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I didn't get my girlfriend anything for V-day and guess what...
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I got her some tren and test. We'll see how that goes
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jnevin said:
Read the entire thread when you get bored, perhaps that will better explain it.
Read Gonelifting's posts also.
It's not about neglecting or disrespecting the girl....it's about refraiming from what society tells you to do. Why should I be forced to buy an expensive gift on one particular day just so I won't look like a jerk?
Spoiled women will get pissed if you don't get them anything on this day. They want to be pampered and also receive attention from others. It shows a lot of their thinking and attitude. (That's why I got negative comments from a lot of the chicks on this thread)
I want to go into detail but unfortunately it is time for me to leave work.
Showing love should be something done throughout the year. Not by materialistic gifts on commercialized days.
I am the type of guy who cannot justify spending several thousand on a freaking mineral (diamond) so that the girl can show off to other girls.
Before you think I am abusive and all that other feminist crap.....If you were to ask my GF she will gladly tell you I'm the best man she's ever met and could ask for.
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jnevin said:
Well I won't lie, part of me likes getting y'alls panties in a wad.
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superdave said:
He was loaded when we got together, then lost it all shortly thereafter due in part to a partner that stole from him, due in part to others screwing him over, due in part to a few deals falling through and I STILL MARRIED HIM with zero money. How many women would have done the same?... especially a woman in my position?
Matters not what other women would have done - HE CHOSE ME.
Now WE are finally comfortable again and will be completely recovered by year's end due primarily to his input and work but will be largely supplemented by MY input and work.
I am THE FIRST woman that he has ever been involved with who has loved him for him and not for what he could do for me.
I guess I am a fuckup when it comes to digging for gold. LMFAO I have stated adnauseum that money is not what attracts me to a man as all the men that I date make mad bank. It is his brain and his character. This man showed me UNBELIEVABLE brains and character and that was more than I had ever hoped for so how could I leave him when he needed me most? I will NEVER forsake him for his unbelievable courage and kindness and dedication to me AND my family.
The car was for me for now. It was bought in anticipation of when my girls will be driving (my oldest will be 15 soon) because "they will need something nice to drive."
He knows how hard our lives have been, how much we have had to do without. He didnt fall in love with me for my ass like most others who pursued me wanted. He fell in love with me for my heart; a wise choice indeed.
So we chose each other not for how sexy I was or how much money he had. It was because of who we are on the INSIDE. (Course my ass and his bank dont hurt none now though either
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Well, just an update. I have no idea what happened, but my wife is sort of pissed at me this year for not getting her anything.
She didn't say a word about it until I kept asking her, then she totally flipped out! WTF? She started going off like a fucking lunatic"What about last year? AND the year before that?!?!! " umm, wtf? Why are you telling me this now? I think she was holding it in and just had to vent or something.
Well, today I got her a card and some flowers (No roses!) with a little apology inside the card. I've never seen her this mad before. Shit!
Yeah, the couch isn't comfortable.
Hey, at least I'm man enough to admit it, when the shit hits the fan. I may have to change my tune.
Life sucks. I NEVER saw this coming.
She didn't say a word about it until I kept asking her, then she totally flipped out! WTF? She started going off like a fucking lunatic"What about last year? AND the year before that?!?!! " umm, wtf? Why are you telling me this now? I think she was holding it in and just had to vent or something.
Well, today I got her a card and some flowers (No roses!) with a little apology inside the card. I've never seen her this mad before. Shit!
Yeah, the couch isn't comfortable.
Hey, at least I'm man enough to admit it, when the shit hits the fan. I may have to change my tune.
Life sucks. I NEVER saw this coming.
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