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I have an EF/fiance problem.......

myway

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EVERY DAMN TIME I get on EF my man starts being an ass. He says something all extra bitchy then leaves the room.WTF!!!?????!?!?!?!!! Does anyone else have this same problem? I just don't get it. I don't care if he's on the xbox 360 for hours..... WHAT'S wrong with me spending some quality EF time? I only get on here if he is busy doing something else or at work. When he calls home from work to say hi, even then he asks if I have been on ef.WTF??!?!?!!!!???
 
myway said:
EVERY DAMN TIME I get on EF my man starts being an ass. He says something all extra bitchy then leaves the room.WTF!!!?????!?!?!?!!! Does anyone else have this same problem? I just don't get it. I don't care if he's on the xbox 360 for hours..... WHAT'S wrong with me spending some quality EF time? I only get on here if he is busy doing something else or at work. When he calls home from work to say hi, even then he asks if I have been on ef.WTF??!?!?!!!!???
Yes, I have this problem too. He even got on and looked at my profile while I was asleep and asked that I not have any pics on the site. He told me the next day he was sorry and brought home 3 dozen roses. ???
 
TanOsaurus said:
Same here, so I pretend I'm looking on ebay & playing in a "free" casino...

K


:spin:
are you female tanosaurus? I think maybe our guys are upset because they know there are bodybuilder guys on here. ???
 
HeatherRae said:
are you female tanosaurus? I think maybe our guys are upset because they know there are bodybuilder guys on here. ???

You're thinking of the workout board or the juicer board.

HTH




:cow:
 
I meant THINK not THING,btw. It's hard to type and peep out the window at the same time.... in case he comes home.Lol.
 
HeatherRae said:
Yes, I have this problem too. He even got on and looked at my profile while I was asleep and asked that I not have any pics on the site. He told me the next day he was sorry and brought home 3 dozen roses. ???
you need to teach him a lesson and post nudes. that'll show em.
 
wootool said:
you need to teach him a lesson and post nudes. that'll show em.
Man, your subtle powers of persuasion are astounding! ;-)
 
Phenom78 said:
I think y'all should just ignore the problem and hope it goes away.
Ignore it for how long? It's been 2 months.Don't think im not going to bring this up at a later time....... :evil:
 
HeatherRae said:
are you female tanosaurus? I think maybe our guys are upset because they know there are bodybuilder guys on here. ???
Nope, I'm a Guy...

I think we all have to deal with personal insecurity, whether it's our own or someone elses, especially in a relationship. That being said...


:rose: - Hey Baby...
 
myway said:
Ignore it for how long? It's been 2 months.Don't think im not going to bring this up at a later time....... :evil:



He just needs to understand that your need for vapid and arbitrary male attention far outwieghs whatever petty obligations you may or may not have to the long term viability of your relationship.


So yeah
 
TanOsaurus said:
Nope, I'm a Guy...

I think we all have to deal with personal insecurity, whether it's our own or someone elses, especially in a relationship. That being said...


:rose: - Hey Baby...
nice.
 
TanOsaurus said:
Nope, I'm a Guy...

I think we all have to deal with personal insecurity, whether it's our own or someone elses, especially in a relationship. That being said...


:rose: - Hey Baby...

No "guy" would ever use comic sans font in seagreen color.

HTFH




:cow:
 
Phenom78 said:
He just needs to understand that your need for vapid and arbitrary male attention far outwieghs whatever petty obligations you may or may not have to the long term viability of your relationship.


So yeah
Is this like your vapid and arbitrary need for wootoom's attention? LOL.
 
Tell him that no matter how big the guys on EF say their penis is, subtract 3 inches from it
 
I don't know what he is worried about. Married women and women with SO's that post on EF NEVER end up cheating on their men - verbally or physically - with dudes they meet online.

So, tell him to relax. The interwebs is a very safe place for people involved in relationships.

