like I am guilty and have no chance of getting custody unless I can prove the woman guilty.
I need my wife / ex or not to be there for her child - I didn't sign up to do this on my own - and when she does shit like this, it's taken a step backwards - even if that's even possible.
We obviously aren't going to be together - but the one thing that we do have to make work is our agreements and our working relationship as it applies to our daughter - this is just more sabatoge. I cannot even work with her on that now....
superqt4u2nv said:
I understand what you are saying, but it is my daughter - I don't think I should have to be thankful for being able to see her... I know that probably just sounds like I am coming off as an ass - but this whole system is stacked against men... It's like I am guilty and have no chance of getting custody unless I can prove the woman guilty.
I need my wife / ex or not to be there for her child - I didn't sign up to do this on my own - and when she does shit like this, it's taken a step backwards - even if that's even possible.
We obviously aren't going to be together - but the one thing that we do have to make work is our agreements and our working relationship as it applies to our daughter - this is just more sabatoge. I cannot even work with her on that now....
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