Hypocritical People Annoy Me

[jenscats5]

I've met my step-daughter's grandmother once & have heard a LOT about her - all bad. She's a weirdo and a pretty annoying person. Every time she comes up to stay with J - all J does is complain about her: that she's annoying, stupid, etc etc -- all bad.

Well I made a comment the other nite that "Everyone knows that she's an idiot." Now again this is a woman who's ENTIRE family cannot STAND to be around & constantly talks bad about. Plus I've met her so I feel I'm entitled to an opinion. Well my hubby says today that J is very upset with me over my comment & I made her cry. Now she's apparantly very angry with me.

So it's OK for her to call her OWN grandmother an idiot but not me?? WTF??

Pot..............Kettle..................Black

 

[Smurfy]

Just because what you said may be true, doesnt mean it doesnt hurt to hear it.Plus, she's a teenager right>? Teenagers are sensitive.

 

[jenscats5]

Just because what you said may be true, doesnt mean it doesnt hurt to hear it.Plus, she's a teenager right>? Teenagers are sensitive.

While you have a valid point - it's something SHE HERSELF says every single time she's up.

IMO - if you can dish it out then you gotta be able to take it.

 

[Smurfy]

While you have a valid point - it's something SHE HERSELF says every single time she's up.

IMO - if you can dish it out then you gotta be able to take it.

I think youre being a little harsh. Although Im sure she is being over dramatic.

 

[UA_Iron]

there's not enough testosterone in your family. I recommend HRT, we need to dispose of those wuss emotions.

That would irritate the hell out of me. In fact I wouldnt be apologetic about it...but thats just me.

People are unpredictable.

 

[Smurfy]

Jens you have to remember that, as a rule, Teenagers are stupid and dont make a whole lotta sense (even the so-called "good kids"). You have to keep that in mind. Especially with females. Females are weird to begin with. And then throw in puberty, and everything is askew. I make it a point to steer clear of any and all teenagers. But I understand you cant do that b/c she's your step-daughter. Good luck with her.

 

[jenscats5]

I think youre being a little harsh. Although Im sure she is being over dramatic.

Oh - she'll be 19 in 2 weeks, so it's not like she's a younger teenager. She's an adult now........

I didn't think I was being harsh - but I just don't understand how she can be so upset with me when she says the same thing or worse??

 

[jenscats5]

there's not enough testosterone in your family. I recommend HRT, we need to dispose of those wuss emotions.

That would irritate the hell out of me. In fact I wouldnt be apologetic about it...but thats just me.

People are unpredictable.

Well I'm not really planning to apologize unless she says something to me herself.

 

[Smurfy]

It's always different when it comes from SOMEONE ELSE. That's why.

i.e.

CHICK: "omgomgomg I'm so fat - teehee."

GUY to CHICK: "you need to lose some weight"

CICK: "you fucking bastard! hmmmph!!!" :stomps off crying and pissed:

 

[EnderJE]

You chicks are all fat. There, feel better?

BTW, your grandmother is a cheesy, lard eating whore.

 

[UA_Iron]

Oh - she'll be 19 in 2 weeks, so it's not like she's a younger teenager. She's an adult now........

I didn't think I was being harsh - but I just don't understand how she can be so upset with me when she says the same thing or worse??

pics?

 

[jenscats5]

pics?

Uhhhhhh - NO!

 

[theoak01]

its the whole family thing,for example sometimes I hate my father,he is a asshole and drives me nuts,but if Im pissed at him and someone else talks shit,Ill punch their ass out. its a loyalty thing is all, its weird but how most people are

 

[UA_Iron]

Uhhhhhh - NO!

please?

 

[jenscats5]

its the whole family thing,for example sometimes I hate my father,he is a asshole and drives me nuts,but if Im pissed at him and someone else talks shit,Ill punch their ass out. its a loyalty thing is all, its weird but how most people are

Hmmmm - so it's OK for you to tell someone that your dad is a stupid idiot & you can't stand him & hope to never see him again but if someone else who is also part of your "family" who's met him & says he's an "idiot" - you'd get pissed??

Weird....

 

[Sub-Zero]

I've met my step-daughter's grandmother once & have heard a LOT about her - all bad. She's a weirdo and a pretty annoying person. Every time she comes up to stay with J - all J does is complain about her: that she's annoying, stupid, etc etc -- all bad.