Tee diddly hee
 
KillahBee said:
I don't know what he is worried about. Married women and women with SO's that post on EF NEVER end up cheating on their men - verbally or physically - with dudes they meet online.

So, tell him to relax. The interwebs is a very safe place for people involved in relationships.

Tee diddly hee
true.
 
myway said:
EVERY DAMN TIME I get on EF my man starts being an ass. He says something all extra bitchy then leaves the room.WTF!!!?????!?!?!?!!! Does anyone else have this same problem? I just don't get it. I don't care if he's on the xbox 360 for hours..... WHAT'S wrong with me spending some quality EF time? I only get on here if he is busy doing something else or at work. When he calls home from work to say hi, even then he asks if I have been on ef.WTF??!?!?!!!!???


You are not serious are you?

You seem to have two options... ef or a relationship. I don't know how much this guy means to you but if Ef or any other site is causing havoc on your relationship with him seems you'd cease logging on.

Just my .02
 
Frisky said:
You are not serious are you?

You seem to have two options... ef or a relationship. I don't know how much this guy means to you but if Ef or any other site is causing havoc on your relationship with him seems you'd cease logging on.

Just my .02
...because we have hobbies that we shouldn't have to give up just because a man gets a little jealous. My guy gets a little jealous when I'm on the net, when I go to the gym, etc. I'm not so sure it isn't healthy to be a little jealous. I'm not going to go dropping everything that makes him a little insecure. I don't think MyWay should either.
 
HeatherRae said:
...because we have hobbies that we shouldn't have to give up just because a man gets a little jealous. My guy gets a little jealous when I'm on the net, when I go to the gym, etc. I'm not so sure it isn't healthy to be a little jealous. I'm not going to go dropping everything that makes him a little insecure. I don't think MyWay should either.


I wouldn't consider EF a hobbie, or any chat board for that matter. Believe me, I was in a jealous relationship for 11 years, and if all I had to worry about is my X being a little jealous over an internet chat board I'd have deleted my acct right then and there. What should be a minor issue can ruin a relationship if both parties can't come to some terms.

'refer' to KB's post a bit up... The interweb doesn't get stars when it comes to keeping relationships together. Its known over and over again for doing the opposite.

Going to the gym, hiking, biking, sailing... all those things are what I would consider hobbies. Not logging on to a chat board to shoot the breeze... I don't think there is anything remotely wrong with it but her man obviously does.

There in lies my remark... And MY opinion...
 
If a chat board has the power to ruin a relationship, I'm sure it was pretty shaky to begin with.
 
HeatherRae said:
If a chat board has the power to ruin a relationship, I'm sure it was pretty shaky to begin with.


Ditto

But obviously he has a big problem with it.
 
HeatherRae said:
If a chat board has the power to ruin a relationship, I'm sure it was pretty shaky to begin with.
I like your take on it. If you give-in on every single thing that "bothers" a SO, you really stop doing what you want and begin doing what they want.

I'm all for making them feel comfortable when you can, but sometimes a little differentiation is healthy.
 
Here's an idea....just throwing it out there.

How about you ask him what it is that bothers him.

I guess i'm playing devil's advocate here, but comparing an internet chat board to xbox isn't fair. There aren't single, attractive, horny women on xbox live, playing halo2 trying to pick up guys.....see what I mean? I'm not taking his side, i'm just saying.

Does he have any reason NOT to trust you?
 
sublime35 said:
Here's an idea....just throwing it out there.

How about you ask him what it is that bothers him.

I guess i'm playing devil's advocate here, but comparing an internet chat board to xbox isn't fair. There aren't single, attractive, horny women on xbox live, playing halo2 trying to pick up guys.....see what I mean? I'm not taking his side, i'm just saying.

Does he have any reason NOT to trust you?

I agree...

Or invite him over
 
Problem solved, ease up on the EF action....He`s feeling a bit jealous of your e-friends he doesn`t know anything about.....
 
