how to tell someone you DONT love them...

[smallmovesal]

this is the problem between women and men.. don't assume anything!

be direct, but choose your words. it's better than assuming she knows and possibly stringing her along. it's the grown-up thing to do.

 

[madbomber31]

it also costs me 3 months of sex

 

[_Outlaw]

bah....just tell her you out..And not commn back

 

[The Dude]

I had a conversation with my girlfriend recently about the same stuff. I don't have tremendously deep feelings for her and I "know" I'll never marry her. She obviously feels a lot more for me than I do for her. She appreciated my honesty, is glad I didn't break up with her (almost did and told her so), and we have a lot of fun together so she wants me to stop thinking so much and just enjoy it. Be honest and you can keep going, if not, you can't stay with her like the Skywalker said.

 

[madbomber31]

she knows.. i have never once told her i loved her... i have not bought her flowers or sent her cards (i would have if i had stronger feelings)... i've been upfront.... i never asked to be loved by her nor did i want it. i never did anything extra nice to her for those feelings... she says she fell for me when i was playing with the neighbors kid.... i shoulda smacked him i guess.

anyway, it looks like its talk time on monday... or i may tell her i need a week away from her (that would put it at 11 or 12 days away from her as she is gone now) and then let things kinda fade out....

or hell, she may be reading this and i aint got shit to worry about.

 

[May1010]

Tell her that if you have to see her face or listen to her voice, you're going to put her head in a bowling bag.

SG

 

[madbomber31]

ah, to put a nice spin on things... djane is coming to visit for 5 days at the end of the month... including my birthday.... when informed of this news the new girl should run....

god i feel like a prick.