fistfullofsteel
Well-known member
Super Girl 22 said:dont you know you can never get any serious answers to questions like this?
but i'll try to help you out a bit....from my own perspective, you had better be a hottie if you are going to try to make a move on me at the gym. usually i show no interest in anyone. i go to the gym to workout, not socialize. can't stand when people try to make small talk with me. ......but that's just my opinion.....if she's like me, talk to her out in the parking lot or at the juice bar. tell her you think she's nice, cool, interesting or whatever choice words you want to use and ask her if she'd like to hangout one night outside of the gym, go get dinner or see a movie or something clever like that. see what happens...just be cool & be yourself.
Hey, I usually have my headphones on and I am usually looking at the machine or the weights. I went from one machine to another and there she was working out on a machine next to mine. I usually don't say anything, but she was sort of looking in my direction like she wanted me to say something. I said something and she came over and we chatted. I usually blow people off but I also get complaints that I am snobby, so if I see that somebody wants me to say something or wants to say something; I let them. Does that sound fair enough?