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i didnt know that going on a date
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lartinos
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Surely does not. But if it goes there it goes there. I would prefer it doesn't I guess, but shit happens and it doesn't necessarily mean the relationship will go down in flames.
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lartinos
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Now if I just wanted to hook up it is a different story..
ricco561
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Exactly! If we both want it and it happens then fine.
Here is how it went.
Got a text last
Guy: hey, I've been thinking about u. We have to go on a real date before the year is over. Time is flying I wanna see u.
Me: yeah, give me a call
Get a text today
Fast forward
Guy: are you free tomorrow night?
Me: I have to work late and I'm not gonna want to hang after work. Are u free Sat?
Guy: I have a bday party on sat. If u come with me I promise dinner and bed. I promise it will be nice and romantic.
Me: lmaoooo I thought it was just dinner. Why don't you go to your bday party and we can 'date' another night
Roxy722
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Seems like you're generally lucky to make 3 hours now.
It's great, if you're both feeling it, but if not, it's just awkward. The last time this happened to me, I wasn't feeling it and politely declined...which led to "do you want to just come and watch me jerk off in my truck"....ya can't win!!
yeah, he shouldn't have said that at all.
He should've just picked you up with an ether rag in his pocket.
Ezekiel
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I agree w/ you. Thats totally classless...
I would never be interested in a girl that put out on the 1st date... Unless it was a friends w/ benefits type situation.
All that being said I've been married for 15 years...
Well now I think I see the problem. He obviously didnt pinky swear, he merely just promised.
Seems like you're generally lucky to make 3 hours now.
It's great, if you're both feeling it, but if not, it's just awkward. The last time this happened to me, I wasn't feeling it and politely declined...which led to "do you want to just come and watch me jerk off in my truck"....ya can't win!!
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lartinos
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This guy is out of hand. Not saying he is a bad dood, but his current state of mind is totally objectifying you. I bet I have twice the game of this fool and I would never come off like that. It's not even slick when you think about it... he is showing his hand and now he can lose for sure.
What's your next move?
What's your next move?
I would be turned off as well, I hate these fuckers who think date = sex, dont get me wrong I've never even made it to the 3rd date but dont assume I'll sleep with you from the get go, if I do great but dont fucking expect it as a given, this is why most of them time I pay or share the check on the first date, so assholes dont feel I owe them shit....
Seems like you're generally lucky to make 3 hours now.
It's great, if you're both feeling it, but if not, it's just awkward. The last time this happened to me, I wasn't feeling it and politely declined...which led to "do you want to just come and watch me jerk off in my truck"....ya can't win!!
That guy would get a punch on the face from me.... not literally but what an asshole, I would be very rude and sarcastic though....
there's always a guy who will wait too
even if there was making out and/or groping and you both get along nicely?
No I'm just kidding. If I actually like the girl I will wait. I have waited over a month before.
how long did those relationships last, if you ever encountered a dude who waited.
until she realized the reason he waited was because he had a small peener and/or was bad at the sexing.
You have nooo idea.
I mean it could be fun at times, but, you also have to sort through a lot of trash.
He just text me back said " ohh don't misunderstand lol. what about football sunday, in the afternoon?"
I didn't get back to him yet. It's definitely a "NO".
I know this guy before his wall street days, and for him to come out like this?! It's really dissapointing. There is no need to be an arrogant S.O.B..who does he think he is....ughhh
dates should include sex, unless for some reason it's interrupted or whatever (doctor gets paged, etc.), then sex will be postponed until later. Sex should occur upon first meeting if both parties are mutually interested. That should then determine if there will be any dates. If the two parties decide to date, then sex should obviously continue throughout the entire dating period/relationship until the relationship ends.
Seems like you're generally lucky to make 3 hours now.
It's great, if you're both feeling it, but if not, it's just awkward. The last time this happened to me, I wasn't feeling it and politely declined...which led to "do you want to just come and watch me jerk off in my truck"....ya can't win!!
omggg
It's scary out there
at least a year
you'll be safe with me baby.
Just like that?
Indeed, you should keep it moving.
There are plenty of men who see it differently.
Don't get me wrong, women like/want sex just as much if not more. It's a little more complicated with us.
Yes its no mystery that females like sex as much as males. It's only complicated if you choose to make it so.
It is if you die in ten days. Why put off for tomorrow what you can accomplish today.
Fine...how about I come over and make soujouk pizza, then we'll have sex on the couch?
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lartinos
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Yup, just plain disrespectful. No way I would say that to you.
I had plenty of floozies to say stuff like that to when I was single.
He shot himself in the foot and pretty much told he is up to nothing up doochery nowadays.
digimon7068
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i know, FB is much more efficient rob. thanks for the heads up.
jackangel
New member
lmao @ watch me jerk off in the truck. that's fucking radical.
mel, you're always talking about these wall street ngrs...i'm going to assume you're one of those girls who always goes for the same type, then complains about that type.
what are your chances of not finding a douchebag if you stick to brokers/bankers/traders. you like that flash.
mel, you're always talking about these wall street ngrs...i'm going to assume you're one of those girls who always goes for the same type, then complains about that type.
what are your chances of not finding a douchebag if you stick to brokers/bankers/traders. you like that flash.
How the hell can that be misunderstood, what other explanation can it have? dont get me wrond sms and chatting can be taken many ways but that's pretty clear.... and as 75th mentioned WTF is his problem asking you out via sms if he doesnt have interest or time to call me i dont have interest or time to date him.... simple...
