Never had a problem meeting new people, especially with a few drinks in me. On the other hand I can be really shy when in a big group of un knowns or unknown ladies even more so.
I drink so I'll be outgoing-otherwise I'd just sit there
when I used to bartend I behaved far different than my usual quiet self
then it was show time
I was a very involved with my customers type bartender
often encouraging to success customers to meet each other and dialog
I wore different "hats" behind the bar and was a character
what character I was that shift was how I felt and who was there
what would work
I do it here when I post as to me posting here is similar to my old bartending acts and entertaining
sometimes I'm don rickles
"seeing" people when they've been drinking and seeing people soon after a loved one close to them has died
you get the real mccoy
I bartended a dozen years
I'm in my 15 year as a mortician
yeah for the intellectual it's common to keep to self
I think it's part perfectionist in the intellect
you want every exchange or potential exchange to be "right"
LMFAO! I was so out of it I thought I was dreaming... er, having a nightmare. I had to go through my call log the next day just to verify that I actually talked to you.
I'll remember to turn my phone off next time. Give me a heads up text before you get to the bar.
So true... thats why I'm glad I've made an ass out of myself so many times, been overeager so many times, and blown it to decondition myself get over that voice that reeks of self importance... hard voice not to listen to though.
Can be so convincing at times.. but he's cost me too much