I think you did the right thing by showing your boobies to male member(s) of theboard. Your fiance doesnt bitch about EF anymore now does he
 
Smurfy said:
I think you did the right thing by showing your boobies to male member(s) of theboard. Your fiance doesnt bitch about EF anymore now does he
lmao I knew this thread would be great if I posted a link of it.
 
This is probably his thought process.

Yeah I'm on my xbox 360 but what's that? most of the xbox live players are males. aka not females. so the chances of me meeting with somebody on here is slim to none. not to mention the fact that I dont think you'd fine many fine women playing on xbox live to begin with.

messageboard with steroid pumping bodybuilders aka buff bodies?

spot what's hurtin your fiance. if he matters, its him over this. otherwise a relationship is worth nothing if you're not willing to make sacrifices for the other person. i understand that though you may like it here, but im just saying, he may never be comfortable with you continuing your posting on these boards or even others. educate him first and see and see if maybe that helps. but it may be an insecurity issue that he has inside that like i said, could linger indefinitely.
 
seizer said:
This is probably his thought process.

Yeah I'm on my xbox 360 but what's that? most of the xbox live players are males. aka not females. so the chances of me meeting with somebody on here is slim to none. not to mention the fact that I dont think you'd fine many fine women playing on xbox live to begin with.

messageboard with steroid pumping bodybuilders aka buff bodies?

spot what's hurtin your fiance. if he matters, its him over this. otherwise a relationship is worth nothing if you're not willing to make sacrifices for the other person. i understand that though you may like it here, but im just saying, he may never be comfortable with you continuing your posting on these boards or even others. educate him first and see and see if maybe that helps. but it may be an insecurity issue that he has inside that like i said, could linger indefinitely.
Thanx, Seizer. You are right. However, this is a very old thread from months ago. He didn't understand,at first, but now he likes to read ef over my shoulder.I keep trying to get him on here. It might work, someday.
 
needtogetas said:
yes she did she just took them down now they are in her profile.well last time a checked they were but that was a wile ago.
her profile is a buncha cartoons. oh well it sounds like her and her fiancee (which has two e's btw) are swingers now from what she says, so boobs away.
 
bran987 said:
whatever she didn't show her boobs
boobs are overated bro. but they're alot like asain women. the hot ones arent many but when you do see a hot one she's usually retardedly hot. mind you the asian thing is my personal opinion, and im sorry if you're offended but i dont give a fuck. dont make me spin kick you.

you would have faired a better chance asking for ass pics instead. imo, she'd be more likely to shoot that. her ass that is..maybe because males freely do it too so its that's the one sexual area of the body that both men have mutally terms of exposure in which strictly-bum-exhibitionism is accepted.

dunno, just a thought.
 
bran987 said:
her profile is a buncha cartoons. oh well it sounds like her and her fiancee (which has two e's btw) are swingers now from what she says, so boobs away.
realy give me a link to that bro.thats good shit.
 
seizer said:
boobs are overated bro. but they're alot like asain women. the hot ones arent many but when you do see a hot one she's usually retardedly hot. mind you the asian thing is my personal opinion, and im sorry if you're offended but i dont give a fuck. dont make me spin kick you.

like put a safety-helmet-on-retarded.

you would have faired a better chance asking for ass pics instead. imo, she'd be more likely to shoot that. her ass that is..maybe because males freely do it too so its that's the one sexual area of the body that both men have mutally terms of exposure in which strictly-bum-exhibitionism is accepted.

dunno, just a thought.
I agree. Boobs are overated. Plus, when someone has great boobs, they usually have something else fucked up about them. Nobody is perfect. Like me: Great boobs...... too fricken short. I have been praying to reach 5'2" forever. I guess it's never gonna happen. I would trade great boobs to be one of those tall chicks with the really long legs. Don't get me wrong. I still look good in a dress and heels BUT it's just not the same. :worried:
 
Plus, anyone can buy great boobs. If I went to a doctor and asked him to make me taller... he would ask me if I hit my head or smoked a blunt while in the waiting room.
 
