I am hurt! I have been cheated on...

[Bikini Mod]

this infuriates me cause i was once a victim of a cheating gf...and of course she blamed me for spreading her legs and inserting a penis in her vag.
and of course i swallowed her bulllshit and blamed myself like a faggot.
never again

Come on guys... men don't do THE SAME SHIT TO WOMEN?

"You got fat."

"You nag too much."

"You won't get freaky/nasty."

 

[binö]

Come on guys... men don't do THE SAME SHIT TO WOMEN?

"You got fat."

"You nag too much."

"You won't get freaky/nasty."

agreed.
but this is a thread about a bro who's gf cheated on him and blamed him for her bad behaviour.
when the opposite happens i'll agree with you

 

[Bikini Mod]

agreed.
but this is a thread about a bro who's gf cheated on him and blamed him for her bad behaviour.
when the opposite happens i'll agree with you

I didn't see where she blamed him for her cheating. I saw where he was blaming himself for treating her poorly to the point where he "drove her away." That is not the same as saying that he MADE HER cheat.

Clearly - the only person ultimately responsible for cheating is the person who steps out on their S/O.

PERIOD.

 

[binö]

I didn't see where she blamed him for her cheating. I saw where he was blaming himself for treating her poorly to the point where he "drove her away." That is not the same as saying that he MADE HER cheat.

Clearly - the only person ultimately responsible for cheating is the person who steps out on their S/O.

PERIOD.

and you know she is leaning on this excuse big time
"you drove me away, what could i do, teehee teehee"

 

[Bikini Mod]

and you know she is leaning on this excuse big time
"you drove me away, what could i do, teehee teehee"

Actually No... HE is the one that wants a baby with her.

He is the one who wants her back... not the other way around.

Look I am not saying that her behavior is justified - IT WAS WRONG NO MATTER WHAT.

All I am saying is that this guy is far more evolved then most as

A. He recognizes the error of his ways.

and

B. Wants to change.

All I am saying is that for that change to be a GOOD ONE he needs to want to change for HIS OWN BENEFIT TOTALLY INDEPENDENT OF THIS WOMAN.

Clearly, she isn't making the best decisions for herself. Yes, she effectively "left" this relationship (which Nobledude admits was a notsogood one) but who did she leave it for? A GUY WHO DUMPED HER!!! .... and is now married to another woman and who says that though he wants to divorce his current wife - he isn't even smart enough to lie and tell her that he will leave his wife for HER!!... Yet she is willing to risk that this man who didn't choose her the first time will choose her THIS TIME... especially now that she has another man's child?!?!?

Let me fill you all in on something. Eastern European men don't play. They can be REAL ASSHOLES when it comes to stuff like that... How do I know? Duh, how do ya'll think I was raised?!

Nobledude will figure it out, I have no doubt. In the self-examination category he is LIGHTYEARS ahead of this woman. But I do hope she figures it out for her sake and for the sake of her daughter...

 

[puddlemonkey]

All I am saying is that this guy is far more evolved then most as

A. He recognizes the error of his ways.

and

B. Wants to change.

Bino is gonna have a field day with this.

 

[the_alcatraz]

Sorry you're in pain bro. I say try to work things out. At least for your child.

 

[binö]

Actually No... HE is the one that wants a baby with her.

He is the one who wants her back... not the other way around.

Look I am not saying that her behavior is justified - IT WAS WRONG NO MATTER WHAT.

All I am saying is that this guy is far more evolved then most as

A. He recognizes the error of his ways.

and

B. Wants to change.All I am saying is that for that change to be a GOOD ONE he needs to want to change for HIS OWN BENEFIT TOTALLY INDEPENDENT OF THIS WOMAN.

Clearly, she isn't making the best decisions for herself. Yes, she effectively "left" this relationship (which Nobledude admits was a notsogood one) but who did she leave it for? A GUY WHO DUMPED HER!!! .... and is now married to another woman and who says that though he wants to divorce his current wife - he isn't even smart enough to lie and tell her that he will leave his wife for HER!!... Yet she is willing to risk that this man who didn't choose her the first time will choose her THIS TIME... especially now that she has another man's child?!?!?

Let me fill you all in on something. Eastern European men don't play. They can be REAL ASSHOLES when it comes to stuff like that... How do I know? Duh, how do ya'll think I was raised?!

Nobledude will figure it out, I have no doubt. In the self-examination category he is LIGHTYEARS ahead of this woman. But I do hope she figures it out for her sake and for the sake of her daughter...

lollolloll at seeing the error of his ways and wanting to change
what can i say to that really?
this is why the modern american male is largely cowardice.
to go off like my nigga razorguns "this is why white males are complete losers and pussies; fastly losing ground to hispanics and east euro males. when a east euro male finds his cheating wife, he slaps her and public shames her then goes and fucks all her friends and relatives. when a american male finds his cheating wife, he begs her forgiveness and asks what he did wrong.
truely sad"
then end

 

[Bikini Mod]

lollolloll at seeing the error of his ways and wanting to change
what can i say to that really?
this is why the modern american male is largely cowardice.
to go off like my nigga razorguns "this is why white males are complete losers and pussies; fastly losing ground to hispanics and east euro males. when a east euro male finds his cheating wife, he slaps her and public shames her then goes and fucks all her friends and relatives. when a american male finds his cheating wife, he begs her forgiveness and asks what he did wrong.
truely sad"
then end

Ummm Nobledude is Eastern European.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bino is gonna have a field day with this.

Notsomuch I am bettin.