javaguru said:
Man I feel sorry for your ex wife, you're one cynical, jaded, on guard dude...you must have been trampled on pretty bad.
But we are all good here seriously, no kids (
BIG PLUS), no fights, best friends, we get along great and everything between us is about a smooth as anyone married or not married for that matter, could ever hope for.
We are very lucky I realize that, but no kidding man don't let one bad marriage screw up your perspective on marriage again forever...
There are still cool chicks out there that will live up to your standards and expectations without dragging you down, nagging your ears off, fighting with you and causing you grief and trying to ruin your independent nature...you just have to be open and find them...
Good luck to you, cause you seem like a nice guy. Just ease the wall down a bit and you might be surprised at what you may find. BTW look for someone that is secure as shit with herself, independent , self sufficient and does not define herself through you and you will have a winner