myway said:
I agree. Boobs are overated. Plus, when someone has great boobs, they usually have something else fucked up about them. Nobody is perfect. Like me: Great boobs...... too fricken short. I have been praying to reach 5'2" forever. I guess it's never gonna happen. I would trade great boobs to be one of those tall chicks with the really long legs. Don't get me wrong. I still look good in a dress and heels BUT it's just not the same. :worried:

whoa whoa WHOA!

system overload
 
myway said:
EVERY DAMN TIME I get on EF my man starts being an ass. He says something all extra bitchy then leaves the room.WTF!!!?????!?!?!?!!! Does anyone else have this same problem? I just don't get it. I don't care if he's on the xbox 360 for hours..... WHAT'S wrong with me spending some quality EF time? I only get on here if he is busy doing something else or at work. When he calls home from work to say hi, even then he asks if I have been on ef.WTF??!?!?!!!!???
maybe cuz u are spending your free time getting attention from other people, whereas his xbox time is him enjoying free time with a toy.
 
grown ups playing with toys. i'm guilty, too. i have a living, breathing Fuckdoll, i play with erry chance i get....
 
HumanTarget said:
grown ups playing with toys. i'm guilty, too. i have a living, breathing Fuckdoll, i play with erry chance i get....
I noticed when i was upset with my ex about something that I didnt feel like discussing I would take it out on her about issues not relating to what i was mad about. Yes i have issues, just my opinion
 
niasdaddy2005 said:
I noticed when i was upset with my ex about something that I didnt feel like discussing I would take it out on her about issues not relating to what i was mad about. Yes i have issues, just my opinion
yeah, wtf is that called, misdirected anger? 12 step class shit. but true. i just tell my girl right off the top, "i'm gonna fight with you today" and she'll laugh and ask why, then i tell her why i'm pissed or what's bothering me, and we work it out.....it's nice being able to find a way to communicate...
 
I'm into crazy chicks. I think you and I might make a great couple.
 
wow an old thread that was bumped?
 
myway said:
I agree. Boobs are overated. Plus, when someone has great boobs, they usually have something else fucked up about them. Nobody is perfect. Like me: Great boobs...... too fricken short. I have been praying to reach 5'2" forever. I guess it's never gonna happen. I would trade great boobs to be one of those tall chicks with the really long legs. Don't get me wrong. I still look good in a dress and heels BUT it's just not the same. :worried:

I prefer shorter women. They are cute, and I can toss them around easier.
 
Pamela said:
I've heard crazy chicks are wild lovers ;) :lmao:

You heard right! ;)
 
HumanTarget said:
yeah, wtf is that called, misdirected anger? 12 step class shit. but true. i just tell my girl right off the top, "i'm gonna fight with you today" and she'll laugh and ask why, then i tell her why i'm pissed or what's bothering me, and we work it out.....it's nice being able to find a way to communicate...


She should just slap the shit out of you ;)
 
We worked it out. When he plays his games, I get on EF. That way, we both get to do what we want to do.When I'm done on ef, he stops playing xbox. It also helps that he sleeps way more than me.I have bad insomnia....always have had it. He sleeps 8-10 hours a day. That's more ef time for me. If he wants to watch a movie or anything else, I put up the computer until he goes to sleep. It works out.
 
Yep. It's been working out just fine since sometime in July. Wow. I can't believe this thread was ever bumped from way back then.
 
I look at it like this:

If you would change your behavior based on whether or not a SO is present, then most likely that behavior would be considered inappropriate.
 
The Shadow said:
I look at it like this:

If you would change your behavior based on whether or not a SO is present, then most likely that behavior would be considered inappropriate.


I totally agree!
 
The Shadow said:
I look at it like this:

If you would change your behavior based on whether or not a SO is present, then most likely that behavior would be considered inappropriate.


You kinda smart for a boy
 
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