I'm "simply" an old guy that has been around the block many more times than some of you young folks. My demeanor gives testimony to the many years I've helped people out of bad situations (I've taken in about 18 teenagers in trouble with the law or from bad homes to help them and "show them" what a good family is all about).
I tend to not offer advice unless it is on a topic where I truly have "walked the walk". I may not have relationship issues with women such as you do, but I did have my fair share of relationship issues in my late teens and twenties. It was pretty bad and all someone had to do was to look at me sideways and I'd be on them. I needed help before I ended up dead or in jail.
So who am I? Just an old guy willing to share some of my experience.