How to start off a conversation with a girl i never called...

[Gettin' Bigger]

I got this girls number about 3 weeks ago, and right after that, I hooked up with a friend of hers. Now that's over, and I want to call up the first girl. What do I say to her when I call her? I don't think she dislikes me because I talked to her friend, well, they're not really friends. I've seen her around, and she always smiles at me, says hi, and tells me that she has some pictures of me that she's gonna develop, and she wants me to see them. I need to know what to say when I call her. What should that be? I'm gonna try to steer clear of talking about the pictures when I first talk to her, I need another conversation booster. Thanks guys (and girls).

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Talk to supersizeme. When I had this problem with Iesha, he stepped up to the plate and said "I swing my beat, at the playground"

And those, my confused partner, are words to live by.

Death.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You could start off with,"Hello."

 

[RyanH]

Smoke some marijuana and then call her----it will all make sense then.

 

[Gettin' Bigger]

Maybe I'll say 'Hi' instead of 'Hello'.

 

[Gettin' Bigger]

If I had some skunk, it would be gone by now. If I could get some serious help, that would be great, but if not, that's cool too.

 

[creamy_goodness]

Which one have you been seeing around? The first one or her friend? If its the first one you've seen talking about showing you pics, YOU'RE MONEY! Next time you see her, strike up a conversation. Bring up the pics thing and say something like, "hey, why don't I take you out for a drink/dinner and you can show me them.......and your boobs. Boobs line=optional.

 

[SLICEDBEEF]

This is more in the way you use your voice than what you say.
You SHOULD NOT speak in a tone that will make you seem desperate, you should speak like you DON'T GIVE A SHIT! Just be sure you are in a state of relaxation where you feel real calm and cool. Don't think of yourself as having to play some game on her, instead think of yourself with a real cool, laidback, confident ATTITUDE without sounding too cocky.

Don't use:

Hi, do you know who this is, how are you doing, do you want to do something?

Use:

"Wasup", and start talking about how you just found her number and wanted to know how she was doin and start in on any topic for conversation. She'll probally give you something to talk about when she says how she was doin or what she is doin. Ask her if your pictures look good? She will hopefully say: "yeah", then say "do they look real good?", then say what ever comes to your mind, be charming and LISTEN to what she says and she'll guide the conversation for you! DO NOT allow for more than a 2 second pause between topics or things get akward.

Just be sure you have a good conversation before you ask her to do something or you are guaranteed to get turned down.

I'd wish you good luck, but there is no luck involved, just ATTITUDE!

PEACE

 

[flex4life]

hmmm.. a guy calling & asking 'if his pics look good?... do they look real good?' nah, too self absorbed.

Humor is a great ice breaker.

Best 1st phone call ever rec'd: called me up & asked me to step outside & look up- it was a beautiful full moon... said, "just wanted you to see it. Talk w/ you soon." then he hung up.

Left me smiling, wondering, & wanting more.

 

[*Bump*]

Honesty...

"Bitch, I don't waste NO TIME, if ya wanna fuck, let's fuck, if not, then suck me off and stick yer tongue up in mah ass"