Well I made a comment the other nite that "Everyone knows that she's an idiot." Now again this is a woman who's ENTIRE family cannot STAND to be around & constantly talks bad about. Plus I've met her so I feel I'm entitled to an opinion. Well my hubby says today that J is very upset with me over my comment & I made her cry. Now she's apparantly very angry with me.

So it's OK for her to call her OWN grandmother an idiot but not me?? WTF??

Pot..............Kettle..................Black

is J ur step daughter?

she sounds like a tool, hook me up, and ill use her

 

[jenscats5]

is J ur step daughter?

she sounds like a tool, hook me up, and ill use her

Yes.......and dood she'll eat you alive........besides aren't you younger than her??

 

[Sub-Zero]

Yes.......and dood she'll eat you alive........besides aren't you younger than her??

only by like a year and a half... ill sweep her off her over emotional feet and bang bang her all the way home

 

[jenscats5]

only by like a year and a half... ill sweep her off her over emotional feet and bang bang her all the way home

She only likes skinny, unwashed looking, non-muscular, tatooed, pierced, punk band, wimpy guys.......that she can walk all over......

 

[theoak01]

Hmmmm - so it's OK for you to tell someone that your dad is a stupid idiot & you can't stand him & hope to never see him again but if someone else who is also part of your "family" who's met him & says he's an "idiot" - you'd get pissed??

Weird....

thats exactly it,it sounds stupid,but its the blood is thicker than water thing,ask the italian bros here,they can bicker and argue about shit among themselves but if a outsider gets involved that person gets the wrath of the whole family,many cultures are like that

 

[big4life]

Sorry, I thought from the title that you had met some of my relatives. My bad.

 

[jenscats5]

thats exactly it,it sounds stupid,but its the blood is thicker than water thing,ask the italian bros here,they can bicker and argue about shit among themselves but if a outsider gets involved that person gets the wrath of the whole family,many cultures are like that

But I AM part of her family - I'm her step-mother........not a blood relative but still part of the extended family. And it's not like I haven't been the brunt of the "issues" the grandmother has.....

So I dont' see myself as being an "outsider."

 

[foreigngirl]

But I AM part of her family - I'm her step-mother........not a blood relative but still part of the extended family. And it's not like I haven't been the brunt of the "issues" the grandmother has.....

So I dont' see myself as being an "outsider."

Jens, it dont matter how good you get along with her. You are not related by blood with her and thats the bottom line for her. If her dad said the same thing, she wouldnt be upset as much.

 

[jenscats5]

Jens, it dont matter how good you get along with her. You are not related by blood with her and thats the bottom line for her. If her dad said the same thing, she wouldnt be upset as much.

Well that's fine - she can be as upset as she wants.......

I've met this woman & not been treated well by her so I'm entitled to my opinion, as far as I'm concerned....

 

[theoak01]

dont me wrong jen I dont think your wrong,its just how shit is I guess,people are weird,and when I look back at times ive got pissed with people for slamming my pops I think it was stupid,but in the heat of the moment I could kill, blind loyalty is a bitch.

 

[foreigngirl]

Well that's fine - she can be as upset as she wants.......

I've met this woman & not been treated well by her so I'm entitled to my opinion, as far as I'm concerned....

I really admire you for taking care of a child that is not your own.
IMO, let her be upset as much as she wants. She should come to you and say something, so you two can talk and you can tell her (NOT appologize to her) that you ARE entitled to an oppinion, cause you are a part of the family as well

 

[jenscats5]

dont me wrong jen I dont think your wrong,its just how shit is I guess,people are weird,and when I look back at times ive got pissed with people for slamming my pops I think it was stupid,but in the heat of the moment I could kill, blind loyalty is a bitch.

Oh no, I know - I'm agreeing people are weird. My family was pretty weird too so I know!!

 

[jenscats5]

I really admire you for taking care of a child that is not your own.
IMO, let her be upset as much as she wants. She should come to you and say something, so you two can talk and you can tell her (NOT appologize to her) that you ARE entitled to an oppinion, cause you are a part of the family as well

LOL thanks - she's no kid anymore even tho she acts like it at times.....

But yes, I won't bring it up unless she does. My hubby mentioned it to me today. I'll just tell her she shouldn't be so sensitive cuz she talks shit about people a lot - I mean A LOT. LOL She's not reserved one bit!!