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How to pick up a chick at the Gym?
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piked up in the gym?
I am very focused and mentally into my workout when I am in the gym....I can't stand when people try to start random conversations while I am in the middle of a set. Now if they wait until I am resting between sets I can deal with that......always love to meet new people. I am not into getting picked up by random people, but if I were I would want it to be in the gym. I would want to know they have the same life goals that I do....working out! My only true love was met in the gym, and MAN....he is a hottie. Just watching the determination and hard work is a major turn on. Always being yourself and being honest will get you a long way with someone.....don't try too hard, because if she is attracted she will notice you.
From personal experience the gym is a good place to meet people, but don't go out bugging them while they are working out. Lady
I am very focused and mentally into my workout when I am in the gym....I can't stand when people try to start random conversations while I am in the middle of a set. Now if they wait until I am resting between sets I can deal with that......always love to meet new people. I am not into getting picked up by random people, but if I were I would want it to be in the gym. I would want to know they have the same life goals that I do....working out! My only true love was met in the gym, and MAN....he is a hottie. Just watching the determination and hard work is a major turn on. Always being yourself and being honest will get you a long way with someone.....don't try too hard, because if she is attracted she will notice you.
From personal experience the gym is a good place to meet people, but don't go out bugging them while they are working out. Lady
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buksoon
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Chivalry!
Okay, women can sniff out an agenda, right? So stifle it for a while. "BE DESIRELESS" was the advice of the lothario in The Tao of Steve .
Last night at the gym I must have had my "5 seconds away from cardiac arrest" face on because this guy came running over asking if I needed a spot. It was obvious there was no sexual interest there, no agenda at all. He had nothing to gain with that offer of help. Just being chivalrous. I wanted to jump on him right there.
So if you want practical advice: Start a casual chat with her about protein supplements. Tell her you discovered this awesome-tasting protein bar.
Then, just as a friend (no pressure, no making her feel uncomfortable) give her one of these bars that you happen to have in your car. Say: "That's alright, I got more at home" when she demurs. Don't be creepy about it. Just friendly. It's sexy when guys do things like that, trust me.
Okay, women can sniff out an agenda, right? So stifle it for a while. "BE DESIRELESS" was the advice of the lothario in The Tao of Steve .
Last night at the gym I must have had my "5 seconds away from cardiac arrest" face on because this guy came running over asking if I needed a spot. It was obvious there was no sexual interest there, no agenda at all. He had nothing to gain with that offer of help. Just being chivalrous. I wanted to jump on him right there.
So if you want practical advice: Start a casual chat with her about protein supplements. Tell her you discovered this awesome-tasting protein bar.
Then, just as a friend (no pressure, no making her feel uncomfortable) give her one of these bars that you happen to have in your car. Say: "That's alright, I got more at home" when she demurs. Don't be creepy about it. Just friendly. It's sexy when guys do things like that, trust me.
fistfullofsteel
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Buksoon, are you talking about Jay Steve? I heard of Sam Sneed. I'm still a litte confused about the candy bar thing. It does sound kind of creepy.
btw, i am the king of desireless unless it comes to the NY Greatest Team in all of Sports Giants winning the Super Bowl. I want, I want it, I want want want.
btw, i am the king of desireless unless it comes to the NY Greatest Team in all of Sports Giants winning the Super Bowl. I want, I want it, I want want want.
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buksoon
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Fists,
Okay I'm a Jerseyite and it's Big Blue all the way, but ... they've kinda been sucking lately. I used to watch them Sundays while doing cardio at the gym. I cheered like a lunatic, and cussed, too. The guys said: "That little girl sho' likes her football!"
My roomate in grad school was dating the official "towel boy" (he came from a long line of Giants towel boys; it's a big racket.) Anyway, on her birthday, the boyfriend/towel boy (now her husband) had PHIL SIMMS CALL HER! And they were in the playoffs that year!! (Her b-day is in January.)
She was like: "Thanks for calling, but don't you have more important things you should be doing right now???"
Okay, to the topic! It's not the actual $2 protein bar ... it's the gesture. All about the gesture, dammit!
"Be desireless" is from the movie The Tao of Steve. /I] It was about this guy with a beer gut that could have affected the tides. Really massively fat. But he got more women than he could handle by virtue of his game. He was the master. His credo: "Be desireless, be excellent, be gone."
That's all you need to know about picking up women. As a women listening to this, I found it skeevy and manipulative and a jerky thing to do. But I could also (grudgingly) see how it would be very, very effective.
Okay I'm a Jerseyite and it's Big Blue all the way, but ... they've kinda been sucking lately. I used to watch them Sundays while doing cardio at the gym. I cheered like a lunatic, and cussed, too. The guys said: "That little girl sho' likes her football!"
My roomate in grad school was dating the official "towel boy" (he came from a long line of Giants towel boys; it's a big racket.) Anyway, on her birthday, the boyfriend/towel boy (now her husband) had PHIL SIMMS CALL HER! And they were in the playoffs that year!! (Her b-day is in January.)
She was like: "Thanks for calling, but don't you have more important things you should be doing right now???"
Okay, to the topic! It's not the actual $2 protein bar ... it's the gesture. All about the gesture, dammit!
"Be desireless" is from the movie The Tao of Steve. /I] It was about this guy with a beer gut that could have affected the tides. Really massively fat. But he got more women than he could handle by virtue of his game. He was the master. His credo: "Be desireless, be excellent, be gone."
That's all you need to know about picking up women. As a women listening to this, I found it skeevy and manipulative and a jerky thing to do. But I could also (grudgingly) see how it would be very, very effective.
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fistfullofsteel
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buksoon said:
That slut married the towel boy? Hey, I wanted to marry the towel boy!!! Damn, looks like I will never get on the field during the game now. j/k about the looks like I will never get on the field during the game now part. j/k again. this whole thread is one big joke.
getting back to being desireless. i think lord byran wrote Don Juan's character based on a real life character who was actually kind of ugly but got the chicks because he had the skills to pay the bills or in this case get lots of women.
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buksoon
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The guy in the movie identifies Don Juan as his personal hero. His eventual one true love was like: "Don Juan? Oh yeah, cuz his relationships were so functional....."
Anyway, football freaks are not supposed to be quoting Byron. Did not get the memo? There was a memo.
Anyway, football freaks are not supposed to be quoting Byron. Did not get the memo? There was a memo.
fistfullofsteel
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buksoon said:
Nope, no memo, but I will punish myself before I go to bed for being a bad bad boy!!!!
Wanna help?
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buksoon
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Knee-jerk sexual innuendo, now that's more like that.
Kay, the world makes sense again.
Kay, the world makes sense again.
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