I cheated on my girl the other night

[EnderJE]

So, can I fuck your gal?

 

[conundrum]

then why bring it up at all? bragging rights?

No, its not for bragging rights. I guess I was feeling a little guilty and wanted some other opinions on the subject. I more or less knew what the women would say.

 

[conundrum]

K... understandable as you want your cake and eat it to.

But lemme ask you this: if your girl did to you what you did to her, wouldn't you want to know? Purely so that you would be free to make an intelligent decision as to whether or not you would want to invest any more of YOUR TIME in the relationship?

BTW - how old are you and your girl?

Clearly if I knew and she didn't tell me: she's done. If I didn't know and she told me it would put a definate strain on the relationship and I could never trust her again. If I didn't know and she didn't tell me....then I wouldn't know anything.

Me: 31 Her: 21

 

[conundrum]

like the cheating "just happened."

*snort*

I'd have a lot more tolerance for someone who at least admitted to being a dirtbag.

Ok, for that one night I was a dirtbag. Happy now?

 

[conundrum]

That part I believe.

Guys start out as dating and wanting to have fun. Before they know it they met her family, tampons under the sink, and she is talking marriage.

Thats exactly what happened

 

[conundrum]

Hahaha...the real trick, at least at first, is tell em you're an asshole but be nice to them...and then they go "ooooohhh, he's an asshole but not to me! I can be the one who changes him!"

Yeah, no. lol

Thats what I told my gf at the start 9 long months ago. Most women think they can change a man's ways.

 

[velvett]

I don't see the point in telling her..what she doesn't know what hurt her.

Hopefully she will share the same philosophy when she's banging someone else too, you know, to proetct your fragile ego.

 

[billfred]

Hopefully she will share the same philosophy when she's banging someone else too, you know, to proetct your fragile ego.

To be perfectly honest - if my wife went out and had a one night bang and it was over, I really don't want to know about it. Why deal with the stress??

 

[all the whey]

To be perfectly honest - if my wife went out and had a one night bang and it was over, I really don't want to know about it. Why deal with the stress??

Then, don't open that pm I sent you!@!!!!

 

[all the whey]

Thats exactly what happened

We have all been there. All of a sudden you realize everything she did was to get you into a serious relationship.

Instead, of staying with her and banging other broads. Dump her. (and bang other broads)


Seriously, see if you can change the ticket. You don't want to fuck up your friends wedding.

You know damn well people are going to be talking about it or there will be a scene. Your friends wife will never forgive you for fucking up "her" day. And, she won't let your friend play with you anymore.