I think you forgot about my law enforcement dating streak lol..I do mix it up ahha
Seriously though, I like humble guys. This guy is a good guy deep down I got to know him pretty well. We had great chemistry but timing was never right. I think he feels that he has to put up this front in order to be successful. Doesn't mean that I'm gonna stick around and wait for him to get his shit together. I think we are better off as friends.
Yeah, I didn't like the fact that he texted either.
I did tell him to give me a call..men don't listen
billfred
New member
We would totally bed on the first date....
Because I would never get a second chance!!!
jackangel
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agreed. you're mine anyway.
Translation: he doesnt have enough cash
Ohhhh snap, see guys ,live and learn all it takes is one text to put you in the friend zone!
redshirt27se
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If I want to get laid I surely don't text chicks I've known for 5 years yet never fucked. Much easier roads to go down for that. Now if I actually wanted to date you and suggested dinner and you put out on the first night I'd probably be put off by it. I'd still stick it, but I don't date whores. Not saying that's you P, cause it's clearly not. This dudes game is clearly off.
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lartinos
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I like to text and I don't care if people don't like it. I hate calling people when they are actually busy.
True, they're called idiots.
see..this guy knows how its done
It's the soujouk pizza...I'm speaking your language.
jnevin
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You & java got that much time?
jnevin
New member
That's what I was thinking.
Now see, I wouldn't judge a woman who "puts out" right away as a whore. Maybe she has been a serial monogamist and just got out of a long-term relationship which had no romance for several months or years and now she's single and wants to have some fun, maybe sex a few guys, whatever. I got no problems with that.
Could a woman who fucks you as soon as she meets you be a whore? Maybe...maybe not. Would you be a whore for fucking her that soon? You say no, because you only date good girls (lol), but maybe someone else would say yes.
mustang_00
Well-known member
wait so you said you've known the guy for 5 years... how do you know it wasn't a joke or a pussy attempt at striking up the "what if we took our friendship further" question.
you handled it well regardless. has the dude text you after that?
you handled it well regardless. has the dude text you after that?
Lancer55
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huh?
now ya know... or you can pay for him and you then kick him to the curb..
or a moon pie and RC cola at the gas station while she fills up my gas tank
guys often seem to say shit they expect to sound seductive that instead just comes off being offensive and shutting it down.
but it wasn't funny. 19 times out of 20 a woman is not going to find something like that charming, seductive, or humorous. That's a 95% miss rate. Men would succeed with a hell of a lot more women if they'd just learn how to talk to women.
digimon7068
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men have been trying to solve that puzzle for years darlin'...the bottom line is that, sometimes, we just don't speak the same language...and a lot of quality dudes have two left feet when it comes to dealing with women...the trick is finding a partner that's willing to meet you half way.
this ^ and lol and SB's posts
SB hasn't even posted in this thread
ricco561
New member
You must spread some Karma around (ie give karma to other members too) before giving it to jnevin again
That's funny.
yeah, but if someones f$%^ed up on something, it is possible
ricco561
New member
Boys are dumb and men are pigs.
wtf?
I don't care what you're fucked up on...if you write something like that you're a friggin' whackadoo.
not the shit part bro.....
the bed part.
im saying, if dude was wasted, he could of said what he was thinking instead of what he meant to say.
given if he works for wall street, maybe he was whacked out on coke and sent it
then quote the right reply fucker!
MsBeverlyHills
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depends on how much alcohol was involved
seriously, if your sexually attracted to him- why wait? the timing of sex (1st date or 10th date) realy has nothing to do if the relationship will work out or not.
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lartinos
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depends on how much alcohol was involved
seriously, if your sexually attracted to him- why wait? the timing of sex (1st date or 10th date) realy has nothing to do if the relationship will work out or not.
I think it could be a tell tale sign of where he currently is and if a relationship is really what he wants from her. I would be offended if I was a chick if someone said that. It is assuming things about her. He should be really sorry at the very least!
MsBeverlyHills
New member
i would agree w/you if he said it- but he sent a text..so its kinda hard to know if he was serious or sarcastic.
another reason i hardly send texts... im a very sarcstic person & my text always sound mean! lol
that's why you're supposed to use smiley faces, bitch
see, smiley face makes it all better.
Thank you! So good to see someone else saying this too! I couldn't agree more.
LOL! I'm the same way. We would surely get along well.
Lancer55
Elite Greek
Oh dang I was lookin at the avatar and not names lol don't know how I misread but tbh was not reading what was on the shirt either
I feel smart
but post was edited and you got credit
redshirt27se
New member
Lotta maybes up in there bro. And I never said I would or wouldn't be a whore for fucking on the first date. I could care less about others applying those labels to me, cause I have no problem handing them out to others. If I'm going out with someone that I want a legit future with, I'm going to be put off if she wants to ride my cock on the first date. It's that simple. Serial monogamist, blah blah blah. If you are down to fuck someone you've known for 2 hours you're probably a whore.
bakemeacookie
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Maybe he was promising you a free bed? Maybe he bought a new one and wanted to get rid of his old one. Don't be so quick to jump to conclusions!
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I like to use maybes. I don't like to commit.
You think a woman who wants to bang you after you've known her for two hours is most likely a whore.
I think a woman who wouldn't want to bang me after I've known her for two hours is most likely a dyke.
lmao sounds like u take things way too serious. It was just a text and could have just laughed it off. You never know if you guys went on a date you could have completely forgotten about that comment and it would have been all good, but you decided to be fuckin weird about one text and not give him a chance?
girls like you are the reason girls get played
girls like you are the reason girls get played
shouldn't you be shooting some test and playing your keyboard?
